Websites For Finding a Second Wife? | Dr. Shabir Ally

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[AbyssMoonrise]

A balanced response from Dr. Shabir Ally. Presented a fair case on both sides and put it in modern context. Admirable on his part he doesn't perform second marriages considering it puts unregistered wives at an unjust disadvantage.

[Naive]

What an amazing response honestly. What you pointed out to us about registering the marriage and how the same can't be done for the second wife clearly explains this practice is not possible according to the state as it contradicts the teaching of Islam as the Quran says they should all be treated equally.

[karimahnaimah]

May Allah bless you Shabir. You always have well balanced insightful thoughts on these types of issue. Thank you.

[ruchika]

I am Christ follower and believe in Christian values. I have been following Dr Shabir Ally for a while now and have a lot of respect for him. His insights are fair, logical, clearly brilliant and a big part is how he stays respectful to the opposing views. I even considered contacting him to mention this, if you deem appropriate and if you can pls do on my behalf.

[gamelover]

I really don’t like this man saying “Classical muslim definition”. That right there explains everything about his opinion on religion matters. No further comments.

[lightningandthunder]

“When the Quran allowed polygamy, it was for a fair reason. When men use that provision today, they do it for a selfish reason, "

A man who chooses to be a polygamous is the one who doesn’t think of marriage on an emotional level. One who put their desires above their wife’s.

It allows women to choose between a one love relationship or a part time husband.
Polygamy is a “legalized” version of an affair. It’s Allah’s gift to separate “cheating boys” from a man and show that man’s true colors.

Allah brought this rule to a polygamist society of that time to CURB the culturally ingrained tradition, added responsibilities.
Quran says, “ if you fear you cannot deal justly with them them marry one” only those who seeks part time relationships would meet this requirements.
Women are against polygamy because men abused the ayat. Quoting one aspect and not the other. Twisting it to natural way when it’s not.
One spouse taking another causes betrayal, injustice and diseases.
We need more women sheikhs.
No man astaghfirullah will ever tolerate his wife with another but he expects her fully to himself.
It destroys families. The impact of a father’s second marriage will cause mental emotional and spiritual harm to the children especially adult children they will see this as a father’s sexual pleasure in seeking second marriage. No one benefits with second marriages except the second wife that now she has a man it will affect the second wife’s children the same way it brought destructions to the children from the first marriage.
A pious man will never deceive his wife and children for fear of Allah and the sanity of his family.

[nethacker]

I think the right way to go about this is to petition the state to legalize polygyny.

[saidbahous]

Let's now find the first wife and second wife later

[mubarakj]

Honestly sounds like you guys are against having a second 3rd or 4th wife. How can you work with the state to prevent muslim men from something that is permissible in islam

[jibril]

Rasulullah SAW would take it on a case by case basis according to and enforcing the law of the Quran. This is a total rejection. Fear Allah swt and be prepared with a great answer.

[YA-hmzy]

what if a man and his wife got married with the intention of it being a monogamous relationship, but later on the husband gets married to a second wife in secret. Is this allowed? does the first wife have right to divorce?

[clementeen]

why does a man need a second wife? or a third or fourth? How is it moral to do so? Marriage is an institution of sanctity between a husband and wife not a husband and wives. This practice is not lawful and is evil

[All_praiseAllah]

I will have many good wives in jannah. InshaAllah 🥰

[tinagalloway]

not only women who look as it is biblical going bk in old testament and alot of people belive in this and in some cases maybe the first wife feel very alone

[আপনিকিজানেন-ঘ৩ঙ]

I'm sahil hasan I'm from India i want to marriage seccend wife so plz you can help me...

[jibril]

Don't think watching a Shabir Ally debate will be the same again..

[KashifKhanOnline]

This is just a money making website and it doesn't provide access to contact information if you don't pay them. Just a money making tool.

[franktickle]

My wife told me to get a second wife I don't know what to think

[chioptnstdr]

Interviewer: ‘Women are helping their humans find another wife.
Imam: 10:00 😡

[adnanshafi]

One can't help observe how apologetic Mr. Shabir Ally sounds saying as if in the mordern times the idea of keeping more than one wife is not practical anymore, and yet subhanAllah there are amazing number of muslim men and women who find it even more practical, offloading and yet very gratifying. All you need is a couple that gets in this bond for the love of Allah.