Do You Always Attract Energy Vampires? This Is the Reason Why…

Empaths and intuitives all share a very similar energy signature, and there’s something in this signature that attracts energy vampires.

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[zinknot]

I just dealt with the worst case of this in my life. The person was stuck in a negative mindset but seemed to be seeking change. So i gave away so much time and energy trying to help until it was so clear that they didn't really want to change, they just wanted to constantly vent their negativity to me and just be around me to absorb whatever benefits they can but give nothing in return. Then when i started to withdraw to have my own space they became cruel and vindictive. To the point of threatening to purposely cause harm to my life. I stood up for myself and let them know i will defend myself and won't tolerate threats and thank God it's all over now except some spoofing phone calls.
And i learned that i need to be more assertive from the beginning.

[levaaaaaanah]

We Empaths & HSP/HIP carry guilt in our energy signature that attracts nassholes...this is new to me thankyou. Shadow work is a good way I feel to release that xx

[battlevain]

Excellent video and insights. The kindest people are always targets for manipulators and exploiters. We have to switch off our feelings of guilt and learn to put ourselves first.

[basilia_terrazas]

Wow! This is exactly what I've dealt with all my life. I will no longer feel guilty for taking care of my needs ever

[neilvaughan]

Definitely agree about the guilt. Also dont feel guilty about being more selfish and strong and breaking free of your social circles to become the person you need to be to achieve yourself best life.

Also because empaths have a lot of humanity we appreciate people are falliable. Have to watch this one as it can keep you trapped

[TheFireflycam]

Energy vampires are like a worse version of ‘time-burglars’

[AA-lqpu]

I got a Real Vampire Reiki attunement....I did this months ago and have not had somebody take my energy since. From an energy level I just figured out how to not give energy to them. I feel the psychic chord almost as it goes in, they can't even get a chord in because I cut it. I can't feel guity if I can see what they are doing and see through the guilt tripping. Being able to see through people means they no longer have an effect. Becoming psychic in a sense is what saved me.

[MauriceRivers]

I had to slowly separate/ghost from a clique during COVID, because I noticed they talked shit about each other when one person was gone. But when everyone was together, they did all the fake smiles/fake love and pretended it was all good.

Behind the scenes, I knew how certain people really felt, so I learned to mind my business and just wish the best for everyone. The problem with that is that they see you as a threat, because you don't co-sign their BS, or you have your own life outside of the clique. You can still be supportive to them and their work, without being directly involved in the spiderweb of toxicity, jealousy, narcissism, back-stabbing and envy.

It's best to keep a respectful distance once you peep the BS. Because even though they'll now see you as the enemy, you have your peace and freedom from the silly shenanigans they play with each other.

[bpassionfashion]

OMG!!!!
You just explained yearssss of theraphy. GUILT. That’s it!!!!
Not a lot of people talk about this. I had to discover this through hard inner work and STILL after discovering the fact that I have been manipulated with and by my own guilt, it still has a hold of me . Will look into your classes to further work on this . Thank you .

[catlover-sx]

You speaking about guilt almost made me cry. Firs time I feel as if somebody understands me and I'm not alone. Thank you. Words have power.

[saaramohamed]

They also pick up on my autism traits. They think my lack of eye contact, fidgeting etc is signs of low esteem lol

[amy]

Thank you thank you thank you! I'm highly intuitive and an empath, and have dealt with some scary energy vampires...some in my family, some not. They all contributed to ruining my life and career dreams. I dealt with one recently, and it's the last straw. Your video just set my wings free, I can fly now, after almost 30 years. No longer, will I let others put unwarranted guilt on me, so they can use me for their gain. 💕Big hug, thank you.💕

[Bella-infb]

They stare at you too. That dark weird stare.

[jamiewilliams]

People close to me are the worst when it cones to energy vampires, they think they are owed a living.

[dentn]

Thanks i feel so good for being aware of this...I recently had to cut someone off for the 100th time because it keeps coming back one way or another in social media etc
And is honestly crazy how they will do anything to get into your life just to drain your energy...

[lehablkwd]

WHOA. I was not expecting you to say guilt, and that immediately felt true. This was so helpful, thsnk you!

[TheyDontKnowImHere]

For me, yes it was guilt. I was a small child when I was taught that a biblical character died for my sins. My guardian was a narcissist, and it snowballed from there.

[Dagm]

This is amazing to see and right on time! I always knew that my shadow work was still ongoing based on fears I still carry of being a targeted empath. Even though I've come a long way in terms of discernment and boundaries, it's amazing that someone within all the online content can finally get at core issues! Furthermore, you're an actually real person not hiding behind logos, fancy filming, and synthetic voices. Above all, I feel you're not merely repeating what others are saying, as this is the first I've heard of this. Thank you ❤💙💜

[debrawilliams]

Many empaths has soul loss. I have taken plant medicine, and partook in a soul retrieval ceremony. I called back the parts of my soul that I had lost.

[TruthIsNotSale]

I am an empath the day I became a reiki master my teacher who attuned me said you will now be a like a flame attracting moths. Like a moth to a flame it’s so true …I dont feel guilty about anything I haven’t done anything to deserve to feel guilty 🤷‍♀️ I don’t think guilt is the answer here I think ppl see how bright and shiny we are and we are great supply