I Let Them Miss Me And They Came Back

I Let Them Miss Me And They Came Back. If you've ever wondered if giving someone space will make them miss you, this video is for you. Coach Craig shares an example of a woman who walked away from someone who was not giving her what she needed. She gave him the space to miss her and after a few months, he broke no contact and reached out.

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[LHoldings]

This is my story! Thank you coach craig for helping me through difficult and complicated times. I know its easy to sit on the outside of these small clips of someone's life and judge, but in doing all of your workbooks, i have come to understand that were all doing the best that we can with the knowledge and skills that we were raised with.
Im certainly not perfect, and am learning how to be a better person and partner.
Relationships can be hard, with others and with yourself.
Thank you for your kindess and knowledge

[gertwallen]

When I watch your videos I can still see Margaret next to you, she will never be in no contact

[crabbygirl]

Listen to Craig & stay in NC, I broke NC 3 mos ago and got no reply. Leave them alone and focus on healing yourself. I KNOW it is easier said than done. Almost 6 months post break up, distance and time gives you clarity and ability to be emotionally sober about your ex & relationship. Hang in there you got this! ❣️

[Benita]

Time really does make it easier. Leave them alone!! Go on with your life and live it

[nono-zbpx]

Please listen to the Coaches. It will get easier with time. Mine keeps coming back but you must keep going and take care of you. You will make it, you are making it. You cannot unlove people. It's okay.❤

[kirbysabs]

I hate to say this but it sounds like karma caught up with the woman in this story. I get that her fiance didn't meet her needs but she could have handled those feelings with the other guy better. If she was feeling like her fiance wasn't going to change, why didn't she break up with him first and then go with the other guy instead of cheating on her fiance? Seems like immaturity on her part. But I wish her the best.

[jenniferstiles]

Run girl! Avoidants just keep putting you through the same cycle over and over. They miss the honeymoon phase, that’s all. And once they get back with you and you start to get serious again they bolt. My best friend has been cycling with an avoidant for 6 years!!!! Same cycle. Same repeat actions over and over like a play book. We have it down so well we can almost predict to the exact day now that she will pull the plug. Don’t fall for it!!!

[nickold]

Relationships that start with being "madly in love" rarely seem to mean it'll be happy and healthy relationship. That roller coaster down from the honeymoon peak will be too much to handle for one or both partners.

[geometrae]

Doing "everything she could" would actually include being TRANSPARENT with her partner that she was having feelings for this other guy.

[benjaminnielsen]

Yesterday I became overwhelmed with emotion about her and I reached out, told her I missed her so much. Her reply- I miss you too sometimes 🙄
I know too well that this means she doesnt miss me at all. I have failed NC and been rejected yet again. Don't do it, guys. Stay in NC, move on with your life, and forget about her. A reply or no reply may just hurt you more. 💔

[GregoryJBeats]

My family just fell apart. I don’t know when I’ll see my newborn son again. It’s been less than a week and the anxiety is eating me alive. I miss my woman. But I’m keeping strong and giving her space.

[biancavega]

WOWWWW! YOU'RE TRULY AMAZING
ALL YOUR CONTENT IS SIMPLY EYE OPENING...IT HITS VERY WELL ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!
THANK YOU VERY MUCH 🎉🎉CRAIG
YOU'RE THE BEST 👌🏼
WE ALL APPRECIATE YOU!

[hhcoach]

Everytime I’ve broken no contact it never works in my favor. You really hope it will but it really has to be their choice if they ended it with you.

[ShantiWrynn]

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

[Ryancdickinson]

I wish I started leaving her alone sooner, because I got blocked on everything.

[evangilmore]

Thank you Coach Craig for these videos and the hard work that you and Victoria do to help countless of us get through these life changing situations. I was broken up with by my avoidant ex over text a little more than 4 months ago. Your videos have helped me remain in no contact through the earlier months when the urge to reach out was so great. I did not reach out at all since his breakup message and there are days when I feel that I am doing better but there are also days when I miss him so much. It especially hurt when I didn't hear from him on my birthday last month and it just feels like he never cared about me even though he said he did in his message. I am in therapy and working on myself and watching your videos so I will have the knowledge for future relationships whether it may be with my ex or with someone new. Stay strong everyone. ❤

[spprssd]

My ex and I have been seperated for two months. I was originally in NC with my ex. My therapist recommended I reach out to my ex. It was great because I found out that she wanted to work things out but under certain circumstances, but I got too anxious and now we are back at square one and I have to start NC again. I got a new therapist too. Dont break NC. My ex was more receptive when I was in NC.

[LuisGutierrez-bw]

I reached out to my ex after a week of NC, she didn’t say she missed me but she sent me a screenshot of a song which talks about missing a lover, she said we shouldn’t be talking and I haven’t reached out in almost a month now, it’s been an emotional rollercoaster.

[brego]

I reached out two months ago after a four year breakup but two years of not seeing each other face to face. I said hello and we had a decent conversation. Granted it was surface level convo, I'm surprised she responded at all. She knew it was me, she still had my number. We only talked about our jobs and shared a few laughs and that was about it. We messaged that evening and the next morning. I made the last comment which was the word "exactly" and that was the end of it. I haven't reached out since and have heard nothing since. Didn't even wish her a happy birthday in July because I was busy and wouldn't anyway. She was polite but surface level. She said it was good talking to me and that was it.

[MonsterTomten]

Sometimes your partner needs to hear your needs as well. I was in a relationship with a woman with a high sex drive. My sex drive wasn't anywhere near hers and it was alot due to both my history of being introduced to p0rn in a young age as well as having a stressful period due to work and other personal matters. She knew all this, I haven't opened up to anyone as much as her. Yet she monkey branched to another dude she knew from a pc game she plays, instead of trying to be there for me and be my peace. While I was always there for her in every other regard. There is always two sides of a coin