What to EXPECT after you breakup with a Narcissist

What happens RIGHT AFTER you breakup with a Narcissist or toxic person? What to expect when you leave a toxic relationship. In this video Lee Hammock, a diagnosed narcissist, tells you what to expect when leaving a narcissist and also what narcissists do when you break up with them.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[missmissy]

Sometimes I feel like I'm going to lose my mind and have a breakdown because I can't see them and hear them it's like separation anxiety and then I pray to God real quick to give me strength Lord to give me strength I breathe and then I move on

[moniqueboatfield]

When this divorce is final I’ll be writing “JUST DIVORCED” on the back of my car and dragging some cans behind me, lol.

[chai]

I haven’t dated anyone since. Still healing

[mortischahicks]

NoContact for over 230+ days. My freedom date 1-18-2024. I am so thankful that I walked away! The best decision I ever made in my life.

[googleuser]

I was stuck for over 20 years but it got so bad that I was perfectly fine when I finally walked away. It took a lot to get me to that point but when I decided I was done, I barely had any emotion left for my narc. He struggled with his loss of supply more than I struggled with my new found independence. I am happy I discarded him before he had a chance to spit me out.

[IreneHernandez-fvsg]

Left 5 weeks ago after a 6 year relationship. He hasn't apologized but wants to be "friends." What the ?!?!

[MichelleRedmond-pq]

Look up things a man does if he doesn't love you, opened up my eyes 😢my heart goes out to all of you

[loveofmylife]

The mental gymnastics we go through after a narcissistic relationship is crazy. You're left confused with all kinds of mixed emotions. Anxiety kicks in when you think of them. Oh, when you just so happen to see them in public, your heart literally stops. Couseling helps, but grace must be extended to you from yourself. It is ok to miss the facade of who we thought they were. But you must press forward. Happy healing yall

[xatiesloco]

It's been six months now since the discard (three-year relationship). He quickly jumped to someone new and distracted himself with friends. I'm glad he's gone. I called him out for the clown and hypocrite he is, and he felt attacked. His fragile ego is unbelievable. He emotionally abused me, manipulated me, and treated me like shit, but he has the audacity to act like that after he reached out to me for help? Get lost and take your entitlement with you.

[sandraleehurst]

Lee, of course it still hurts and I DO miss the good times. But….. I watched one of your videos before that suggested the good times revolved around bad times so I thought about it. It’s absolutely true. My kids and i went through about 10 boxes of photos last weekend from our 31 yr marriage, 35 yrs altogether and it was quite difficult. I’ll never go back . I’ve learned a lot through these videos. One of them is him getting his karma ( ugh ) . I kicked him out for assault last Dec 5th and he moved into his brothers house where his brothers gf was cooking him dinner every night and I was here alone and had no one to talk or cry too . His brothers gf and him got into an argument a few weeks ago and he kept yelling at her and scaring her. Now he’s living at his sisters house, taking care of her 13 yr old and 31 yr old kids. It’s been a hell of a mess for him, I almost feel sorry for him. But, it’s no longer my circus. He’s a clown 🤡

[DEEJOJOHNSON]

My narcissistic wife misses me, but because she knows that I found out she committed adultery, she is staying no contact. Because she knows I'm over her

[missmissy]

It's been 3 days away. I panic sometimes I can't see or hear him. Imma keep pushing

[fdog]

I feel relief when my NARC sibling is Gone

[Rpind]

I do not miss them AT ALL..feel COMPLETE relief! I went COMPLETE NO CONTACT...& they are mad as hell about it.

[dumpmail-xzqp]

I didn't want to deal with the dilemma of wondering if the narc will show up or not, I straight out blocked her and went no contact.
No buts or what if there.
I simply put in my head that keeping her away is the best thing that I did for me.
Shes someone else's problem now.

[veronicab]

I noticed a lot of similarities between narcissists and avoidants too. Sometimes it's hard to tell which one my ex is but I really think he's a vulnerable narcissist.

[Sub_]

It's the second thoughts that gets me. Maybe I AM too sensitive. Maybe I AM ruining my family - the most important part of my life. Am I single handendly destroying the very thing that means the most in my world.

[jackiel]

Great video can you do one when they discard you what they go through.

[Atrice-oitd]

It’s been almost a year no contact and I’m still struggling… it’s even worse because of the dating pool out here… I haven’t been intimate with anyone I’m so traumatized I don’t want a relationship with anyone… sometimes I have to fight myself not to reach out… sometimes I think it’s better the devil u know that the devil u don’t but he hasn’t tried to reach out to me AT ALL… we were engaged and I was pregnant when we ended it… I just want the pain, the ptsd, the constantly still thinking he’ll pop up somewhere to be over…. I’m the only one that’s holding on mentally and emotionally but I don’t want to… 😩

[pennybrowning]

My ex Narc ALWAYS Said
" It's not your fault" to me for no reason