Weaponizing sex 2. #shorts

There are many ways narcissists weaponize sex. The primary reasons are for power and control.

The more desperate we are for sex or connection, the more likely we are to “do what we’re told”. Of course our desire will be used against us to shame and degrade us.

On the other side, they may have other control over us in our lives and use this control to coerce us into meeting their sexual needs. Our lack of desire or even giving in to sex is then used against us to shame and degrade us.

No matter what it looks like, it’s all used for power and control. The more they erode our self esteem and self worth, the harder it is for us to leave and the more power and control they have over us.

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[martyb]

There is enormous freedom from never craving sex. I lived for 17 years in a relationship, used as a bank account. The only time i ever had any is when i spent a lot of money on her. I was always left with nothing for myself. I have zero desire for sex due to this type of abuse. It is incredibly liberating knowing I never have to have sex again!