Your Value Is Not Tied To Being In A Relationship

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[teoleno]

When women truly loves herself, she will prefer solitude over relationship drama.

[hotcocoacinamonbrown]

Uhm....just a slight bit of pushback...I believe when it's advised that women do not give "Wifely privileges" to every man; it is to protect women from getting used and abused by men who seek to exploit a woman for their own gain. Denying men "wifely privileges" helps women weed out the narcissist from men who have the true intentions of being who they say they are. Basically the real men interested in being who they are walk the walk and talk the talk without trying to swindle women of their peace. Denying men "wifely privilege" also applies to not treating a bum to a castle, a woman's monetary contributions, luxuries, etc as well as a woman's body and womb. Children who he can either abandon or make like himself.

[trisha]

🙏🏾 Praying for men to start acting like husbands so they can partner with women acting like wives 🙏🏾
🙏🏾👩🏾‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾❤️

[bohosoul]

Being a good woman to a man who ultimately doesn't value you or your time is soul crushing. Afterwhile you just stop caring. Move on before it's too late/you become jaded.

[tstewart]

"She's a wife while she's single." 🎯 The work of building her feminine value in her singleness is key. Pastor Blakes is the truth. #WifeEnergy

[mirandarebecca]

I enjoy being alone. You don’t have to compromise with another person and I don’t trust anyone else but myself so it’s good for me.

[angelaabron]

In the time of being single, you should be working on being the best version of yourself. Learn to love and respect yourself. So when you do start dating you enter a relationship knowing who you are and what you want.

[Emptytopfloor]

Not every woman wants to get locked down. Good talk as always.

[DDemzz]

I've listened to advice like this for years, dated level headed men, and I'm still single. I call BS on all of it at this point. Men don't want to be married whether godly or not; this is the season on the earth right now, and it sucks to be in the midst of it because i have a desire that's not being fulfilled. And if i consistently suppress this desire, i risk killing desire completely, and may not want it anymore when this marriage famine is over.

[pink]

I agree being single is not a curse but people view it as there's something wrong with you especially if you're a woman and childless such as myself.

[Cookie]

What should men do to prepare to be husbands?

[Pamperedrita]

I didn't realize how your platform has changed. Relatable refreshing reminder that was right on time. Thank you for being obedient to Christ. It matters.

[joyt]

9:55 contentment is everything. This makes a worthy man work hard for the prize. He knows he has to come correct and fast.

[vannisworld]

This is 💯. As soon as I realized my worth being single, I don't have time to entertain anything that is not what God wants for me. Now, I have men trying to actually date me, and pull my attention to want to commit. I am taking my time, and it is more worth it than being with someone just to have a relationship. For anyone that is single and feeling lonely (it happened to me for sure). God wants you to have what you want and deserve in the right partner. Focus on what you want for yourself and don't bend your values. It's worth it!

[stefblanco]

I met RC Blakes last year. I love him. He is my mentor ♥️

[SCALES]

Brother Shumake, you are right about reading the word and learning about yourself. For with much wisdom comes much sorrow cause the Bible is truly the blueprint to life. If only I knew that sooner but better late than never.
Stay in the fight brother 💪🏾 🙌🏾🙏🏾💯.

[ForbsieLaLa]

While no one truly wants to be alone, I really need for people to stop the narrative that you are somehow defective or have not lived your purpose if you do not become a wife or husband or in the long run parent. If people are genuinely trying to find someone to give them peace of mind and build community with you do not want to settle and be deceived by material things and pretty words. I love what he said about relationships because we need to understand while we talk about not caring what others say and how they perceive us, we will only attract what we portray.

[Karla-opgn]

For me one of the annoying things about being a single fulfilled women of God as you define Shumake, people don't believe you can be happy by yourself. They always assume something is wrong with me, they make you feel like your faking your happiness or trying to save face, when I am not.
Because I believe in God's will and I always pray whatever happen, just don't make me bitter, take bitterness out my heart.

[chronicfatiguehermithiker]

It’s true, when she’s contents, she attracts men, unfortunately many of them want to trap her so that they won’t lose her; this involves taking away her freedom and worse, eroding her confidence, and even worse, many of them will look up to her but will feel angered by that, so to fix it, he will destroy her, but it won’t be enough, because the more he destroys her the lower he feels about himself, so he can never stop looking up to her, so the destruction continues. The Bible saying singleness is best for those who can do it is Gods mercy on women. (1 Corinthians 7:38)

[soulpower]

This conversation is exhausting. There’s hardly ever a focus on “husband energy” even when men should be the leaders and “finding” a wife! Majority of these men are horrible people and don’t appreciate wholesome, godly women. Being single is more peaceful, safe and enjoyable. Focus on God’s purpose for you and getting closer to Him.