9 Reasons Why NOT To Move To Italy

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To move to Italy or not to move to Italy.. that is the question. Whether you want to live in Italy or simply move abroad somewhere else, there are a multitude of factors to consider. In this episode, I wanted to speak about some of the "breaks" of the ‘make it or break it’ factors that people often overlook when they consider living abroad in Italy or just simply expat life in general. In this expat podcast episode of Not Your Average Globetrotter, I wanted to focus on 9 points to think about that I have seen make a massive difference when deciding what some people may think might actually be the best place for them to live in another country. It's worthwhile to understand the realities of expat life and both the wonderful and not so wonderful things that come along with living in Italy as an American expat.

Chapters:
1:18 - Part 1/ If you are an impatient person...
2:08 - Part 2 / A delicious risk...
2:28 - Part 3 / Thing have to be done this way...
5:53 - Part 4 / "It's Italy, that's just how things are done here"
8:17 - Part 5 / Does the allure last?
9:22 - Part 6 / What you call home changes your expierence...
14:47 - Part 7 / Time to solve all your problems!
16:52 - Part 8 / BUGS
18:23 - Part 9 / Starting over from zero

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You’re doing a great job Rafael of explaining the expectations of living in Italy (or other countries) vs. ‘The Reality’ to some US Citizens. Patience is a big one IMHO—which you covered very well. I’d only say many folks in the US aren’t even aware of their lack of patience. Even when you explain it, it not necessarily understood—kinda like a fairytale. Some simply have to live it to realize patience is a virtue. Anyway, I love your backgrounds. Sometimes a tad distracting but would rather have it than not. 👍🏻 👍🏻 👍🏻 🇮🇹 Grazie.

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It's simple: you either get Italy or you don't. You're either a tourist or a resident. Choose, because you can't be both. If you don't speak the language, you're a tourist. If you have to "put up with" the habits of the country in which you find yourself, you're a tourist. If you find things quaint or charming instead of said things just being what they are, i.e., "the honeymoon period", you're a tourist. It's perfectly fine, but you have to realize that your thoughts and opinions - while they may be completely valid - don't count for much. This doesn't mean you have to give up being an individual or having your own opinions, but they can't be problems for you. They could be inconveniences, but not actual problems.

That said, if I may offer a bit of introspection, eventually you will simply get over everything in Italy, good and bad, save a few things. However, those few things that you simply cannot get over (in a good way) MUST be bordering on life-changing in order to ever truly feel at home here. For me, it's the natural beauty. Living in Friuli, the mountains and natural beauty of this region are something that I simply cannot get over, and every single time I look at them is like the very first time. It just never gets old. Now, let's be honest...Italians love to be praised for two things: food and architecture. Honestly, I'm pretty over Italian food; it's not that I don't enjoy it immensely, but the honeymoon period for the food is over for me. I know what to expect, I'm never surprised, and this is very good because it's always going to be great, but it's also very predictable. Italians don't take risks in nearly any facet of their lives, and I'm all about taking risks. I'm very rarely surprised or blown away by how amazing food is anymore because I already know it's going to be good simply because Italians take great care and have immense pride in their food, which they take very seriously. It's a very good position to be in, but at the same time it can be too much of a good thing that you end up taking for granted. Ironically, it can get boring and predictable. Never bad, always great, just..."yeah, I guess I'll eat that again." The shine can wear off. Still, it's an enviable position to be in, and definitely one of those "first world problems" sort of things.

The same goes with architecture. You can throw a rock in any direction and hit something magnificent, but you will notice that you start taking it for granted just as Italians do. Sure, they love to talk about it and go on about how amazing everything is (and it is), but they're just fishing for compliments, honestly. They don't walk around in a stupor in complete awe of everything around them as we might. In fact, I know so many Italians who have never been to even the most touristy places in Italy - all places I visited in the first year I was here. This is where you will start narrowing down the things that really, really inspire and captivate you and truly improve your life. What's more, it's different for every person.

For me, again, it's the natural beauty. I simply have not seen another country's natural beauty speak to me in the way Italy's does. The US in places comes close, but it's always maligned by something that takes me out of the moment. Italy is magnificent in every sense of the word, and I consider it to be the most beautiful country on the planet. It never ceases to amaze me and inspire me, and it fuels my writing, my music, and my sense of adventure. Unfortunately, that sense of adventure must be tempered with predictability sometimes, which is the dichotomy of living here. All this is evidenced by my original point that you must not look to merely tolerate your new home, but find your own way to navigate it and make it yours in your own way, and it can be very tricky when it's anathema for the local populace to do or try something that hasn't been done repeatedly for centuries.

doomblackdeath
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Thanks Rafael. All on target. Ive been living here in Firenze for 6 years and am very happy. The only thing I’d add is that yes, though there is an abundance of delicious food, I find that I’ve actually lost weight since living here because my lifestyle is so much healthier. First, the quality of the food is much better and portions are smaller (and more satisfying!). But the biggest factor is my level of physical activity. I no longer own a car and so I walk everywhere. Love it!

pattiderosamusic
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at least in Italy for better or for worse paying taxes, you don't have to take a mortgage to take care of your health, you don't have to take a mortgage to study, you don't have to take a mortgage for anything like in the United States, I find it a lot demeaning and terrifying for the human being. Honestly, as an Italian and a European, I would never want to live in the United States, I would have a wonderful week of vacation there but I would never live there. I prefer to keep a heavy bureaucracy than to live in a country where you live worthily and are considered among the fake smiles only if you have a credit card full of money.
perfection is not of this world!

intersezioni
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Good video. You're talking about real facts, objectively. One thing I've heard some expats here complaining about was that they couldnt make any friends. Now, making friends with Italians is extremely easy, with the right mindset and avoiding certain "mistakes". Italians won't just come at you and say "let's be friends", especially if there are language barriers (rule no.1, learn the language, always!). You definitely need to break the ice, and often it can be a very simple thing like small talk in a shop, or a park. Having interests/Hobbies in common helps a lot. Simply put: if you really want it, Italians will perceive it and they'll be welcoming. But you may need to break the ice, once in a while. Don't be afraid, we like foreigners and we're always willing to help expats in our country.

filipporubino
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Enjoy your show. Enjoy your new backup, love seeing streetscapes and scenery.

joecesa
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Great episode, really informative. I'd go with these types of backgrounds, it looked great. Thanks again!

mjtgcr
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Thanks for the info. You’ve mentioned points that I haven’t heard before.

WorldWideWebObserver
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Love the background! Thanks for keeping our expectations real! There is no perfect place for sure! I still want to make Italy my home one day

reneeoconnell
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HI, I love the new background. Thanks for your videos, I enjoy watching them.

misscarr
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The new background is awesome!!! Keep it. I really enjoy your videos

scottcrumbaker
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Excellent content, thank you for your work!

ValeOfSorrow
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I like the moving backdrop. And I like the information you provide. Thank you.

bikingrealtor
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I came back to Panama after 30 plus years in the US....Big adjustment!!!! On the other hand, it is relaxing to know that you can enjoy a movie at the movie theaters, (good or bad)...after a little mall indulgence and not have your adrenaline up at dangerous degree. Beurocracy???? Just an opportunity to practice the local language!!!!

reginapolo
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The new backgrounds look great! Wonderful show, keep it up!

TazExprez
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Thanks Rafael. We love the background.
Please keep up the great work you are doing.

williamdeoradesilva
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Scusa se scrivo in italiano, ma il mio inglese non è abbastanza fluido per scrivere in tranquillità circa lo scontrino fiscale: è davvero importante prendere e tenere lo scontrino dei negozi, se non ricordo male per almeno 60m di distanza dal negozio, perché se ci fosse un controllo della Guardia di Finanza prende una multa il gestore del negozio e pure il cliente, e son multe salate

antonellalovato
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Great video, thanks. I like your background.

wxmath
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I very much appreciate the information you share! Thank you. 😊
Please keep doing this type of video....you are a bigger help than you know!
My husband and I are seriously considering the move to Italy. We have been researching for a couple of years (trying to make an informed decision). We still work, not online, and haven't found our niche yet.
This particular video is very helpful. My husband and I have been in many situations and I actually lived in Mexico for awhile so we are sure we will get used to the bureaucracy.
I'm in several online groups and hear some people say some pretty crazy things that make me wonder why they even moved to Italy.

God bless you!

kyraelliott
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Great video, as always, Rafy. Great background too.

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