Do you scare women away?

Why Clingy and Avoidant Men Can Turn Women Off During Dating

Dating is about finding a balance, and certain behaviors can make it harder to connect. Clingy and avoidant behaviors are often red flags for women, and here's why:

1. Clingy Behavior:
Overwhelming Need for Attention: When a man constantly seeks reassurance, texts too much, or becomes overly possessive, it can feel suffocating. Women often seek space and independence in a relationship, and clinginess can make them feel trapped.
Lack of Confidence: Clinginess can signal insecurity and a lack of self-esteem, which can be off-putting. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and trust, not dependency.
2. Avoidant Behavior:
Emotional Distance: Avoidant men often struggle to open up or connect emotionally, creating an invisible wall between themselves and their partner. This can leave women feeling unsupported or disconnected.
Fear of Intimacy: Men who avoid closeness or commitment may send mixed signals, leaving women confused or frustrated. Avoidance often stems from fear of vulnerability, but it can prevent deep emotional connections from forming.
3. The Balance:
Independence vs. Clinginess: Women want a partner who is secure in themselves, not overly reliant on them for emotional support. At the same time, they don’t want someone who is emotionally unavailable or detached.
Emotional Availability: Emotional balance is key in relationships. A healthy balance of emotional intimacy and independence allows both partners to feel safe, valued, and respected.
In the end, building a strong relationship is about finding someone who is secure, emotionally available, and ready to meet you halfway. Avoiding extremes like clinginess and avoidant behavior creates the foundation for a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.

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[paulatk]

A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[ModernDatingMastery]

*If you constantly text, call, or over-compliment, it can feel overwhelming. Instead, focus on building trust and letting her come to you. A little space makes the connection stronger.*

[tkorte]

"So hold on loosely, but don't let go. If you cling too tightly, you're going to lose control. Your baby needs someone to believe in, and a whole lot of space to breathe in."
- 38 Special

[Boatsandholes-np]

When you put someone on a pedestal they have no other choice but to look down at you love yourself first!

[Insekkton]

I act very well by the canons when I like and interact with a woman, but when I REALLY like her... well, I do every possible mistake XD

[SALVVTORE]

Sadia please link the full podcasts on your videos

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[thetruther]

In my world, women don’t cheat. In your world Sadia, perhaps it’s like this…….

“Woman oh woman
Have you got cheating on your mind, on your mind
Something's wrong between us that your laugher cannot hide
And you're afraid to let your eyes meet mine
And lately when I love you, I know you're not satisfied

Woman oh woman
Have you got cheating on your mind, on your mind
I've seen the way men look at you, when they think I don't see
And it hurts to have them think that you're that kind
But it's knowing that you're looking back, that's really killing me

Woman oh woman
Have you got cheating on your mind, on your mind
A woman wears a certain look when she is on the move
And a man can always tell what's on her mind
I hate to have to say it but that look's all over you

Woman oh woman
Have you got cheating on your mind
Oh woman oh woman
Have you got cheating on your mind”
—- Gary Puckett and the Union Gap.

[tavell]

Difficulty she ain't lying that's why I ain't married

[anywhereheadlightrestorati]

Which one do you think is worst separation or divorce?

[marcin]

I don't know how to pick up women at all, because I've never been picked up, so when I like one very much, which is very rare (oh my god- I'll fall in love), it's a cabaret... :D:D:D
And I didn't go on those stupid dates (they wanted me without that :D).
Maybe an episode where you logically explain the point of a date???
I know more about her in an hour than she learned in her entire life? So why should I walk around and waste time when I can see she's stupid???

[hendricksjamie]

Of course women are going to be scared away when they see they cannot manipulate men, and men are not always entirely always right, however, many cases there are too many factors involved that separate partners, instead of bringing them together. Honesty, transparency and motivating a persons intentions of actions make all the difference in communication and exchanges of emotion. Intimacy and trust takes time & work to resolve misunderstandings. Sacrifice of ego is required to get to the core of the roots of proble. Women need to understand that men are not to be toyed with. The more a woman understand and serve a man, the more a man will thrive and not just survive in this demanding world and ultimately be able to see to her needs and desires. But once too much damage is done and overstepping certain boundaries will turn a man away. It's simple. And women have the same mentality about men. Teaching each other is the key focus in relationships to grow. Individual relationships and partners will have different thresholds of damage incurred that will be tolerated. Very often a mirror image will be showed of each other when situations of difficulties and differences of opinions will arise on a general spectrum.

[AlexanderLodge]

The Last Thing I Want To Do Is Scare The Women Away But I Know I Have At Least Fithteen Women That Are Visible In My Mind. They Are In MY Home Moving Around But Can't Tell Anyone Where I Live

[aneanddani]

Its not always like that women cheat that lost a father figure. They handle that loss of a father different.

[piccadelly]

When you start a relationship make sure that the partner has nothing against cheating, it's all about the trust if they both cheat it's even 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[alvinbarrios]

I've scared plenty of women away. Had a girl at a club walk up and tell me im beautiful but scary and literally ran away. On another occasion, I was standing at the bar, and I felt some one lightly grb my arm and turn me and it was a girl who wanted to see my face. She takes one look at me and says "oh no! I have one baby daddy alrwady" and ran off(smartest one I've ever met).

[michaelflamingsword]

Its funny that a woman is telling us about how we men have to do masculinity. Very funny.

[Mia]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.