People Are More Likely to LIKE You If...

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Have you ever wondered how to get someone to like you? They may think you’re pretty alright - whether this is a crush, friend, or acquaintance - but you want them to jump for joy at the mere sight of you! Well, that may not so easily happen… the literal jumping. But, there are a few things that people find likable. Do you do these things? Possess these traits? People are more likely to like you if… you do these five things.

Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Ira Alifia
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:
Diana I. Tamir, Jason P. Mitchell. (2012). Intrinsic value of self-disclosure. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences May 2012, 109 (21) 8038-8043; DOI: 10.1073/pnas.1202129109
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1. 0:25 You're holding a warm beverage
2. 1:24 They see you in group first
3. 2:14 You make small mistakes
4. 3:48 You compliment others
5: 4:47 You're a great listener

alyssae
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For people that struggle to make friends or even feel nervous to approach others, just let it happen naturally. Be positive, be present and be yourself. Not expecting everyone to like you was a big eye opener for me because I always took it so personally when I figured out someone didn't want to be friends with me and there were times that hurt a lot. I eventually learned to stop caring and did things that made me happy. Don't let negative people stay in your life, people will eventually gravitate towards you and when you find a moment, think before you speak and act with respect. Most importantly, do things that make YOU happy.

NanovisionOnTwitch
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#5 is very true.. but the downside of being a good listener is that it can be extremely difficult to find people who are equally willing to listen to you 😫 Once people realize you're a good listener, they are often quick to put you in the "Oh yay! I can vent to this person!" category... and once you are in that category, it's almost impossible to get out or expand the relationship dynamic.

anthonymontes
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“No matter how many people like you and your work, it doesn’t matter if you don’t like yourself.” - Cara Delevingne

ives
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“You don’t worry about being liked. You have to be yourself.” - Vince Vaughn

ives
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I have ADHD and I think in social situations, my most unlikable trait is that I interrupt people or sometimes finish their sentence. It may be more annoying to myself than others when I realise I’ve just done it 🤦🏻‍♀️
It’s frustrating and when I get the urge and I’m aware, I try to stop myself but it mostly happens when I’m interested, have personal experience or I’m passionate about the topic. I’ve started telling people I sometimes interrupt due to having ADHD when I first meet them in hopes they don’t take offense or think I’m rude. It’s so awkward!

oDaisyo
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*2:14* You make small mistakes
This is only true if people see you as being (close to) perfect. Otherwise people tend to like you less the more mistakes you make.

*3:48* You compliment others
This is only true if you compliment people about something they are proud about themselves.
Making false or shallow compliments will make people like you less.

Dfd_Free_Speech
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This fit just right in this moment of my life. No because I want to become popular, I just want to be social acceptable, I've been attached over ten years with relationships and friendships online. So.. here I'm almost thirty and social awkward. I don't know how to keep a "normal conversation", I don't know when make jokes, I feel people rejection, I want feel in peace with everyone... Thank you for your video

ceciliasanchez
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I hope this channel never ends and keep spreading happiness ❤️

Yashuop
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The sad part of being the person that others like it won't make you the one they love. I learned that the hard way, but being genuine and being able to do these things have made friends of strangers and lead to my confidence returning after having it destroyed.
Be kind and don't expect anything of it, life is better that way.

jallen
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0:25 You're holding a warm beverage
1:19 They see you in a group first
2:13 You make small mistakes sometimes
3:47 You give people compliments
4:44 You're a great listener
Oh well, for who are confused, I usually comment/make timestamps for myself. Stop commenting useless things.

endlesswonderland
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In my experience (in a work or school setting) people tend to like it when you remember and say their name. I did this at my current job and I have never been so well liked before. Kinda refreshing to feel approachable to everyone and vice versa.

SaucyLiving
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I don't personally think anyone should change just to make other people happy but that's just me

SleepiestSoL
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I don’t need to be liked. I like and love myself first. Everything else is consequence of what I am and do. I learned that the answer is always inside myself.

Mylenabr
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For me I hope to compliment people just because I appreciate them, not because I want to be liked. although it does expend some brain cells. While it's easy to appreciate someone else, expressing appreciation for others is something that needs practice.

asleepawake
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Take group photos (cheerleader effect), Be a good listener, Small blunder is acceptable, Compliments others, holding warm beverages instead cold ones

hendrasutika
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Timestamps
1). You're holding a warm beverage 0:25
2). They see you in a group first 1:20
3). You make small mistakes sometimes 2:14
4). You give people compliments 3:48
5). You're a great listener 4:44

Hope this helps you out.

Aan
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I always find the need to give small gifts to people randomly. Like thanks for hanging out with me, here's the payment for your time... I guess I feel they need to compensated.

ComicStrip
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Most of us, never challenge a friending over to liking they never like an awkward weirdo.

Also fair and nice with wisdom only makes people like you truly.

Willchannel
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The illustrations are getting better and better ❤

asleepawake