Unhealthy INFJ: 7 Signs You're an Unhealthy INFJ

Signs of an unhealthy, underdeveloped, or immature INFJ. Fear not, there is hope.
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[norbert]

INFJs: *living in virtual reality since forever*

[lovingtheunlovable]

I constantly feel like I am not who I am when I’m interacting with people

[nicolevaniderstine]

Also my brain rn “if I quit my job, flee to the mountains and journal, plan, and meditate while fasting for a month everything will be fine”

[rebeccalazure]

"You have to just let people be angry, be sad. You don't have to make it better." That hit hard and true.

[nywvblue]

The reason why I don't share all of the observations, ideas, and even solutions I dream up is because I tell myself that everyone else has surely thought the same thing. Self sabotage is pretty much a part-time job.

[fillerhandle]

I’ve never felt so attacked yet so understood in my life

[Jennifer-dinl]

“Responsible for others emotions ALL the time.” —BINGO!!!! We are a delicacy for Narcissistic people.

[Potato-munu]

As an INFJ I truly don't understand why people are so fake and shallow. We could be having deep conversations about things that matter or are really interesting, but most people tend to only care about surface level concepts. I want to dive deep, really discuss what makes nature behave the way it does, really enjoy the richness of the universe...and then I realize I'm having all these thoughts and the person I'm with is talking about what shoes they want to buy next.

[miajade]

I'm a 19 year old female INFJ. I've felt alienated, insecure, misunderstood, been labelled as an 'old-soul' my whole life. Something has always seemed off with me. I've seen countless psychologists, been labelled with having ADD. Never. In my entire life have I EVER come across something so incredibly accurate. You have just described my life and what's been 'wrong with me' for 19 years. I've always wished 'god if only I knew what was wrong with me and how to fix it' and your video here answered my question. All those hours I've spent in therapy rooms and money I've wasted when your 30 minute, FREE video gave me this lifetime build up sense of relief, understanding, comfort. I seriously thought I was the only one in the world like this. From the bottom of my heart thank you, thank you, thank you. Damn, can I make a donation to you or something? Youve changed my life

[terraaw]

The real world hurts tho. My fantasy world feels so much safer and I wish it was real

[craziichick]

He protecc
He attacc
But most importantly





He got our infj bacck
... That was lame but love you frank ❤️

[tomjerry]

The worst part of being an INFJ is we get irritated by the way people deal with things, because we can see the core of every situations and according to our POV they're overreacting almost all time, we can even see the POV of a person who hurt us and you hate them for what they done but the next moment you're giving them benefit of doubt and empathising with them

[bbhdd]

me: yeah I'm a pretty healthy INFJ
me after watching this video: oh..oh no

[gailkoch]

I think the reason INFJs don't let people in easily is because they feel disappointment so profoundly. So they tend to read people easier up front to avoid profound disappointment later.

[RailorGamesYT]

Imagine being an INFJ with depression, anxiety and addiction.


Edit : Thanks for the likes, makes me feel understood.. We can win this battle!

[agnesszentgyorgyi]

“You don’t do anything, because you’re afraid of getting it wrong” It hurts because it’s true

[amymoondarling]

29 minutes of just straight roasting me. Ok thanks.

[roisinnigcrainn]

"Lacking identity"
**me, watching MBTI videos trying frantically to figure myself out**
😮

[jessicaazcue]

Making sure we pronounce things correctly

One of the most infj things

[deannadolan]

Unhealthy INFJs are more likely to have a fearful avoidant attachment style. That combination reinforces living in our head and being disconnected from the self. It causes a big pendulum swing between getting close to someone then abruptly pulling away. I woke up to all of this last year and have been working on myself since. The world opens up when we're willing to compassionately take accountability for how we get in our own way. On a side note - I completely relate to struggling to actually record the videos. Currently working on overcoming that.💕