My Spouse Went $332,000 Into Debt Behind My Back!

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[APennyPinchersGuide]

Marrying the right person is the most important decision you can make. I feel bad for this poor woman, her husband is a deceiver

[jenniferlee]

I was married to a surgeon and he felt that a marriage counsellor was not "educated" enough to work with him. He also felt that he made so much money that he could do whatever he wanted. I would not quit my job and he felt threatened. I am a nurse and did not have the income he made, but it was my security. After six years, I ended the marriage and I am happier for it. Thank God we had no children.

[meancarleen]

her question SHOULD be - who is the best divorce lawyer in my area?

[brianafranklin]

"Not cheat cheat" honey this man is probably CHEATING on you

[BarryBethal-yvoz]

My ex wife did this to me I would work all the overtime I could get to pay our mortgage off early and she was getting personal loans behind my back, we are now divorced and I'm debt free money in the bank, house paid for, happy life.

[choreomaniac]

I’d hire a PI. Something is really wrong here. Either he’s the worst investor in the world or he has a secret family, a drug addiction, a gambling addiction or a mistress.

[SW-swwx]

How do people stay in the relationship after something like this happened?? She gave him an ultimatum and he did it again, now she’s hesitant to leave 🤔 lady don’t be giving ultimatums when you don’t really want to leave!

[carressa]

The guy is cheating. He is having an affair and has an addiction maybe it’s gambling. He’s living a fantasy and she isn’t apart of it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[bettysmith]

He is cheating!!!! He has, and is, and you don't realize it! Take off your rose colored glasses lady, he isn't spending 40K on water bottles!

[Landmantx]

You can’t spend $400, 000 on water bottles and discount store junk. He is up to something.

[PSDamon]

"has he cheated on you before"
"no, not cheat cheat"
so he has cheated

[LeesaLilHop]

Girl. You already know you need to leave.

[AmberRen]

Everyone responding at the same time: “What’s ‘cheat cheat?’”

[localone]

She needs to be planning her exit strategy.

[ludens]

My worst nightmare. Who you marry makes or breaks you.

[laurenwallis]

How can you live with someone who lies to you constantly? You don’t even know who you’re sleeping next to at night.

[LeesaLilHop]

“Cheat cheat”? Meaning he definitely cheated on some level

[Scott-got-caught]

He's a liability. Find yourself an asset!

[j.l]

Great question from Dave; “Is he a liar or an arrogant?” Basically: is he cheating or just a fake showoff? I would not waste another day! I would just leave the guy; to me this is clearly beyond repair.

[EastCoastReefer]

“He lies to me a lot.” Maybe you should have put an end to it when it was just a little.