Women Want Masculine Men, But What Is Masculine?

[00:00:00] – Introduction: This video addresses a viewer's question on how to help a woman shift out of her masculine frame and regain femininity in relationships.

[00:00:11] – Real-Life Example: The speaker shares a recent story about a man whose wife has become bossy, demanding, and assertive, taking over household and financial decisions, which he finds frustrating and unattractive.

[00:01:19] – Understanding Masculine and Feminine Dynamics: A woman embodying masculine traits can lead to relationship issues, making her less attractive to her partner. Masculine energy in a relationship should ideally be balanced with feminine energy for compatibility.

[00:01:40] – Psychological Insights and 1988 Study: A study from 1988 highlights that men who lack assertiveness or become too emotionally dependent tend to attract women with stronger masculine traits. The imbalance causes women to overcompensate by adopting a dominant role.

[00:02:10] – Recognizing the Imbalance: When a woman takes on a more dominant role, it can indicate a lack of trust in her partner’s leadership, leading her to step into a masculine role while the man becomes more passive.

[00:02:45] – Steps to Reclaim Masculinity: To shift this dynamic, men are encouraged to reclaim their masculinity gradually. Start by being more assertive, firm in decisions, and demonstrate independence—essentially embodying traits of confidence and assertiveness.

[00:03:07] – Demonstrating Leadership: By showing indifference and the willingness to walk away, a man can shift the dynamic, prompting the woman to follow his lead and ultimately respect him.

[00:03:32] – Winning the Power Battle: Avoid getting drawn into constant power struggles. Winning these battles reinforces your role as a leader in the relationship, which naturally helps her soften her masculine energy.

CONSULTATIONS

ATOMIC ATTRACTION

GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN)

Trust yourself and trust the process,

Chris Canwell
(Psychologist)