'Girls Trips' Should We Trust Them?

Caroline and Corey discuss a viewer question that asks about girls trips and if we should trust women who go on them.

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[TedNewkirk]

I'd never trust someone completely who is a NEW girlfriend. Trust is earned and takes time.

[modernman]

Trust is earned. I've told my current LTR if she want to go out with her single friends who are out there picking up random bar dudes she will be single with them. Trust your instincts and just realize some people are not to be trusted.

[lionelkennedy]

If she wants to cheat, then there's nothing you can do about it. I agree, Coach

[avenue.central]

On a couple's trip I brought up a story about my girlfriend (at the time) and her friend smoking weed. Apparently the boyfriend on the trip didn't know that she was doing that on "girls night/trip" which caused an argument. When my ex got mad at me for mentioning the story in that moment I began to grow suspicious of her. Why? Because if your friend is doing things that she's hiding from her boyfriend I started to think "what are you doing that you don't want me to know about". You are who you associate with. A few months later it went from suspicion to irrefutable and wazam! She's an ex lol

[suebotchie]

Girl trips. Respectable gals go to lunch together, do alittle shopping, or meet up at the nail studio. Ya know, during the daylight, and then are home in the evening. Going out at night, is what she and her boyfriend do. Weekend trips are places she goes with her husband.

[devnotes]

Personally I don't mind being away from each other for a time but if the person you're dating values the relationship she and her friends wouldn't put themselves in a compromising situation

[devin]

Clearly she's all for the girls trips and will call you "insecure" if you don't let em. No surprises here.

[elroco]

I'd never trust them. And if my woman still talking about "girls trip, " she doesn't have to worry about me anymore. When woman get together, it's always misbehavior going on. I see how they act, and some of them be married or in serious relationships. They get drunk and stand on top of table dancing and acting a fool. Men, take your time and respect yourself.

[Miketravelz]

If she is taking a girls trip to either Vegas or Miami and majority of her friends are single that relationship would be over as soon as she gets on the plane.

[cqualif]

I don’t really trust girls trips or girls night outs, so I’m staying single or will be with someone that share similar values. I feel more comfortable just dating and knowing that there isn’t a commitment where she’s probably mingling anyways without seeming insecure.

[smasolo]

Most of the time I agree with is earned. I have seen plenty of girls night out. If my wife wanted to go to Vegas with her friends, it would be a red flag. I do not know one person who got into a relationship who thought they would be cheated on vetted or not. I don't plan on cheating and certainly do not put myself in an environment where that is possible. I still have attraction to beautiful women.

[tedcrilly]

what would patrice say.
tell her to stay an extra week. don't call.

[bradley]

Trust isnt just letting your gf do what she wants! trust is when you know your women makes right choices for the better of the relationship and know shes got your back 100% of the time, if your gf is going on girls trip with single girls, you know shes putting herself in a bad situation because shes gonna be with single girls and go to places where single guys go to get single girls, if your girl is getting to know new places and do single things without you, why as a leader and a man are you letting that happen? funny how women call boundries toxic or controlling, i have deal breakers, mine are no guy friends and no girls holidays and no going to bars or clubs ! if she wants me to be exclusive with only her than she needs to act like shes taken . Men dont realize only power we have is to walk away if a women doesnt respect you, if you cant walk away you already lost the war because she will not respect you and wont be attracted to you

[starseed]

The destination she want to go with her girlfriends will reveal alot

[r.maelstrom]

Red flag: "wanderlust" on their social media profile.

[Jakobslander]

I would not stick around if my girl/wife were to express her desire to go on vacation with her female friends: my time is -ucking gold, and her telegraphing she needs some space (aka girls-only trip) then the relationship is over.

A wiser man once told me:”a married woman’s worst enemy are her single friends.” They just don’t get it. They can’t wrap their heads around the fact that the single ho es are trying to get the ring off of her finger. Misery loves company.

[bigd]

it’s like a girls night out, but worse. right now she is getting “ran through like a yellow light”

[raymondjames]

The girl is playing games with him already plus it doesn't seem like she is into him as much as he thinks

[geovannivm]

It really depends on who you are dating. If she is open that she used to like party, being drunk and getting random guys, it is going to take some time for her to change that mindset. Being with other single girls and drinking in college-like party will probably trigger her. Same goes for guys. It is just human nature.

Now, if your girl clearly is a calm person that likes to stay at home and was invited by girls with a similar behavior, it should be good.

[motorcycleguy]

Most women are 9-year-olds in grown up bodies. Would you let your 9-year-old daughter or niece go to Vegas or girls trip on her own. No, she get herself into trouble right. Same with adult women, but like the coach says, so you gotta trust her. Some women are trustworthy all about her upbringing and her friends