Are you in a one-sided relationship? Esther Perel

[simplyher]

The "barely notices" got me 😞

[CrystalDatingCoach]

That's when you WALK away. If the plant is dead... No amount of water can make it come alive again.

[yvy]

So so so true. And is so heartbreaking 💔..when the other person is not interested in you because it has became too lazy to put an effort building togetherness..😔

[steadypace]

When it's dead it's dead bury it and move on sometimes you have to take a tough stance especially when you are an empathic person.🕊

[alexandraayeone]

So true. I've not been seen or heard for nearly 6 years. Mocked occasionally.... never seen or heard. Chosen to be single now and feel more fulfilled

[clairelouwho]

So eloquently explained. Thank you Esther.

[sarahmelton]

I’m 7 years into a relationship, we’ve lived together the whole time. I’m exhausted. I do as much as I can for him but finally coming to terms that I’m not receiving anything back, at all.

[valdius]

Unless both people put in the effort, the relationship dies.
Most logically thinking people understand that when they enter the relationship, but as time goes on they take it for granted.

Both men and women.

Sometime couples are fine as they have satisfying life outside of marriage and don’t need that much physical connection.
For those who need
connection this is a disaster.

[vivayo]

8 years of this and explaining it to my partner. he still does not get it. he says we have no couple issues. of course not for him. i truly pay attention, see him and demonstrate it. after 8 years here, now is on me, i guess.

[Mikebannerman-lq]

Finally happy to have My Ex back after we separated for 6 months, Thanks for making this possible, want to fix your relationship issues, I recommend this relationship Physician

[BillieBrennan-uf]

Always remember that these things are not black & white. You have to put into context what is going on during that period of time. Unfortunately, I’ve personally experienced that those who say they were relentlessly communicating, opt to go outside the marriage and then blame you for not being there for them are just making excuses to try to condone their bad behavior. Something in THEM is broken. You NEVER step outside your marriage - it only proves that YOU were never “in” it to behind with. The vows you made in front of friends, family and GOD meant nothing to you. It’s the same story over and over again and I’m sick of advice that cannot be applied to every person or circumstance.

[StationOutlook]

And thats exactly why i ran like the wind after 1 whole year of that

[Forheavenssakeify]

We have to see out their eyes. When we see what they see, they see what we see, our vison is united, shared, excited, engaged- "Two sided", I guess? When one sees only their own goals, it's "one sided".

[oddballchic]

Yes, this is real. If you don’t feel your loved ones with you even when you are apart, what even is that?

[mettegrundt]

I was and after 6, 5 years… I left. He found a new in less than 3 months… he can not be alone… and now many of the things I asked for is possible . So hope she is happy… because I surely wasn’t 👍🏻

[patriciaengle]

Amen, goeie preek, Esther ! U got that right !

[annlatham]

Hi Esther! Will you please think about going on Valeria Lipovetsky’s podcast one day? ❤🙏🏼

[jack-e-designs]

That’s why I haven’t lived with a man in 8yrs and no man has any claim on my property!

[timothywilson]

O yes, you exsist for me, I think of your relationship talks often or at least, frequently .

[contactlim]

Then what’s the solution to this kind of problem??