Let Go Of The Need For CONTROL! ⚠️

Stop being so controlling... Don't ignore this!

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

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Let Go Of The Need For CONTROL! ⚠️

The need for control! In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to stop being controlling and why you must learn how to trust yourself, trust others and trust life again!

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[JulienHimself]

Stop being so controlling... Don't ignore this! ⚠️

[immrssnow]

Julien, you probably don't know this that you're very well known here in India 🇮🇳☺️ Thank you from us 🙌🏼💗

[Once_In_A_Blue_Moon]

Exactly what I realised today...
Go with the flow!

[johnny]

What if every time I let go of the reins and start to trust Everything goes to shit fast?

[Quaziwd]

Perfect timing Julien, perfect timing.🙌🏼 I actually needed this!

[hanksung]

Wow, this is POWERFUL!!! Something that I've NEVER thought about and don't know the answer why do I do that when Julien asked the question!!! Omg, but I think that I don't really trust myself is because people around me have NEVER trusted me? Including my family memebers, they're FUCKING TOXIC, FUCK THEM ANYWAY. And I think that I learn how to treat myself based on how my family memebers treated me growing up, even though most part of me is different from them. And I wonder does that has thing to do with the fact that I'm MORE western than most of the people here in Taiwan?

(My therapist told me last week that he thinks that 90% of me is more western, so that's why it's FUCKING HARD for me to survive here. I've ALWAYS known that I'm more western, but I didn't know that the percentage is that hi. And I had NEVER thought about the percentage. So... yeah, pretty proud of this part of myself, which is most part of myself? Because I'm just like the people that I love!!! Isn't that one of the NICEST thing EVER!?

It just reminds me of that one of my high school teachers said that the people who are more western are proud of themselves, the ones who are... more Asian or influenced by the Chinese culture or whatever always think that there's something wrong with them, which I think that it's true btw, there's DEFINITELY A LOT of things that are wrong with them. But anyways.)

And they ALWAYS frown, and think that what I said is weird or something when I express my thoughts/ideas/value. And I actually had ever met a British guy, he said to me that he can tell that I'm more western, because I didn't question anything that he said. So which means that the Taiwanese ALWAYS question the things that he says, which I think that are the things that totally make sense, doesn't need to be questioned? I wonder does that has thing to do with the fact they ALWAYS dobut me, don't believe me or something? Because the things that I said, the way how I did/do things just makes them ALWAYS doubt/question me, getting picked on because usually I'm the one who stand out THE MOST?

(I wonder if I still do act differently? I guess that I still do in some ways. Because I'm terrified enough to just always hide myself when I'm in front of Taiwanese, act like how I think that I acted when I was a kid, so that I wouldn't keep having conflicts with them, and keep getting hurt? So... I'm probably more western than when I was a kid? Because I had to listen to/act like how my family members wanted me to act/do to survive. And I hadn't met westerners who can accept me to be myself, and I actually didn't know what I like AT ALL before I met the people and the things from the west, so... yeah.

I think that all these things, and I actually just listed a few of them, that why I love the things and people from the west FUCKING MUCH, because this is where I belong! I hope that it's the case? I guess that I'll see once I go to the west when I graduate from college and have the money. But my therapist said to me, and it feels right that 90% of me are more westernized, and that's why it's FUCKING HARD for me to survive here, I think that's like a obvious sign that the west will be somewhere that I belong? And it's actually WAAAAY MORE DIVERSE there, and there's a German guy who bothers to understand me, said to me that I reminded him of some of the people that he knows back in Germany, and they have their own friends, so... yeah. I guess that I can really find my tribe there? Unlike here, EVERYONE is the same, which I'm disgusted and FUCKING HATE!!!

[And their FUCKING NARROW MINDED VISION thinks that a person who has an Asian person looking is IMPOSSIBLE to be WESTERN like that, it must be faked. And they think that JUST because you look Asian, so you have to act in a certain way or something. And because I'm an Asian looking person, so they think tht I'm weird, because I look the same as them, but I think and act differently. And I think that they act differently if I talk in English to them if they don't know that I can speak in Mandarin? And I ABSOLUTELY think that if I was a white person today, they would think that everything about me make sense. And actually the life of the white guys here are FUCKING MUCH EASIER, because they can get away with everything because the people here think that you're a foreigner (But if you're from Southern East Asia today, that will be a TOTALLY DIFFERENT story), AND you're white, and a lot of them think that white people are automatically better them JUST because of their look? Post colonel, a word that a British guy that I've ever met taught me.

Anyways, I think that Julien knows this kinda stuff? Because from what I've learnt, this is one of the reasons that he got into the scandal at the first place? That's what it says on Wikipedia. But it's NOT AS EXAGGERATED as he said/thought.] So... yeah, maybe all these are some of the reasons why?

Anyways, I was hesitated if I comment or whatever, and I'm glad that I did. Because I understand about my situation a little bit more by talking about it.

[aditiarya]

And how do we build this trust mainly and firstly with ourselves and on others? What if i am never there to pick myself up?

[judf]

What if I have so much traumatic experiences, like abuse at home, abusive relationships (friends, family), bad enviroment at work, etc. That it is really dificult to me to trust? It's not thay easy (I know you didn't say it was easy and it's a short video) but I feel like I need to control my feelings, my enviroment, the moves that I make the decisions I take, cause everything just went really bad...

[Shadowlord]

Basically a Narcissistic person in a nutshell

[misspriss]

This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. OFC life doesn't have your back. Life is not fair and doesn't give a sh*t. You are judged by how you present yourself, what you say, and how you act. As a matter of fact, your job and your relationships depend on these things. You had better try to control it as best as you can or get fired and/or shunned. 🙄