Top 5 Body Language Mistakes You're Probably Making

Don’t underestimate the importance of nonverbals in game.

📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
00:20 - “Bro…”
00:50 - Congruence
02:30 - Shy guy and cocky guy
03:00 - Calm and relaxed?
05:30 - T-Rex Arms
06:00 - Pecking
07:30 - Squat
09:00 - Presenter mode
10:20 - Nodding and smiling
11:30 - Eye contact
13:35 - Traits that convey confidence
14:10 - Good enough is good enough

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[swaggybaconcheese]

Broke up with my ex and it really hurts but it would hurt a whole lot more without Todd's guidance.

The fact that this man shares all this gold makes me know that I'll be okay.

[Viewable]

Easiest 2 ways to overcome body language problems: a) always expect success at what you want to achieve in the next moment, and b) put *yourself* on a pedestal (the man is the price for the girl to win). This implies that you don't want to get anything from the girl, instead you implicitly offer emotions to the girl like fun, excitement, tenderness, intimacy, pleasure, companionship (the emotions she yearns after). Remember guys: you are the price for the girl to win. If you have this _inner game, _ you will also automatically come up with ways to disqualify and qualify her and provoke her to qualify herself to you: give *her* shit tests to overcome and prove her worthiness towards you.

[NM-hqio]

Todd, I just want to say thanks for emphasising how your self image & inner value are key to success in life, not just women —> appreciate how you, Owen, Julian, etc, don’t just teach people how to get women but ultimately how to value themselves more in order to achieve everything they want. Respect

[YearOldBunta]

So true man, I found that I would work myself up too much and I'd carry this nervous energy into the first meet up. Now I listen to music right up until like a block away and I'm much more comfortable and I have a more natural energy when I meet them.

[twoplustwoequals]

if the most important thing is what you believe as you say in 15:13,
you should be doing video about that!

[RUNDMC-]

another excellent video, you have unnatural ability to teach this stuff logically. def the best pick up teacher out there. I don't know how you can convey so much in short time, learned so much about psychology in general from you. thanks

[svenphil]

Most important part your last words: "What you believe about yourself will be communicated"

[max_rove]

This is a very important video, and highly underrated topic.
Most guys just don't understand that their body language is more important than all the bullsh*t that comes out of their mouths.
I'm a 34 year old guy, and every time I try to teach the younger ones this stuff, it goes in one ear, and out the other. Some things people will just have to learn the hard way.

[k.sallar]

The big brother we all needed but never had... I love you Todd

[BaltTV]

Thanks for this. It pointed out some of the shit I did out of habit, especially the overly smiling and nodding.

[RedRumble]

Thanks Todd! That’s classic from you that I loooove seeing in my feed. I understand that u ve covered pretty much all of game stuff during the years of making videos but this reminders of basics are so damn useful! So thanks, I’m soon going back to uni so it’s good to remind myself of these things

[idpl]

Brief, useful and practical. While the amount of improvements that could be done may be a lot, the sole concept of not overthinking is extremely helpful. Thinking too much makes everything more and more difficult to resolve each time, to the point it is felt as impossible. Be careful, people!

[yoyojuana]

A good video from Todd after a long time.

[shanecreamer]

Todd, for those of us who may not buy your program, you should have a $$ Thanks button so I can kick you down $10.00 for some great tips.

This is very powerful & helpful for those of us getting back into the game!

[RedRumble]

The point about kneeling made me laugh cuz I remembered myself 6 years ago in high school when I was kneeling in front of a girl ( attractive) just to hear her better💀💀💀
Jesus I remember exactly which class it was in and around which line of desks😅
Obviously had no idea about any game at that time and now I laugh at my old self, this memory made my morning today. Thanks Todd!

[mhballer]

the hero we deserve and need right now

[marioottaiano]

I use body language a lot, it helps you to get attention in both negative and positive ways with respect to how you do it, but essentially body language is the result of what's in your mind, in your brain and what are your thoughts. The mind leads, the body follows, fix your mind first and the body language comes naturally, if you try to focus on adjusting your body language without fixing your mind your body language reflects fake thoughts and people around you understand it, they test you and you freak up yourself.
The most powerful trait to me is eye-contact, it asserts dominance, you get attention and you have the occasion to show genuine interest to the person you are interacting with, if you use strong eye-contact while someone is talking to you they feel drown to you and they are open to share everything with you, you inspire trust and loyalty.
In the beginning I was used to do the exercise by staring at people in order to train my eye-contact, eye-contact is not so easy to do, you might feel uncomfortable in doing it, but if you practice the exercise of staring at people you understand the limit and you gradually adjust it

[harman]

No matter what people say but Todd has always been Top G

[mikereilly]

Proximity helps me at times too. When I notice that I'm not in front of her or that I'm standing too far away, I make those little corrections. Great Video as usual I learned a lot about Body Language just now. Thanks Todd!

[rockojero]

It’s been awhile, nice to see Todd again