3 Common Breakup Tips that Will KILL Your Chances of Ever Getting Your Ex Back!

With so much advice on the internet, you need to be able to take what you believe to be true and act on it.

These are some of my ideas about breakups and getting back together!

If you want to go over your situation in a one-on-one coaching call, click here!

[aaronwwilliams]

This is some of the most practical, honest advice I've seen on a relationship channel. Much better than mystifying, plan selling, just what you want to hear stuff thats on other channels. Thanks for the video and looking forward to the breadcrumbing one.

[vop]

Let’s see that bread crumbing video king

[TPPL]

Thank you so much for these videos Cole - I follow you on instagram and your stuff on there has helped me so much but these YouTube longer videos are even better!! You are very calming and make everything very understandable to get my head around the break up and what the next steps are. I’m so glad I found your content, you have made it a lot more bearable!

[brandonchao]

what if we've been in no contact for a week and she posted on her close friends (which I'm hidden from) where a lot of our mutual friends can see and she know they will send it to me. She posted a video with a compilation of like pictures of her friends and her and me and the caption was: "Why do some people go into a supermarket and still buy bottled water with so many choices of drinks? Even though the first sip of a drink tastes good, you only get thirstier the more you drink it. Bottled water has no taste but it quenches your thirst" It's a Chinese idiom and she means that I'm the "bottled water" and the guy she's tempted to date is the "drink". Should I break no contact for a indirect way of reaching out or should I keep doing no contact?

[almab]

I am thrilled 😂i love this guy coaching ❤I am still hoping that my ginger ex will come back and apologize for what he did.

[cerico]

Thank you 4 this video. You look really honest. I’ve got dumped after 25 years for different reasons. Now, after 2 months is looking like she is avoiding me in anyway possible (according to her) ‘cause she is soffering from it. But at the same time, she already have someone else she is “dating” with, which to me, doesn’t match… I don’t know what to think, apart the fact that I love her…

[chrismistretta]

You are the best relationship coach I’ve come across

[themilkyfx]

Thank you for these long form videos, keep them coming ❤

[quantumfluxuation]

Hearing you say dumper never gets old. Such a goofy term

[Neha-qp]

we're in the same college and we were in the same friends group I left the group we see each other every day, how is he gonna miss me if we see each other every day, college gonna end in 4 months, he'll leave the city and we'll never see each other again

[Jewel_Screaming_Chango]

What if we been on and off they block us on one social media platform but stalk us on others tells us she loves me. It doesn’t wana be with anyone

[david]

We were about to move to Orlando together and she broke up with me 3 weeks just before the move in date and moved in to the apartment by herself. I peaked at Tinder and a week later she made a profile. Pretty sure she's not coming back and she moved on extremely fast.

[Eliza_Ibarra_]

He told me he didn’t want to be with me 1 week ago & that we should go our separate ways which I respected then he reached out 2 days ago to tell me about his promotion I texted back told him I was proud then he stopped replying then I asked if he was serious about parting ways he said “yeah because of you accusing me of having someone else it took away my happiness” I told him I’d change but that wasn’t enough he grew colder the more I tried to convince him to stay & didn’t want to work through this small problem what should I do?

[DeeK]

but what if she left me for someone else? have you had cases where women left for someone else and came back?

[trendyfairy]

How about we not officially break up but he said he need space to think about our relationship. He just felt that he is not enough for me and afraid his selfishness and longing for freedom will hurt me more. But he also dont want to lose me. We still talking like normal things for a week without any romantic communication. And yesterday he said he wants to try again with me but he is scared and ask for my opinion about it. I tell him if he is not happy with me I will let him go. And he said he wanna try to find back the feeling with me again. Now im scared if i do anything wrong he will pull back again. Im scared losing him but i dont want to love only on one side. Help me

[sophiekamp]

but when you told them ur boundaries that “u actually want no contact but u watched their tiktok account as a coping mechanism and you’re sorry” and they text “u can always text me” and after that u don’t reply. cause u want the keep the no contact. is that bad then? 😢😢

[Cece-mcbm]

What about if your ex hasn’t posted anything except a post about feeling lost? Watches all my stories
No contact since break up close to 3 weeks

[Jakuboooooooooo]

If you haven’t already, can you make a video on mixed signals and hot&cold behavior? Currently dealing w that from my ex

[Peeeacee]

What if someone left you when you needed them the most and now when you’re moving on and healing (it’s been about a month), they just send you random text like, - Have you filled your taxes?
No hi how are you nothing.

Will it count as them reaching out? Should we have to reply then?

[Ellazxx]

If he does reach out indirectly how do we know its not a breadcrumb?
Most likely it is if I ignore it and he says “oh well I guess she moved on” and then he never tries again.
Shouldn’t he be willing to message me directly and tell me he misses me or ask to meet to talk or something to show he is wanting to reconnect in a more meaningful way and his message is more then a breadcrumb?