THE PROS AND CONS OF DATING A FILIPINA

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The pros and cons of dating a Filipina is a complicated topic, but let's dive right in! The pros mad surprise you, the cons may distress you, but it's all 100% truth. Dating a Filipina can be a wonderful visit to heaven, or a one-way trip to hell, but if you know what to expect, you'll have a much better ride!

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[edlearned]

Dealing with the family? Ignoring face saving lies? Accepting childish behavior? Maybe so. But being punished for watching Filipina PEA videos is where I draw the line!

[TinaAndDeanPhLife]

29 years old, Filipina is 25 years old. Met my Filipina a few weeks ago after being long distance since 2019. Absolutely love her and she has made me feel right at home in this beautiful country. She is Godly, beautiful, affectionate, feminine, traditional and everything a man could want in a woman. I've extended my stay until at least November. You only live once right?

[davidshafer]

OMG! When we were first married I couldn't even go to a female checker at grocery store without her getting so jealous and mad it was scary. Things have gotten markedly better in the 19 years since.

[ExtremeRecluse]

My parents have both passed away. My mother in law is the sweetest lady in the world. Of course we support her financially. She is my mother. It is my duty as a son. I first started communicating with my wife In August 2010. in October, I traveled to the Philippines to meet her and her three kids I stayed for four weeks. That was the best time of my life. I went back home and started the 90 day visa process. She and the kids arrived August 2011. We have been married since then. She works at the same place I do. The oldest daughter joined the Navy in October 2012. She was recently accepted to dental school. Our son is in IT. My youngest daughter is a nurse. I will retire in five years. We will rotate between the states and the Philippines. Is it worth traveling half way around the world to meet your soulmate. Mabuhay

[bdogjr]

Awesome P🌷《☆》Brilliant Shelf Life comment dear👍✔❤There's a cute Filipina working at my favorite Grocery store. Her accent is very thick like she just flew in from the Philippines & She calls me Sir😁I hope the Sir thing doesn't disqualify me as a potential Love interest🖖🤓🏈

[MrWaterbugdesign]

IMO this video is referring more to Filipinas in the south (Visayas, Mindanao). Many things are much different in Luzon. Also I think Pes is talking more about very young Filipinas. When I chat with Filipinas in the 35-50 year old range for example I notice families have much less influence. And in the north I run into professional Filipinas who own property and are making a good living. They ones I chatted with had all broken with their families because over time some family members had screwed them over on property transactions.

IMO most of these issues can be avoided with a little rational thought when picking a Filipina.

By far the biggest con is COMMUNICATION. She may speak very good English but there can still be huge misunderstandings because words can mean different things. Communication with a Western woman isn't good either. Add a different culture and non-native English an throw in tampo and face savings and it can be a trainwreck.

[robjulian]

The day I met my Filipina, she asked If I would like to go to her province and meet her parents, I agreed, and I met her Mom, Dad, 3 brothers, her sister, and her 2 1/2 year old baby. They invited me into their house and started feeding me, lol. Her whole family, including all of her relatives and neighbors all approved of me, and loved me. I then travelled there 8 times in 2019 alone. And before you start... They never asked me for anything at all. This relationship lasted for 2 1/2 years, and it was wonderful. I am moving to the Philippines this summer to retire. I love the people, food, and the culture.

[saburabdul-salaam]

Pea you convinced me, the pros definitely out the cons if you choose the right Filipina.

[kevinbarry]

Here's a rule that applies for anybody looking for a woman in a serious relationship; doesn't matter what culture she comes from. Find out what her attitude toward her father is. If the father was a good example of how a man should be; and she has a good relationship you are likely going to do well. If her father was a disaster, or left the family when she was young, and she doesn't like him; find another woman. It's not her fault but those issues will be transferred to you

[robertnorkus]

Again another honest video presented by you. After dealing with Filipinos while I was there visiting the Philippines, I find what you say to be true. Thanks for being honest in your videos and not just presenting false information for viewers. My hat's off to you

[Crazykid]

PEA:
As always you've given the uncomfortable truth (with the cons), along with the comforting truth (the pros) all wrapped up with your brand of humor. Well done.
Women around where I live in Canada, are extremely superficial. they want the pretty-boy, and he'd better be rich as well. Yet when you ask them what kind of guy they are looking for, they all say the same thing, "I want someone that is fun to be around! Someone who can make me laugh! someone who will treat me as an equal." Yet in reality, when guy goes up to them and makes them laugh through casual conversation, if he isn't the best looking guy in the establishment, and doesn't have the thickest wallet, she brushes him off like he is the identical twin to the Hunchback of Notre Dame.
The biggest problem about the Pretty-boys, and the rich boys these women go after is, they are the ones that have more of a chance to run around with any woman they want because of their looks or financial portfolio. However the below average and average looking guys are usually happy they have someone and are most likely to stick around a woman that treats him properly. Same goes with the wealthy guys, they run around on their girlfriends more often than the guys who don't have that much in the bank. they can't afford to go "docking their boat in other harbors"
Even though any person can be unfaithful to their significant others, the more options the person has laid out at their feet, the higher chance they are going to pursue other ventures. It's just the law of averages that works this one out. the only variable is the actual person's personality, bank of morals, and personal value structure that makes the difference.
Dealing with negatives to have some positives in relationships is just the norm, in my opinion. It's the YING AND YANG of relationships. It can't always be good, and it can't always be bad, there's a balance if you really look at it long enough, and it's something we as people just have to accept if we want ot have the company of another person for a lengthy period of time.

[Mr-Clark]

Priorities to a Filipina:
1. Her parents
2. Her siblings
3. Her religion
3, 425. Her husband

[davewright]

The cons is they always want money and can't budget.

[andersonhutsell]

The only dangerous situation I have encountered I'm Manila is endless piles of Dog Crap on every walkway.

[codywalden]

A lot of the Filipinas I met, seem to be waiting until marriage to have sex. I guess that’s a positive or negative depending on who you ask. For me, a negative.

[projekteva]

First trip to Philippines: "So nice you are helping me with chores." Second trip to Philippines: "Stop helping me with laundry the neighbors are gossiping I'm lazy"

[paultownsend]

Absolutely on point Pea...The pros of living with a Filipina far outweigh the cons. At the end of the day we all just want to feel loved and valued. Love in the Philippines is definitely the perfect place to find that. Great video my friend ❤️

[MrWaterbugdesign]

The last item, looking past appearance, is the key. Makes it worth getting past PH issues.

[steveperyer]

I like this video Pea, except I am in a little different situation I am 67 and my Filipina is 59. We have talked about many things, and she is a widow of a part time foreigner husband, She does not have any children, and she doesn’t want any. I am happy with our LDR, and planning to move to Guihulngan in the spring of 2023 to get our relationship going in the right direction. I felt that there are many beautiful women in the Philippines, and even the older ladies are beautiful, and what I felt from here very beginning more in touch with each other better. Thank you Miss Pea for the gift of helping us understand the ways of the Filipina. The subject you have never investigated is the one I am having a relationship with an older Filipina. Not all of us are talking to just the younger ladies