how to get rid of toxic friends

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[bi]

Didn't understand for the longest time why maintaining friendship was a struggle until I realize that most people make friends out of insecurity and bond over insecurity. No matter how kind or how genuine I proved to be I would always get backstabbed and shlttalked. If people are insecure they see you as a threat and it's hard to connect to someone you're threatened by.

[PeytonCharles]

I swear getting rid of toxic friends is the fountain of youth.

[naomibarrales]

Not only does getting rid of toxic friends feel freeing, it also helps you realize that in certain situations you too may have been the toxic friend. I've definitely had my fair share of toxicity, and I'm so glad that it took an emotional breakdown to realize my own flaws. Thank you Professor Stamps for teaching your ways.

[sailoraries]

as a recovering people pleaser, this video means so much. thank you, professor stamps

[mixtapebyx]

While listening to her stories, I remember many memories, especially the part where a friend hates you because you are better than them or gaining more attention. Also, that clingy friend who will never let you go because you are their only friend. I learned the hard way that you need low-maintenance friends because if you get busy dealing with their issues, you will forget about yourself and your own goals. So don't be guilty of distancing yourself.

[NeloOkeke]

step 2: Make sure you're not the toxic friend

[shakiki]

I've always joked saying "well ya know, I have no friends" but I can jokingly say that because I realized I'm fine with that. I'd rather that over toxic situationships.

[poppycalliope]

toxic friends are the biggest no no. I still remember a toxic friend I used to have growing up, I was young and didn't notice the way she actually mistreated me, made fun of me and tried to put me down because of her insecurities. they really try to suck all your energy and make you feel bad about yourself...they're just sad.

[socialstew]

There are parts of adult friendships that require attention, sacrifice and patience.
And if you're not willing to put in the work, there is an excellent chance their desire to do the same will also fade.
And THAT is how you turn your friends into acquaintances.
Class dismissed.

[KellyStamps]

Please appreciate the classroom chatter sound effect at the beginning of the video 🥺

[chriskell]

Here I thought I was the only one who thought life was better without "friends". Since I walked away from any kind of friendship or relationship, life has become so peaceful.

[Mina-rbut]

I remember this girl planned a hike with me for Sunday morning at 7 am.

I had plans the night before so trying to be a good friend, came home early to be in bed so I was ready at 7 am.

The girl then ghosted me and texted me at 1 pm claiming she “ drank too much”

This was the 3 rd time she did something like this.

Without explanation, I blocked her from everything.

Control, Alt, Delete

[twinkincarnate]

the way i dropped a majority of my friends and they dropped me at the end of 2021.. i haven’t hung out with anyone outside of family irl since last year and i ain’t even mad. i didn’t feel genuine connection with a lot of them, and i just want to find my soul tribe already. if that means being alone, which is fine because i’m obsessed with myself, then so be it! i’m elevating, and want friends who are doing the same ;’))

[TalksWithTea]

I felt this video in my soul. I used to be so hung up on what other people thought of me and going out of my way to please people, but I was the only one getting hurt and let down each time. I really feel like the company you keep is a reflection of you so at the end of the day, keep cutting the grass cause you never know what snakes might be lurking!

[apieceofcoffee]

Realized in the last few years that I don't have a "best" friend, only a collection of friends and acquaintances. Even my very tight group of college best friends of 15+ years exposed themselves as toxicly selfish (and gave me my first ever panic/anxiety attack in 2020 when it dawned on me that they did not care about a very serious event in my life). Transferred them into arms-length-away-friends category. Focus on two or three people in your life you can trust and your life will improve tremendously since you'll have all this new spare energy you were giving before to the undeserving.

[Loosh]

I can relate 100% on the friend that gave you dirty looks when you levelled up. Deep down people like her just wants you to fail and tries to hide that by faking sympathy. I’ve come to realize those people lack sympathy the most. Block and delete! 🙌

[omgitsandrea]

I’ve heard stories of professors continuing their zoom classes in the hospital while going through chemo treatments, from their cars because they’re homeless, BUT I’ve never seen a professor continue their zoom course from a jail cell. Thank you for your love and commitment to education. The stampede would be lost without you. God bless America, and may god bless YOU

[dreamchaser]

I've had every type of toxic friend imaginable. (1) They give unsolicited advice on your appearance (2) Self-absorbed flake whose too busy to emotionally invest or be present (3) Undermine other friendships (4) So much jealously underneath the surface (5) Want to trauma bond over their toxic romantic relationships (6) Make genuine connections and that person's SO is intimated or just arbitrarily doesn't want the friendship to flourish

Tired of being backstabbed, talked about behind my back, always remembering birthdays....sending eCards, sending texts....helping with rent. I just give people less energy now. I kind of just fade to black

[Bond_MrsBond]

Guurlll I learned this is my late 20’s. When the booze wears off and the sun comes up, most of my “friends” were not friends at all. Had to cut em all lose and the calmness I felt was unmatched.

[reboundingfromnarcissistic]

I feel a common problem that ppl have is they see us as objects to be used. Toxicity is the norm and good ppl are very very very hard to come by. We love you Kelly !