ANTs fuel your negative thinking 🐜 ⁣ | #shorts

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Have you ever had a random negative or self-critical thought pop into your mind, and before you know it you descend into a deep dark self-perpetuating pit of self-criticism and worst-case scenarios? ⁣

Thought so! ⁣

It’s very common and can lead us to become fixated in rumination, to obsess over potential negative outcomes and to catastrophize. ⁣

As neuroscientist Rick Hanson says, our brains have a negativity bias… “it’s like Velcro for the negative and Teflon for the positive...” ⁣


The ability to consciously challenge your thoughts is one of the most powerful cognitive strategies we have available to us. When you become aware of a negative or self-critical thought, consciously reply with a more rational and self-compassionate response.⁣

Here’s a quick example of how I used this approach a couple of weeks back. I delivered my first in-person keynote recently after almost a year, and because I’ve been out of practice with in-person events, I really didn’t feel it was my best. As I started to notice the self-critical ANTs start to take over, I consciously responded: “With each event I’ll find my groove… I’ll do better next time.” ⁣

Have you ever tried this before? What was the situation and what did you tell yourself? 👇⁣



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Thanks so much for sharing.. very grateful to you..

BassamProduction
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You just popped into my shorts feed and I am so glad you did.

sodaa
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Biblical sound advice right there! Take every thought captive...

AnniEast
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I love the acronyms and metaphors you come up with

Dailytrueevil
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The right content at right time for me. Thanks. I'm trying my best and thats important for growth.

pooventhanrajl
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Peace in the mind and the heart, word of GOD!

michaeltoralva
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I’m trying my best and that’s important for growth

arpitham
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Thank you shade. You're doing a great job by proving knowledge in small sizes easy to grasp and apply. You deserve 100 times more success

canyoustayupallnightstudyt
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Can't even imagine how much helpful & amazing you are with these short videos and getting rid of psychological negativity out of our mind. Thank you 😌

Síñdhúshrœtïyæm
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Really cool acronym especially cause its literally the analogy

awaisjamil
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thanks
your every video just refresh how i think

mikeposnerfc
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Definitely. 😃ants. Are. Hard. Working😍

benjosesangma
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Reframing is useful... I should do that more.

kpopandotherplaylists
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Thanks Shade. So helpful. I am struggling with this a lot

abhiagricos
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How cud someone explain so well, u r too good

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You are amazing. Gob bless you for sharing that.

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Thank Dr 👍
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