What happened between me and my best friend that made us enemies for five years & how we reconciled

Today, one of my close friends Lilian Zawadi joins me on this heart to heart conversation. We open up on our friendship journey, breaking up, reconciling and lessons learnt.

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UPDATE ❤
To be honest, we did not expect this video to reach so many of you given this channel is very much new ❤

The highlight is going through your beautiful comments and also seeing some of you reconcile with your friends. Love is a beautiful thing.

We might make another video together soon and I promise to make this channel a safe space for all of us❤

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[audreymulowa]

I met a girl in 2008 in Capetown and we hit it off and became best of friends. We really had a beautiful relationship that we shared a lot. So when i got pregnant she was the first person I shared with and asked her to keep to herself until I was ready to share with my family. She failed to do that and it really hurt me. We exchanged bad words and broke our friendship. Four years later I reached out to her and we hit it off without hesitation. We really cried when we met. Fast forward she died in 2017 and i happened to be the last person she had spoken to that day. I am glad that we reconciled before she died.

[lauriemutheu]

Zawadi is so pretty, still, calm, collected, and soft-spoken.

[beb]

Lynn you can use this channel to reconcile friends too, it would be very interesting to watch❤❤

[TheNaisenya]

I had a friend from high school but as we grew post-university - we became very toxic to each other. In the end, we drifted apart. After 5 years plus, she reached out and said she missed me and would like us to meet. I told her my regrets in how badly i had behaved towards her as a friend. And i profusely apologised to her. But instead of her apologizing as well - she began to remind me of how badly i had treated her. She never once mentioned how badly she had treated me... i decided there and then not to rekindle the friendship. Because i realized that in all those years apart, she had had no reflection of her past behaviour, and that also meant she had not really grown and changed as a person

[DIon..Godismyshield]

I wish milly chebi and jacky could also resolve their issues 😢
I love that lynn and her twinnie are all a vibe❤❤❤❤

[naomimbote]

I wish someone else did this interview so that all of you can concentrate on andwering the questions, and true you have so much in common, soft spoken, good hearted, look alikes etc. Thank you Lynn for introducing us to someone like you.

[empressbascoe]

Who is cutting onions in here.Keep Zawadi she is authentic pretty calm and collected
Happy friendship Lynn and Zawadi

[LethoHali]

Ladies this is an important conversation. Thank you so much for doing this for us!

[lucyliu]

My mum just walked in and she thinks you are interviewing yourself.Enyewe you two were a friendship made in Heaven.❤

[sarahkiki]

I wish Jackie and Milly will one day be in this channel

[annenganga]

Ladies, for our friendships to blossom, we must have boundaries with the Men in our lives…we cannot mix this …,

[ruttosharon]

Now give us a show Lilian and Lynn. Heal friendships. This episode seems to have healed so many friendships out here. Am loving Lilian already.

[odhiambochristine]

Discovering this today, and I love it. Wish this would be me with my long lost friend .I miss the good old days...

[dorcasnyokabi]

This is so impactful and lessons learnt thanks Lynn for making me feel there is always a second chance

[unsolicitedadviceke]

Adult friendships are very complex. Especially when you get to different levels in different ways. It needs maturity.

[ceciliaolima]

A friendship breakup is one of the worst feelings ever. I had a bad breakup with my high school best friend and looking back, it wasn't even something worth breaking up for so looong. It hurts, really hurts. I got another friend later in life, and had another breakup, now more mature, we sat and talked and solved our misunderstandings. It hurts when a friendship is lost

[hannahgakuo]

Thank you Lynn and Zawadi for being soo authentic.

[ShadesOfGlo]

So many things can contribute to friendship breakdowns, but the most hurtful is when people change on you because their life has changed for the better and they feel like you are not on the same level as them anymore.

[irenewanjiru]

Today Lynn you ministered to my heart through your conversation with you best friend. Am so happy for you two. Thanks for reconciling. I also broke with a friend whom I still value. I felt betrayed and one day just blocked them and never said a word. They much later learnt I had blocked everywhere. Its been a while now. Recently, I unblocked on sms and calls and some old messages they wrote a while back came in with one message "are you okay? please lets talk when you are available". My heart sunk and I felt so guilty but then I didn't know what we would talk about. I am like you lynn, I give my all to a friendship/relationship (completely all) and when i feel disappointed, I can easily walk away. I have actually walked away of friendships that no one would think I could but the most unfortunate thing is, once I walk away, I hardly feel the need to go back reason being, I gave it my all but I pray just like you, my heart may soften and give space to allowing back coz in my case, anyone I ever interacted with considering that I gave my best will at some point fight to reconcile but I find it hard to let back.