The Only Way to Heal | Matthew Hussey

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[lindaalfonso]

We all go through pain and handle it in different ways. There’s anger, denial, blame, feeling sad and/or unworthy, etc. Talking about it and having compassion for each other is key.

[dignoraguzman]

Matthew Hussey teachings are clear and logical!!🧠

[ExoticalT]

Exactly!

If someone does/did me “dirty”, it’s not MY fault, it’s their fault - they’re the problem, not me.

…my only responsibility is to set strong boundaries and heal myself. ♥️

[carol-usxn]

Truest thing said 💯 I know that it's the truth. A new day.

[RonWesterbeek]

Partly like your point. Nothing wrong to have compassion for the fact we allowed it to go through. Enjoy your approach anyway. 🙂

[spinnettdesigns]

This is extremely important because (and if) it’s honest.
When we feel ashamed of a bad relationship and try to “explain away” or disrespect and gaslight ourselves that “it was no big deal” or “maybe I was immature…” or any number of things that takes blame on to yourself if it doesn’t belong there, then healing cannot take place because the shame is ongoing and will only fester.
One must face what truly happened to be able to heal forward. Without a target, there will be no direction to go in…
I used to tell our son “the un-aimed arrow always misses” pretending something didn’t happen perpetuates unhealthy patterns.

[anamariaguban]

The real healing I felt when I changed the past experience with a new experience. Yes I was scared of new but i felt good even was a different type of pain because my wound was touched.

[lorimullen]

Very Good, people that had really wrong done to them by another need programs to enter into for help to realign back on track.

[Bettina-qn]

Yes, I thought about decades it is my fault, I am wrong but I changed completely! I know now I am
NOT guilty and I can forgive and let it go! I am not broken, I became very very strong

[amberedie]

What happened was supposed to happen. I'm here on Earth taking the curriculum, we all get hurt, we all hurt others. I choose to use my past pain for purpose
I choose to learn from the pain I've caused as well and keep evolving

[buddhaneosiddhananda]

Life will keep being a struggle... until you figure it out...

[Recoveryasrrrfgrdbgsdff]

It becomes your identity. Others look down on you. Your the problem. I'm making it up. You need to cut ties to apply your insight. Thank you for validating any one who has been harmed by Amy kind abuse ❤

[contributepositivevibes]

This is true in general. However someone that is ALREADY in a victim mindset will take this out of context and feel more like a victim.

I think you would need to watch the entire video to fully understand what Matthew is saying.