Boost your Personal Charm with the 3SP | @ShadeZahrai #shorts

[singsingmei]

tired it on my friend. 3 seconds of pure awkwardness. 😅

[meerakothari]

I didn't realize I had interaction anxiety until recently. Many times I get nervous, anxious and scared when I am spoken to or asked something. I often blurt out something that instantly comes to my mind, often defending myself or protecting myself in some way. I often give my power away for fear of being insulted rejected or humiliated by someone. I am also afraid of someone questioning, debating or arguing with me about something I said. I often "know" something., but I don't know why and how I know it or how I arrived at such and such conclusion. Hence explaining my thought or my point is not always easy for me. That leaves me feeling helpless and defeated in case someone questions my statement. This strategy is powerful. Hopefully the 3 second pause will allow me to collect my thoughts and remember the facts on which I based my statement. Thank you so much for this tip. Greatly appreciate it ❤

[--xx--]

I listen and learn all these things before but whenever a practical situation comes somehow I manage to forget all these things and go through the same anxiety and do the same mistakes again and again 😭😭

[denisemorris]

This is excellent. Its success also depends upon the other communicator having adequate poise and patience to not intrude on this pause. Interrupting, and discomfort with space in a conversation, has become standard. Please let's maintain the pause! It is a key to good communication.

[nvdadamoon]

confidence comes from within. the superficial stuff doesn't matter. a confident person will be confident, pause or no pause.

[cavallopazzo]

Growing up around Sociopaths and Narcissists I always struggled with that as I was trained to be hyper-responsive at all times. Luckily, I'm slowly deconditioning myself now.

[SigmaSecrets.]

It only works if you're talking to crowds Or giving interview. Don't try with friends otherwise it get awkward 😂

[Atjavs]

Confidence comes from doing the inner work, anyone who don't think so, haven't gone through it, therefore has no idea, there's delusional confidence, (the feeling lucky one) and genuine confidence, the feeling worthy.

[tradingmyway]

So True, Shadé! It's all about control at the end or to begin with. 😊💐

[elizabethb.]

This is such a game ❤🎉 In life, personal relationships, and at work!

[BlackDragon]

You spread this magnetism in each of your videos (and you bring a lot of value).
Respect😌.

[ethanbrunt]

Confidence 101: Have an undeniable stack of truth that you are who you say you are

[Amirfresno]

The best said indeed, Doc. Cheers 🙏🤍✨️

[lefunkable]

It's true...I'm like that and have learn to do it. Sometimes when you respond to someone instantly, you may get a negative reply...and you will keep making mistakes for a lifetime. Most of the times, it's your emotions that react to the conversations and then when you're alone...you will ask yourself a lot of questions. Should I have respond this or that???... And it's too late. The mistake is done already. A lot of people have that Ego. Their answers are always the best and don't want to learn nothing more further...'cause they know better. Great video, like it

[MohammadRizwanWaraichChan]

Excellent, Because She Speak Very Fast, and True. ❤❤❤

[PowerDeckSystem]

I really like this! It’s simple but I know from personal experiences that it is truly powerful. In a world where most people rush simple presence is a superpower.

[johnstagl]

It's also a great tip when communicating in a foreign language. Pause and articulate slowly.

[deepakobserveyourselfthrou]

Thank you univérse i strongly claim this positive energy 1111❣️❣️❣️❣️

[Sandra_xxii]

Some people just look at you when you talk and they smile and say nothing. When people do this it seems like they’re judging you and can’t wait for you to leave so they can gossip about you like a bunch of boing stuck ups even if you’re a kind and charismatic person. Actually, the more positive traits you have, the more they’ll envy you and try to turn people against you. I’m learning just how cruel this world is. I just smile and continue to light up a room everywhere I go. They can’t stop me! 😊

[RD]

If you have nothing nice to say best to remain silent. The person who is silent has more power. If you talk negatively about others- others will think you will talk negatively about them as well. Thank you.