We Lost our Baby

The video I was hoping I never had to make. The story about how we lost our baby, miscarriage in week 11.

👋 Come say hi

[KalleFlodin]

Christine has been so extremely strong through this whole process, I'm so proud of her. It takes a LOT of courage to open up and talk about a trauma and sorrow like this publicly, especially when it's about your own body ❤

[lauratrettevik]

Dear Christine and Kalle, I am a 70 year old 3rd generation Swedish woman born and raised in the United States. I recently found your videos and have loved them. I have grown to love you both like family. I know that this video is 10 months old, but I need to tell you that I cried with you, Kalle, as you walked us through this terrible loss, but mostly your deep love and concern for Christina. I trust that she is doing well now. May our loving God bless you always and know that you are in my prayers. Blessings, Laura Hendrickson-Trettevik.

[rbhfamily]

I really appreciate hearing this tender side of a father’s experience losing his baby. Thank you for sharing. I could feel your love for both your baby and your companion. I’ve lost 4 babies and I always appreciate those who acknowledge my babies and those who acknowledge their own babies so openly. My heart goes out to you both.

[hazellinajane]

Dear Kalle and Christine. I knew the moment I saw your video last week that this was what had happened because I recognised the pain immediately, having gone through it myself. I am so, so very sorry for you both. It hurts so bad it's like a physical pain. I am only a stranger from the internet but I am sending you my love and so much healing.



To anyone else who might read this comment, please be mindful of your comments too. Words like 'something wasn't right' and 'at least you know you can get pregnant' or ' you will have lots of babies' are agonising to hear at a time like this, as kindly as they are meant.

[davidclayton]

My wife and I have gone through this a couple of times. It takes a lot of bravery and courage to open up so publicly about miscarriage and we're both thinking of you x

[pamelajohansen]

I had a miscarriage 42 years ago, my final year in nursing school. I still remember those feelings and being in hospital. I healed. You will heal. In your time and in your way. Peace be with you both.

[Talasbuan]

We're so very sorry for what happened to you. You are both in our thoughts ♡

[thechiseledbeaver]

My wife had 2 miscarriages before we had our healthy baby boy. I know this is a very difficult time. Keep going and you will be blessed.

[julienelson]

You are a tender man. Never apologize for showing that tenderness. It is a precious gift.

[vondonna]

Kalle, I’m so very sorry for your loss of both your baby and your grandfather. Words from a stranger cannot sooth your broken hearts, but please know that you and Christine are in my thoughts. Huge hugs to you both. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[Tubifia]

Fint med en man som vågar visa sig så sårbar. En vacker dag kommer du att bli en fantastisk pappa.

[mattbahe]

I'm so sorry for your loss Kalle. My wife and I had several miscarriages, and also a couple failed attempts at in vitro, so when you talked about how it's different for a guy that really resonated with me. #flashbacks Thank you for having the courage to share your story, as well as your sadness. You are not alone my friend.

[mariamikkelsen]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had two miscarriages and the emotions, physical pain, hormones and all that comes with it. And it is as you say so common. I started talking about it as well and it's beyond hitting the roof with stories and how many miscarriages couples and women have gone through. It's really brave and nice to see a man's perspective and emotions around this. Thanks for sharing that! ♡

[marydemars]

This video was... while heartbreaking, it was incredibly powerful and important. I've had family and friends experience miscarriages and... There aren't words. Sending so much love and support to both of you. Thank you for finding the strength to share this part of the journey. May the future hold so much happiness and good things for both of you.

[thegoodscientistsdaughter]

Seeing the fathers perspective is really eye opening. I appreciate you sharing this very difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss. May peace and love be with you both.

[marytruax]

I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your baby! From the moment I realized that I was pregnant my life changed. That little babe become part of our family, our hopes and dreams! Four months later we too lost our baby. We commemorated our little one by planting a garden that came up year after year.

[pamwilliams]

Back in the 70's I lost two pregnancies, I understand all the emotions. God bless you both.

[Becinroom]

What courage; what love. This is the bravest and most loving thing I’ve seen on YouTube. My heart aches for both of you, and for this terrible loss. I am so thankful for your courage in sharing your story, and shining a light on what is still too often a very deeply hidden grief. I hope this video gives courage and support to others, and lets people walking a similar path know that they are not alone.

[glenmisha]

Losing a child is the most pain you'll ever face. Our son was 21 when he departed in 2021. Sorry for your excruciating pain. Nobody is to blame. Keep loving each other. 💔💞

[Caelariel]

I would need a small book to tell all I would like to say, but I will make this short. It broke my heart to hear of your losses and how hard things are going for you. the biggest hug ever to both of you, and I will be praying for you both to get well and heal in your hearts. if I had a billion dollars all I would want is to have someone like you who put her first and took care of her. when you said "when one crashes the other one is strong, and when the other one gets strong, then the other one can crash" - this is what true love is all about and love will get you through this. You are both loved by God, and no matter how hard things get...I absolutely believe that the baby is in heaven, happy and healthy forever. It is just hard for us here on earth. thank you for sharing your video and allowing us to send prayers of healing your way. And also thank you for showing that it is ok to cry, so many people hide it, but we all need to help each other get through hard times. I believe that is the most important message you have given! again, love and hugs from Indiana USA. May God send you comfort and healing.