I Studied Thousands Of PEOPLE PLEASERS & Learned This...

95% of people pleasers care too much about what other people think... Here's the best way to overcome this!

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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I Studied Thousands Of PEOPLE PLEASERS & Learned This...

Discover how to be real and how to be authentic!

Stop people pleasing! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to stop caring about what others think about you... This will allow you to feel confident and be confident in any social situation!

Discover how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions!

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[JulienHimself]

Comment your biggest takeaway below! (I personally read through EVERY single comment)

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[Kate-ismz]

Being an adult literally only means parenting your own self... and most of us are horrendous, abusive, and neglectful parents to ourselves, if we parented actual children the way we treat ourselves - we'd be locked up forever.

[derekjp]

14:40 “And this is also true for self-esteem. Although, yes it might hurt if you do get rejected for being who you are … but, you know what hurts a lot more? … Only being accepted when you’re being somebody you’re not.”

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[magzlinz]

I like her a lot, she’s so naturally playful

[Leafar-LAL]

seeing her finally open up in the last minute was amazing, saying she tried her cats food is something that I don’t think she would have ever done before that day.

[Mystronghold]

Worst part of being a people pleasure is while all of your actions, speech, existence is about being the "ideal", being liked by everyone, you are not truly liked by anyone.

[toniariana]

This hit the nail on the head for me. I feel like these tendencies come from having someone abusive in your life, often a parent, you're AFRAID of not being perfect and pleasing because it can result negatively for you.

[vaughnbutler]

I used to be a people pleaser growing up and id say for the most part it would feel pretty genuine. After a concoction of self work, traumatic experiences, and self healing in my young adulthood, I decided to be more true to myself and please people less. It was a big wake up call when most of the people in my life (including family) treated and looked at me different in a negative way. Nobody really understands or cares to understand and I feel lonlier than ever but I know that when I do make connections that they will be genuine and that those people will be able to know that every reaction they get from me is real.

[VILJA]

She is so honest, genuine and articulate from the very beginning. Basically knows a big part of herself. Wonderful convo

[guy]

Pleasers, in my opinion, are those who grow up in a difficult environment and want to be liked regardless of what happens next, even if it means sacrificing their true happiness to be that person who is adored by everyone except themselves.

[Skiddoo]

The worst part of being a people pleaser is that people need conflict. Without conflict, we cannot integrate the different experiences and knowledge base of the individuals in a group into the group knowledge base. Either you will need a psychic leader to extract the knowledge or you will need individuals who feel empowered enough to stand up against the group when the group is wrong and that one person is the only one who sees it. People pleasers will just sit back and let the group go down the tubes if they feel they are going to cause trouble or look stupid by speaking up and in many situations this kind of inaction often leads to disaster.

[Donna-C]

“Perfectionism is the opposite of relaxation”.

“Speak YOUR truth”

[Gx]

I see myself so much in her. There is this strong urge to be liked by you. Its overlaying the whole personality. Making kind of say yes to everything just to keep up this harmony

[ericah]

For me people pleasing comes from fear of rejection

[MiniT]

I have been a fake my whole life and I'm just now realizing it after seeing some your videos. You may have saved me man. Thank you

[noraseed]

i resonate with the girl so much. i almost felt emotional when she became so happy on interrupting you on asking what aversion means. it's like i can physically see her knowing or coming true to the fact that interrupting someone won't cause you any harm. like she just realised that "yeah, i can do this, this won't kill me". and i also want to thank you for i thought this video was just about being your authentic self but it really made me feel comfortable in knowing that i can be a bit myself or set up boundaries, and not be overly nice everytime, even when i beat myself up for it later because i realise no one else will do the same for me. loved the video.

[yahmein]

For people who have a partner that is a people pleaser, there’s always far more fights over them being fake then them being real, it causes so many problems in a relationship. Not only are you lying about who you are to yourself, you are lying to others about who you are and that causes major problems in a relationship when relationships are supposed to be built off of trust. How is the person supposed to trust you and your intentions if you’re trying to please them all the time? Then your partner feels hurt, taken advantage of, lied to, etc. a cycle of pain.

[dawgcatcha]

Her self awareness is amazing! The vulnerability is unmatched!

[tothemoon]

What hurts even more is being rejected or criticized for something that is inauthentic

[zchadowhd]

"NOTHING is worth sacrificing your authenticity for" YESS 👏 👏