The RUNNER'S BIGGEST BLOCK in The Twin Flame Journey

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In this video Serena talks about the runners biggest block and how they can begin to manage it. The runner struggles with self love and feeling worthy of the relationship. Sometimes they worry they may damage or hurt the chaser and the downfall of the relationship will be because of them. Watch this video for more information and put your questions below!

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[LifeAfterUnion]

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[BalancedBunny]

As a runner who's twin passed away, just love them before the Lord takes them...

[alux]

When one twin is running from the connection and the other is chasing them instead of looking inwards, there comes a point where the chaser becomes exhausted and doesn’t want to continue the pursuit anymore.

There is a point where one or both of you will enter in this next phase of surrender. Surrendering means doing the inner work on you while handing over the outcome of your connection to God. It’s not about convincing yourself “if it’s meant to be then it will be” while refusing to work on your own healing. That’s denial, not surrendering.

True surrendering is knowing that you can’t control the outcome by trying to force the reunion in any way. We need to master ourselves, master our own healing, overcome the ego, fears, the illusions, and master unconditional love. These are the only things we can control.

While we are working on ourselves, we must learn to trust in the Divine that the union will happen as a result of us working on healing ourselves and giving our Twin Flame the space to work on themselves as well.

When we surrender our connection to the Divine, we learn that we can and do love our twin whether we are physically united with them or not. We love them even if they are letting ego control them.

Some twins are tempted to just sit there waiting, and waiting, praying for their twin to change so they can reunite. Sitting and waiting for your twin shows them that you are always there no matter what so they aren’t motivated to do the work.

Surrendering is not abandoning your twin. It’s simply assisting them to work through their problems, which will help them. You’re not giving up. You are simply recognizing that waiting at their feet is actually stopping them from healing, because you are giving them an easy way out of facing their fears.

Instead of getting upset and continuing to give away your power, you must love and respect yourself, and love and respect your twin by giving them distance, surrendering the connection to Divine Guidance and timing and stop waiting at their feet.

By doing this, you love yourself by creating healthy boundaries and you love your Twin Flame by snapping them out of their ego illusions. You no longer allow them to sit idly in their illusions so they don’t have to overcome them in order to reach you.

Surrendering is the ultimate test for Twin Flames. Are you willing to let go of your fears (illusions) of separation and trust in the truth of Source to bring you back to oneness with your Twin? Are you able to release your fears of abandonment so you can stop trying to control the outcome? Only when you truly trust, can reunion occur. If you don’t trust, you are still living in the illusion of separation.

Many times Twin Flames fear that if they walk away, then their twin will never make the necessary changes to come forward and unite. They fear that if they walk away then they will lose them. If this does happen, then they were either not your Twin Flame, or they aren’t willing to heal themselves enough for reunion.
Surrendering means living your own life. If you are waiting around for them, then you are not ready to unite either.

The time will come when it will feel completely natural to surrender and give up control. Your soul will have reached the point where it will naturally want to live authentically, and interacting with your Twin Flame in a way where the ego blocks will feel exhausting. You will naturally feel your soul pulling away from your Twin Flame if he/she’s not ready to interact with you through their heart centre.

Your soul will be urging you to surrender and walk away from waiting on them because the Universe wants you to release any co-dependency on your part, as well as make your Twin Flame face the pain that arises when you distance yourself, so they too can heal their own co-dependency.

There will be a shift inside of you when you truly surrender. It will feel like liberation. You no longer have to worry if you are doing things right or wrong. You are centering yourself and handing things over to Divine guidance and timing, and handing the outcome to the Universe.

In order to recognize the truth of your soul, you must confront the biggest lie that is holding you hostage– the idea that you can be anything other than your true self.

Your heart draws its strength from the love that permeates your soul, and will prevail when that love is stronger than your fear of your ego. Once you slay the beast that guards your true self, you will take ownership over your ego and reclaim your power. This is an inevitable step on the way towards becoming whole again.

Despite our fears, there comes a point where our only option is to surrender to the Divine plan and follow that guidance. Regardless of what your Twin Flame is doing, or whether you’ve been in contact with them, or whether they even believe in the connection between the two of you, you have to accept the truth of what has always been in your heart, and let your love shine through.

When you do this, you are allowing yourself to love your twin without expecting anything in return, and your very being becomes this love- and that’s where the miracle lies. When you do this, your twin will do the same, and your eternal love is renewed.

Having a personal relationship with the Divine is what’s absolutely needed for reuniting with your twin, because this union is orchestrated by divine will. This is why it’s imperative that we come to the point of surrender on our own.

As we discover things about ourselves and accept the truth in our heart, as we surrender to Divine will, let that guide us, and align ourselves with the plan for us, we will be led to our Twin Flame, and to the union.

Many Twin Flames get wrapped up in the “when?” When will we unite? And they get stuck in feelings of disappointment, frustration, loss, anxiety, and doubt. If you’re feeling these emotions, then you’re not trusting that your union is orchestrated by the Divine Creator. If you are feeling loss, disappointment, frustration, anxiety, or doubt, then it shows you still need to give yourself love because you have forgotten your oneness.

If you look back at your past, everything that has happened up to this point has had a purpose, to bring you to this present moment, to awaken you, to put you on this path to where you have met your twin for the ultimate healing journey.

This is no accident. You chose this task and committed to your mission with Divine Creator to assist in the ascension process. Everything that has happened in your life has been a stepping stone to help you get to greater consciousness, to raise your frequencies, to bring you back to love and remind you that you were never separate from it.

When you are spending your time over-analyzing everything, then you are not trusting your higher guidance, your Divine connection. When you are full of worry, you are not trusting your purpose. When you choose to see EVERYTHING as a learning opportunity, then you are living and trusting that you are guided and Divinely protected.

[bbruce]

You are the first twin flame that I have found that is an HSP, thank you for your perspective, being HSP is difficult, as I'm also an empath who sees and communicates with the dead, plus im the. 01% red head with blue eyes, im so sensitive that I feel everyone around me and I can only rest by being alone as much as possible, living in the country, never wanting to go far.
But my sensitivity and ability to speak to the dead has allowed me to help people when spirits come to me with messages. I will always give people messages, I will never charge anyone for that, as I believe this is one reason why I am the way i am, to help heal.

[aramurka]

My twin ran away 6 months ago. I didn't do anything because I knew I can't go this same pattern of chasing all my life, I wanted to heal my pain. But I felt I need to tell him that I'm still here no matter what. I messaged him not long ago. He didn't reply but it was never my point. I just wanted him to know it was all true. I have no idea what's in his mind. And I always have these sad feelings that maybe I should've done more to make him feel loved. But I was so weak.. I knew I had to help myself first. My love for him will never end. Maybe we both just want to make it right and overcome the fear. Having faith in this was the biggest challenge in my life. But I think true love is worth everything...

[soulcandytarot]

I'm the chaser. This makes SO much sense.

[resurrectedstarships]

At 5:35 Chasers often beleive that if they do not receive the love or if they were wrong, what does that make us?? Fucking crazy people!! lol

[empathicgem]

This was a great topic. I’m going through a phase where I don’t feel worthy and yes running is easier than facing all the emotional issues.

[kyodetabeosame]

You are so divine in chaser's eyes, too. You crush them by running away.

[purplesoul]

This is really helping me understand my DM so much. I wish i had connected with your videos earlier. Ill watch as much as i can before you move on to the next part of your journey. Iam grateful for my spirit guides directing me toyour channel.

[irinenutsubidze]

🌞rise an shine beautiful soul...thank you for your service..to hear runner perspective is soo helpful..
I find myself more and more peacuful in my journey, after understanding, what runners going through .. i am giving him ( myself in masculine ;) ) time and space..doesnt matter how long is going to take..how many lifetimes.. ✨

love you guys 🙏🌞

[FilipMijatov-gw]

Best Video about Twin Flame runner on Line ...Well done

[ameliahinckfuss]

Very helpful thank you. I’m the chaser so your information has been very insightful.

[stevemckenzie]

As a DF (Chaser) thank you for sharing this information, I feel more validated of the fact it's not all my fault for causing no contact now close to 8 months. My case is a little different. I was really going for it and professing my love to her like crazy. But got to a point where I thought doesn't she have boundaries? I actually had to have her block me via Facebook and she was pissed off about that, then gaslit me. Then finally blocked me. She didn't even want to do that. Then ego death for me, a straight 3 months of purgatory. At 8 months now just starting to get my mojo back. I literally could of gone a year of telling her how much I loved her, but something told me it was time to pull back because she was just going to keep letting me go and go on.

[romancherednychenko]

It sounds like an Attachment Trauma, that causes you to be a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant. Emotional Neglect or Unpredictable actions from caregivers lead to those attachment traumas, that causes people than later having fear of being emotional vulnerable, let someone get to close, don't rely on someone, suppressing emotions. I've noticed, as a being earlier a chaser, that almost every runner has a avoidant behavior. That's why God invited Twin Flame, to make you vulnerable, by allowing breaking your heart by your twin. "Earthly Love" break your heart, so that God can heal you and show you the right form of Love - Unconditional, 'cause God is Love by himself. The deeper your Love and Faith in God, by believing in his only sending Son Jesus, the faster you can heal your traumas and be Secure Attached. Secure - means that you don't fear be vulnerable, have healthy boundaries, have self-love, and the most important - you don't search for someone, who can fulfill your emptiness inside you, but instead you gonna be the one, who is going to spread love.

[twinflameessentials]

I thank you so much for this authentic and honest testimonial… lots of love to you and your twin Serena ❤❤

[DivineLove]

Actually the other half doesn’t run! It’s you because they are you! You are running from your self your emotions. Your twin is there to help you heal your emotions and inner child.

It’s literally you gotta stop running from your self. Best thing to do is just heal and allow it to happen. Once it you start it becomes easier.

Your twin is waiting for you to do the inner work so they can. I hope that this helps someone ❤

[colleenlacroix]

I could listen to you for years, explaining the other side from a personal view. I felt aspects that had been holding me back leave me during this video, simply because all we (DF/Chaser) ever have is our own brain, and it sometimes gets us into trouble being alone with all these emotions. I stepped into his experiencing for the duration if this video and really, really, really met him in understanding what he is living. Thank you for this Serena, very much.

[bloodlxlart]

00:23 I know it’s just a closeup of a random YouTuber (just found this vid) but I had no idea how much I needed to see a face in some sunshine without any ‘pore filling foundation’ etc on it. It reminded me oh wait humans DO have pores, you CAN look beautiful with natural skin, etc. Ma’am you are absolutely GORGEOUS and thank you for sharing

[journeyhomewithballori]

i thought i was the chaser, but I noticed a lot of these patterns you mentioned with other people recently