Women REFUSE These 28 Date Spots

Recently, a list of 28 different first date spots that women will refuse went viral on social media, sparking huge debates over whether this is acceptable or not. Some women have gone as far as to say if a guy isn’t spending over $200 on the first date, then he isn’t the one. Has our society pushed us to a point where these expectations are accepted? Let’s talk about it.

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[YellowElephant]

The funny thing is that whoever made this list probably doesn’t have to worry about being taken to one of these places because nobody is asking her out anyway ☠️

[davidtree]

I took my wife to the Cheesecake factory a couple of years ago. Even ordered cheesecake as desert for the two of us. After I paid the bill and we left she told me she had a great time, but she thought it was too expensive! Later that week she downloaded a copycat recipe for their pumpkin cheesecake and learned how to make that. She told me she could make an entire cheesecake for what we paid for one slice at the Cheesecake factory after tip and tax. One of the many reasons I love my wife!

[rons]

This list is actually very helpful. If you ask a woman on a date to one of those places and she finds it unacceptable, it tells you immediately that you shouldn't be dating her.

[gladysovalle]

My husband and I had a first date at a movie theater and then went for ice cream afterwards. In that trip to ice cream, we discussed the movie. You really get to learn about a person when they discuss the movie metaphors and deeper meanings. By the time we were at Oberweise, we had soooo much to discuss. He has been my best friend for nine years and counting! 🥰

[somebody]

I’m a woman and if someone took me to Red Lobster and I didn’t have to pay, I’d be psyched. These girls are way too picky and think far too much of themselves.

[Kairi]

I think these women should reach out to women who are actually married to get a reality check. My wedding anniversary is this Wednesday, and my husband and I may just go out with our 3 kids if we don’t find babysitting. And guess what, some of the places on the list we definitely went to when dating, while engaged, while married, with kids, or by ourselves when we get babysitting for kids.

It’s okay to have preferences, but no man wants a woman who is impossible.

Edit: I know this is all in reference to first dates, however, if you can’t accept some of these things for a first date, when will they actually be acceptable?

[gulli]

Honestly, a woman NOT being absolutely pumped about a date in the cheesecake factory is an immediate red flag.

[theoxilus]

My wife and I had our first date at a coffee shop. I showed up to pick her up, she said Starbucks isn't far, lets, just walk, and so we walked for miles through the freezing rain to a Starbucks that was actually just a coffee stand is a grocery store. I learned some very important things about my future wife that day. 1) She is very confident in her decisions once she has made up her mind. 2) She will go to great lengths to get coffee, but it doesn't have to be good coffee. 3) She is terrible at directions, and all the technology in the world can't change that. There was a Starbucks about two blocks from her house, just the opposite direction from where we headed.

[pint_pipe_cross]

My first date with my now-husband was to mass followed by coffee and bouldering. He proposed to me outside the same church and we got married in the same church. It was a dream wedding for both of us and the fact that it was at our “first date” spot just made it so special.

I get that a first date to church is not for everyone. But imagine being so entitled you think that 98% of first date spots are “not good enough” for you.

The right person won’t care how much money you spend on them or where you go. Sometimes less is more!

[HyddenWellFarms]

30+ years ago, I asked my beautiful wife on our first date. I took her to a rodeo, in which I was competing. She had no idea because I told her it would be horses and dancing. As fate would have it, I won my competition and spent the entire winnings on her that night dancing, and food, and company and I took her home the next day. We’ve been together ever since. I noticed this wasn’t on the list, so I was ahead of my time

[AJBCX]

I was 18, a freshman in college when my husband took me on our first date. We went to a Chipotle style mom and pop Mexican restaurant and then went to coed rugby practice. We've been married 11 years. If I were a man and a woman told me her makeup was hundreds of dollars, that would be a big red flag.

[renee]

Honestly, a 1st date is to GET TO KNOW someone. If someone took me to a 5star restaurant on a 1st date and paid for everything I would feel like he was either trying to impress me with money or expecting something more than just conversation. In that case I'd be trying to pay my portion of the meal. Keep 1st dates light and fun!!!

[meleebrawler]

Man, whoever made that list has some of the most unrealistic standards I’ve ever seen. And I’ve dated feminists in college.

[hyzenthlay]

I met my husband at a small concert venue for local bands. We both got false info that the show started an hour before it actually did. We were the only ones there, so we started chatting and waited for the show to start. The whole concert ended up being like a first date because we hit it off so well. I needed a cab back home and he offered to drive me home. When he dropped me off, we exchanged numbers and a kiss. Our first official date was at a bar so we could chat over drinks. He bought me flowers at the bar, and I was won over by him. He is my best friend and we have three children together, so far.
No matter the date location, how well you two click is what matters. If you two are meant to be, a free date at the park will be enough. If someone is picky about the date location, that is a good indication they see you as a resource and not someone they care to form a bond with.

[rikkij]

My husband and my first date was supposed to be a nicer coffee shop, but it didn't work out so we went to Starbucks. We talked for like SIX hours and it was amazing. It's perfect because you can stay for 20 minutes if it's awkward, or several hours if it goes really well!

[MeMyself_andAI]

I got my wife an engagement ring for $2k, and after she said yes, she went with me to take it back and exchange it for one that was $500, because she said the other one was too expensive. These girls out here are a nightmare. Glad i got my wife.

[kentowens]

Had a first date at Applebee's in 2014. We've now been very happily married for 8 years. It's not about the place, it's about the connection. Love can blossom anywhere.

[kmbbmj]

I'm somewhat thankful that gal put a $200 minimum on a first date and listed the cost of her products. That's a great way for every guy to know how high maintenance and costly she will be if things went further than a first date. Good on her for letting everyone know her price up front.

[heatherchansler]

My first date with my husband was a Cold Stone that was inside a gas station... 2 kids and 14 years later and I'm sure im far happier than the women who wrote this list lol

[cindilouwho]

My husband and I had our first date at a comic book convention and then went for pizza in a fast-food-ish place. I had horrible allergies and my face was red from the sneezing and blowing. It was far from ideal, but we had a great time nonetheless and been married for 9 years. People with such ridiculous standards have lonely lives ahead of them.