Is it worth the effort, and how should I go about it?

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Odd Man Out:

[Bud_Studly]

Never, ever let your guard down, or trust them unconditionally. If you're looking for a true friend, get a dog.

[DoubleOddJosh]

I tried having female friends in my twenties. They just use you as an emotional tampon and as a free mechanic

[michaelsix]

I found out when my friends moved up in the world, ie. became a doctor, lawyer, got a six figure income, they dropped me. It was quite a shock. I never thought it would happen, but it was a lesson in human nature. Women were even worse. If you contact them after a long absence, you might be called a stalker. I was, and so I stopped. Women want you when they need you, when that is done, you're history.

[dracon]

Every female friend I ever had ended with me doing way more for her than she did for me. Learn the difference between being friendly and becoming an unpaid handyman.

[rchn]

My recently divorced neighbor wanted me to install some timer electrical switches.
She never would say hi to me in the last 20 yrs. Very typical of women, including the

[revengearena]

Joker is like the cool uncle you always wanted but never had

[TomTobin]

Take it from me; the guy who's been married twice: Do NOT co-habitate with her. Basically, friend-zone every woman you meet IMMEDIATELY. The competitive ones will do ANYTHING to get out of it. ANYTHING!

[michaelsix]

After the 60s, women in America got to be very hard to handle. In college 74-80, I was amazed how few girls were friendly. Most didn't date unless they had a bf back home. It waIs a huge letdown, and after college it didn't improve. I never married, and I've had very little contact with women outside work. Retired at 56 due to cancer, and I don't miss the workplace drama I endured for years. Working with women was really awful, and don't ever do it.

[GRHD]

A smart man learns from their mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others. I dated long ago. But I never got a female pregnant, nor have I ever been married. I seen many young girls in high school pregnant. I didn't want to be another one of those guys carrying that burden at such a young age. I never been married because a decade ago I saw the rate of divorces and just simply said I didn't want to be another divorced man. That's not to say I never wanted to be married and have kids, because I did. But the increase rate of divorce simply opened my eyes. I saw MGTOW and I said I don't want to end up being another guy paying alimony and have my kids taken from me and used as a shield/weapon against me. I don't have to worry about any of that and can do what I want, when I want. While I don't resent women as much as they do, I do feel for their pain for being back stabbed. I don't think marriage is worth all this stress and burden. And I'm not optimistic about the future of women. I don't see this ever going away. Social media has brought out the worst in women and that's never going to die, or get regulated. I think most of them are going to grow up to be obnoxious as they are now.

Good women will always be a hidden and rare gem.

[joethepotato]

As someone who has made dozens of female friends over the years due to hobbies and work, it just isn't worth it. There's always an ulterior motive behind 99% of their actions.

[iSOisoleucine]

Hi Joker - I am a young man and I really appreciate the advice that you are giving out. It's very plain and it doesn't feel charged like so much of the other content that's put on youtube.

I really like the humility in the way you speak and the unwillingness to compromise on what's important to you, while keeping it simple and uncomplicated. Please keep doing what you are doing, and I look forward to seeing what you put out next.

[rekartrustee]

Make sure women are playing in your ballpark. You make the rules. She is just a participant. She follows your rules or she doesn't get to play anymore.

[mikebones]

A lot of guys who never had much luck with women when younger. Or where kind of sheltered. Are naive to relationships and simp later in life. They think there missing out then they run into a red flag girl and there life gets messed up. Like prince harry.

It’s good to get with women and go through stuff when younger. Then you know your not missing out on anything. Trust me the p sleeve is not worth it.

[MyViolador]

In my college class we are only 3 men and 20 women, so I eventually befriended some of them and oh man they sure like to talk shit about their bfs, and im just there thinking "I dont envy those guys, I wonder if she has some thisthy friend tho"

[mr.c]

This has probably been one of Joker's best videos for younger Men....
It is not Rules... Just a roadmap, Tools to use to make each of your own decisions as to what will fit best for each one of us Men

[Hossak]

Awesome video Joker! I would add that for the younger guys who have never been bitten by the love bug, had a serious relationship etc etc to take Joker's advice to heart. Also it is not a disaster or something to feel bad about if that has not happened to you - it is just an experience in life that you learn from and move on. It does not make you better than anybody else, it is just a life thing that can work out for you or not. BUT, please be aware that the desire to be with someone or falling hard for some girl can result in the complete destruction of your life/world, especially these days, if you are not experienced or ready for the feelings that you will go through. This is why it is advisable to have these experiences at the early stages of your life if you can, so you understand better what you can expect and how to deal with it, rebuild and move on. I don't think I am incorrect in saying that you can watch Joker sitting there talking about being married and what a mistake it was all calm and measured. However, when he was going through it - holy bejesus - it is like your heart is getting ripped out of your chest EVERY SINGLE DAY for months/years on end. Even when it is over, you still think about it and relive it like PTSD (which is totally is). That doesn't mean that marriage/long term relationships are not for you but just be aware that a lot of guys don't make it out with their shit intact like Joker. He is really doing a great service to other guys by videos like this, no hate in there just quiet contemplative reflection. However if you always want to have a woman in your life, please take heed of what he is saying and learn their nature or your life will be a series of great beginnings/ok-meh middles and crappy endings with you ending up in the poorhouse.

[alishamnystrom]

My brothers are car guys, so when they're working on a car they call up their buddies and make a party out of fixing it up together.

[adulfdabo]

I also have long term female friendships and I'm actually happy to have them. One of these ladies actually helped me to understand female nature. If there is no physical attraction, it's easy to talk about pretty much everything. If there is physical attraction, keep her as a close friend for a few weeks. Usually after 8 - 12 weeks you don't even want them as a girl friend anymore, because you can see what they really are. I think it's important to have a small number of female friends, it helps to become (and stay) red pilled, because you can kind of watch what they do from a safe distance. :-D

[DragoonKnight]

That's why i like this channel.
The fact that the mentality is: "look, i have seen this, this are the experiences i had, this is what commonly happens. Take what is useful to you, analyze your own situation and make your decision".
i have always thought is better to entice people to think by themselves, give them the tools and let them find their own path rather than mark the road you think they have to follow.

[kurtstrain]

Thankfully I discovered your channel to make me feel proud again. I made the mistake of reading "Wingmam" where it's always the man's problem to fix everything. With you, I now know it's not always my problem and I now choose to opt out of relationships. I am 59 now and still learning. Your advice calms me. I will be okay. You saved me from crap women.