The Reason Why Some Men Seem VERY Selfish. KNOW THIS!!!

#jonathonaslay #selfishmen #datingadvice

[jodyross]

Smart comments, especially about givers/takers. I also realize that selfishness reveals itself as a lack of emotional attunement AKA low to no empathy.

[lyndapeoples]

There's no seem to it. Many of them are selfish. That's one reason it's so easy for them to do things that hurt you bc they're only thinking about what they want regardless of the hurt they bring to you.

[janejohnstone]

Better to be single and have a quite life, then a life full of stress 😩...unbelievable.

[kjbrocky]

A big problem is men aren't interested in "self help" or being introspective. They don't want to be alone and they want sex and that's really about it. I've lived a very long time and have been in one and seen many long marriages, so it boils down to that in the end.

[sheilaseniff]

The other person will not take unless you give away the power. I am learning so much by continuing to work on myself. Have such a growing library now. 😂. I love reading, gaining knowledge and applying what I have learned. When I am happy without someone making me happy, . I am attracting men. Funny, this morning my refrigerator was serviced. I told the young man how much I appreciated him coming out. He asked if I would like him to sweep behind the fridge. Holy cow, I said yes. I received and thanked and appreciated him again. Give and receive. I practice genuine greatful was. 15 years ago, I hated men because of one. I do not allow that one man to be the measure for all men.

[elainechatham]

It is sad when one person takes and gives little, a relationship killer. Eat, love, and pray one of my fav movies

[BarbaraMerryGeng]

….Wow
Many years ago, U2 came out with a music video “WITH OR WITHOUT YOU” & it haunted me to my very soul -
> Now I know why ….
- I saw relationships as a transaction instead of organic energy …
> I was addicted to playing that slot machine, feeding it quarters, hoping to hit the jackpot 💁🏻‍♀️
> And I didn’t stop until I was down to my last dollar. .
> Why so ? My guy was not able to say “ go away “ bc he was afraid of confrontation. ..
> I had to keep doing this until it registered in my head -
You can’t buy love ( I didn’t realize I was doing that .. Trying to earn love .. )
> You can’t buy loyalty,
So keep your fortune to yourself & enjoy your life. Stop trying to make people like you / want you.
Instead, learn to like & want yourself.
> Thanks for the ice bucket; Jon: 💁🏻‍♀️🌊

[DsDs-lgqz]

I' m always in second and third fuCCCking stage of love when it comes to dealing with people i love. Something ain't right! :(

[darlaswann]

I love these videos - they help me not feel alone out here trying to be a giving human being.

[Linda-eotc]

I am not religious, but I blame a lot of over-giving on the misguided interpretation of "Do Unto Others"

Sets a lot of folks up for failure and bad relationships.

[juliannacapinera]

Your response is fantastic. I have been both the over-giver, and on the receiving end of one. Either end is a crappie place to be!! 👍 Thanks for the video 😘

[janejohnstone]

People have become sooo...selfish....otherwise very stressful...exhausting...yes has to be equal giving.

[tammymcbride]

Thank you for grounding us in reality!

[Sara-weij]

What if he's saying like im gonna buy flowers to you im gonna get this to you and then theres no action? So at this point I'm feeling so lonely in this relationship. By the way i am not giver a lot i just bought him present for his birthday.

[DsDs-lgqz]

And yes, they are selfish because women raised them that way

[RedHybiscus]

The reason men seem selfish Jonathan is because they are - I challenge you to prove me wrong. Men want their own stuff and space. They don’t want a wife that got fat after pregnancy and childbirth they want to have indiscriminate sex they don’t want to be responsible and they for damn sure don’t want to be accountable- welcome to 2024

[kendrawaddams]

I had a 7 year relationship, where all throughout, he told me he was, like me, a left-wing atheist. 7 years in, he admitted he'd always been a right-wing man with a deep faith in God. He thought after 7 years he could confess the truth without me caring. He was wrong.

[janettm]

I pray I will find someone who is also working on himself or is willing to work on a healthy long term relationship!! 🙏🏻💜

[alondraacosta-mora]

How sad! My ex(34M) faked an entire relationship of 4 years, me (25F). I felt used like a disposable napkin! He would say he loves me so much and wanted to marry me and have babies with me. He would get mad if other men talked to me and he would not wanted me to be with any other men, he said he wanted me for only him. I thought then he was being serious. I really was staying loyal to him, when I did not have to, and he never gave a ring, I mentioned about the ring and he literally would say he does not know when cuz he has no money. I feel so stupid for trusting, since now on I can chat with guys and be single again until I have a ring on my finger. I doubt that will happen though. FK liar!

[viktoriyah]

I like your advices, Jonathon, and the way you present it and change your voice to pretend a woman answer (so funny). I used one stupid advice of other coach - do not text all day to make him warried and we both got depressed from it for all night :) WTF was that advice for? Stupid teenage games. Be open, be true to yourself and others!