The Truth On If You're Able To Change An Emotionally Unavailable Man And Why (MUST WATCH)!

[lke]

A woman can never change a man. But a man will change if he feels compelled to by his own accord. A woman can influence a man, but never change him.

[Strawberryfaerie]

And even if you do get him to commit to a relationship, if he originally said he wasn't ready, he's still not ready and the relationship most likely won't even be that great. There's men that eventually marry these women that stick around hoping he will change because he thinks no woman will love him like her, and he better marry her. Although if he wasn't ready to settle down because he wasn't ready to be with one woman, the marriage will most likely not work out. He will not like having to be monogamous. So do yourself a favor and cut your losses IMO. And find a guy excited to be with you, and wanting to prove he is loyal.

[CorporateQueen]

People will change when they are sick enough of themselves. But some people will never get sick of themselves and would rather remain in sickness.

[susan]

A man who is emotionally unavailable should not be dating .

[missnoellechristine]

I would pay money to be your friend.. 1) you have the most accurate / truthful advice 2) you are constantly making me laugh

[TravelBug]

A guy can change for the woman he wants to change for
If you’re with a guy and he’s not changing, then you’re not the one

[nc]

Completely agree, my ex was not happy or healthy in his own life, he had no balance. And despite wanting a relationship, fled when I raised the vulnerability block he had with me.

Whilst hurt I'm ok, I've always focused on my life balance and filling my life with things and people who make me shine.
On the other side, my ex is back on the apps to fill the void with a 'conmitted relationship' - he's aware of his unavailability he just doesnt want to change. He will keep hurting people 😢

[lke]

Elliot, you should do a video on why men are emotionally unavailable. What it looks like and the reasons why women are attracted to them (equally toxic on both ends)... like explain why women are attracted to this type of man. I already went through this and learned the hard way. I came out stronger, wiser, and happier in the end though.

[anothercat]

What a wonderful clip, Elliott. So important. Some guys are truly not narcissists, no disorder, they are just avoidant.

[alelovesmakeup]

Why emotionally unavailable men are out there dating? It happened to me in the past I was chased hard and when we had sex I realised I was used as a rebound because the girl after me became his girlfriend 🤷🏻‍♀️

[iris]

My guy wanted a relationship with me, everything was fine until the one month mark of the relationship… then he completely couldn’t handle it.

[victory]

Elliot we miss you!! You still look good no matter what, we just need the message.

[dancingcloud]

Mad respect for not fooling women that they should wait and change that type of dude. 🙌

[hybridangel]

Its common sense, no one can change some if they don't want to change. Autonomy is something we all have not just woman.

[feebsfilms]

Great video! What about the guy that gives you the relationship title, treats you well and 8 months in isn't talking about next steps yet? We're long distance, it's going great, he's consistent with everything but I don't want to be doing this 3 years from now. He talks about the future, (travel, things to do together) but hasn't talked about how we will close the distance. He is diligent about traveling to me and I am to him too.

[tracymullane]

Lol very good video.
If he acts like an asshole, you don't want him, that's the short story. He knows what he's doing. Smh!
Thanks for the reminder!

[mybuttstinks]

Sad thing is you can’t change a man once his mind is made up that’s that

[ashley]

Love this!

Just like going to the Smokey Mountains…pulling off on the side of the road & purchasing the bag of “gems” 💎 ….you sift through the sand and hope….that’s equivalent to finding the authentic one 🤣💃🏼🙌🏼

[TR-rutb]

I am not dating but...I just watch because I like hearing u talk haha

[sonyasspot]

I dated an unemotional man who just separated from his wife, yes he missed his wife and kids, but he and I went into a relationship before his divorce was final, he and I was together for six years. He passed away due to and accident