How to End a Conversation Politely

How do end a conversation politely? This video gives 7 smooth ways to end a conversation without being rude when somebody won't stop talking.

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[wardaahmad]

I pack my stuff in class to signal the lecturer 😂

[aylinmontes]

I like the “telling them what you’re about to do, ” it’s like blaming the next activity for having to leave!

Thanks so much, God bless you too!

[bubbybubbybubbyy]

Thank you for this! I work as a barista in a cafe with mostly elderly customers who enjoy long conversations, but unfortunately my job requires a high pace and focus. My typical non verbal cues haven’t been working and I find myself standing awkwardly listening to customers even though I need to get back to my station. This was concise and gave me all the tips I needed! 😌

[theseeker]

A VERY SHORT AND HELPFUL SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
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1) END ON YOUR TALKING TURN - 1:03
2) COMMUNICATE A TIME LIMIT - 1:32
3) PACK UP YOUR STUFF - 2:9
4) TELL THEM YOU HAVE TO GO - 2:50
5) SAY WHAT YOU'RE DOING NEXT - 3:17
6) USE POLITE EXPRESSION - 3:42
7) APOLOGIZE AND REPEAT - 4:28

[dextermanlulu]

I need this, I'm a Barista, and part of my job is engaging to our guests, after watching this, i'll improve more on doing small talks and how to close conversations in a nice way..thanks alex.

[dommaareksslim]

Stating a time limit! I've never done this before and always end up feeling like I am 'abandoning' a conversation too early. Setting a time limit seems like a great way to honor my boundaries and those of others. Thanks!

[sisterelizee]

I needed this. I had zero conversation termination skills.😊

[ahlamomer]

Only you can maintain your boundaries, other people are not going to do that for you.... great 👍

[stephsmith]

I love this channel, only just discovered you Alex. These tips for ending conversations politely are great. I am regularly hijacked by long talkers. I think the most effective are the active signals, like putting my pen top on or tidying my stuff away. I had a boss a long time ago, he was 80 years old and the owner of an engineering business which had been in his family for several generations. He was very welcoming to people, receiving them in his office and genuinely listening to them etc. But all he had to do to bring the conversation to a close was to simply stand up. It never failed. He managed to convey by his stance that the meeting was at an end. He would shake hands warmly and accompany them right to the door of the building so they always felt as though there visit was important to him.

[jennyl]

Thank you for this logical and helpful breakdown.. Ending On MY Turn (No. 1), can be a challenge for me b/c I tend to allow folks to monopolize the exchange. But I can always interrupt politely and interject a time limit (No. 2) and combine this with letting them know What's Next (No. 5).

[elsagonzalez]

"Pack it up" sounds best for most situations for me. Thank you for the tips🙏

[dr.animeindia]

Thank you for making this video. I really needed it .

[tburnette]

I do think I can use #2 tho! It's good to see you, Mary. I have about 3min before I have to get back to [this thing you totally interrupted me from doing!] project.

[JuliaAndersonnow]

End on my turn, I love the time reference and then wrapping up your thoughts. BRILLIANT!

[Rose-ezvf]

Brilliant; I’ve never really thought about this so it’s very helpful.

[onlyagreeingsometimes]

I really do apologize, but I have to go and watch another video. You've been great and really helpful. Have a great day. Seriously, I've got to go and watch this video as planned today. Bye now.

[AshShawwa]

I think the best advice you gave for me was the first one. I have a tendency to interrupt people when leaving and I never thought twice about it until a few days ago and when I saw this video. Thanks!

[rontiemens]

I use all of these and can attest that they are very effective. The one that can benefit me the most is the one that I am a bit weak in, and that is #7, Apologize and Repeat. I need to apply that one more diligently. Thank you, Mr. Lyon!

[kathconstance]

Biggest tip - The importance of setting own boundaries - Thank you :)

[maryalex]

Great video but this all implies that you 'have to get going" when this issue can surface in the middle of being W/ another person for an extended period of time. What should a person do when you are on a hike or are going to be with him/her for a longer period of time but are obsessing or ruminating about a topic that you are fatigued of hearing about. Thx