My Entitled Brother tries to PROPOSE to Girlfriend at MY WEDDING 😈 - Am I the Jerk? #shorts

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[VMPRBYRUMR]

Nah, man, you should let him boycott.He ain't worth it, tbh.If he wants to be entitled, he can be entitled to his parents.

[duskgaming]

Basically how the rest of the story goes is that, OP's brother continues to hound him and his parents continue as well, till OP threatens to stop providing financial aid to his parents to pay the mortgage that they took out for the brother to go to college (then drop out half way through, and later get a degree online anyways). OP's parents then start supporting OP instead of the brother. The brother gets angry, and turns to their grandmother instead, who also tries to hound OP about it. OP lays in the favoritism bs into his grandmother, makes her cry, the Brother whines about it, the parents then threaten to kick the brother out if he doesn't start paying them properly for rent, utilities, and food, he leaves and goes to live with the grandmother.

Brother's GF then dumps him over the bs happening, cause she eventually heard about it through mutual friends who knew about the situation. OP's brother whines to OP somemore and blames him for his GF breaking up with him, even though she told brother that she was planning on dumping him for a long while now, and that no matter when and where he proposed to her, she would've said no straight out, just that the situation going on was the straw for her.

So now OP's brother is single, mooching off of his grandmother instead of his parents, and bitter. The End

[ligitz]

You are NTA. if they don't respect your wishes on your wedding day, cut them out of your life. Stop enabling them even if they back down, and come to your wedding politely. Stop giving them money.

[hyperswain]

The worst part for me is the brother did not even have enough respect to ask privately he immediately involved the parents

[victoriagoodman]

If I was his girlfriend, I would be offended by the fact I had to share my engagement with someone else, that's another woman's day how rude

[MazerunnerEdits-NewtloverAO]

During a wedding if you propose infront of the couple that's disrespectful because the attentions supposed to be on them not the people proposing

[Peanut-Butter]

I’ve seen people propose at weddings but that was with permission from the bride and groom. If they don’t want you to do it then respect their wishes. They aren’t bad people if they don’t want to share their special day with you.

[lindamay]

Oh, no. Not the old boycott the wedding invitation. I'd think anyone contributing financial aid, would have the upper hand.

[megans]

😮‍💨 it's sad how whenever you hear these types of stories, it's not only ALWAYS someone super close to the couple getting married, but also ALWAYS someone who should know better, and basically seems to be doing this regardless of who they hurt

[speedy]

While it was correct to ask rather then do behind the grooms back it is generally considered poor grace to steal the spotlight from the couple getting married. If the couple disagrees then it's no, they are the ones whose purpose the event is for.

[robertsimpson]

No you're not the jerk it's you're wedding and make sure you're untitled big brother is no longer a part of your life and keep up the good work ❣️

[debracontrera]

HELL Stand strong and stand up for what you believe (& you’re 100% right too!! 😉👍🏼)

[stevensiferd]

Gotta say, I prefer the confectioner/cake decorating videos that accompany these shorts over the video game footage that go with the full length versions of these stories.

[ThunderrRush]

the guy with chocolate pool table is Amaury Guichon

[cesd]

TO ANY GUYS SIDING WITH THE OLDER BROTHER:

There is not a single sane girl on the planet that would be OK with being proposed to at a wedding, ESPECIALLY if the newlyweds didn't give permission.

Proposing at a wedding is a massive, MASSIVE no-no. We know weddings are a special day to celebrate the bride and groom - and ONLY THEM. NEVER take attention from the bride and groom. EVER.

DO NOT DO IT BOYS.

Honestly, for a lot of girls that's actually a hard no. Like you'll get dumped kind of hard no.
We don't care if we just caught the bouquet - DON'T DO IT. it is literally basic common decency.

If you have so little respect for people that you would propose on the biggest most important day of someone else's life and potentially ruin it by stealing the celebration - You obviously only care about yourself and what you want and don't care how it affects other people or their feelings. So, how the hell are you going to treat her?

If that red flag were any bigger, I'd be a California king sized quilt - the lack of respect and basic social empathy is ASTOUNDING.

It's also just lazy and impersonal. It's not special or about your partner in any way, and you just stole someone else's hard work planning a nice event. You didn't put in any effort and it's insulting. Even a casual dinner at her favorite restaurant, a quiet walk somewhere nice, or hell - even a night in, sitting on you couch watching movies is more intimate and personal than someone else's wedding and at least it shows you put in a little effort to make the time about the two of you.

[OneRandomDragonLover]

Proposing at someone else's WEDDING? Don't even think about it. That's their day, not yours.

[Flwer_bch]

If he did boycott ur wedding
Girlfriend :disappointed
Rest of family :disappointed
Me:disappointed

[pg_xx]

If anyone wants to boycott your wedding bc they’re are too cheap to propose anywhere else. Let them, all you need is the bride/ groom

[dougkeyes]

Yes you are you think she's going to say yes 😂😂😂😂😂

[JazmJoker]

Bro be like TSC when he gets angry in this