The Worst Mistake in Seduction I Robert Greene

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[Leo-mrqz]

My husband took me to a performance dinner on my birthday, the first few months we were dating each other. He dressed in a suit. He got us front seats. We had dinner, laughed, and enjoyed ourselves tremendously.

He is a factory worker. He doesn't make millions, and that event wasn't cheap. But, he took his time, resources, and energy to give me an evening I will always remember. 15 years and 3 children later, he's still a man that I will always treasure. ❤ Not just because of that one night, but because of the many little loving, caring, and unselfish gestures he does continuously.

[p.h.]

Exactly. Generosity is a quality. Greed is just a sin.

[sunshine]

Money is a personality magnifier and many people have emotional issues attached to it

[unknownstranger]

I’m so glad to hear you say this. This is why a lot of those red piller and pick up artist wannabes end up shock and disappointed, when they’re negging techniques (treating her like crap, asking to go dutch, being inconsistent), don’t work. People want to be treated with respect, made to feel special, and want the person they are dating to put effort.

[janebraun]

He is so right, it is about gestures, about being thoughtful, less about words, which are only words.

[heidiadlgostar]

I totally agree with you.
Generosity is a trait, with money and time and affection....

[Trismegistus]

This is very smart. Too many people are obsessed with finances and having to spend money on their significant other like it’s a chore. At the same time, chores are necessities we all have to do. We have to think about one another. It used to be the norm have a long courting phase even after marriage couples go out on dates. monotony and boredom is the destroyer of relationships. Being frugal might be well and good but being too much so gives the perception of selfishness and immaturity. Perception is reality my father has always told me and I take that to heart.

[windrock]

My partner of 11 years, now my ex, would complain about money but always buy himself new equipment...in all the time together not a bunch of flowers. He was cheap with me. I often bought him gifts because i cared.

[DONJULIJUVY]

I still keep chivalry alive just for my own sake, i was taught to always treat your date like it will be the last time you see each other again because when you do that, you create endless memories and you do exactly what he said and release the tightness. Remember what ever you spend, you will get it back

[dtlooksin]

I've always enjoyed dating, the adventure of it all and having a great time. But your books have helped me be more carefree, lose in my nature with women. And it has been so much better. Thank you Robert Greene for gifting the world with your mind!

[BlondeQtie]

i don’t fully agree. you can date without money, if you put effort in. but when you hit it off, it’s nice to show a bit of generosity, even in small ways. and never cheap out on birthday gifts or christmas gifts etc.

[barbyyakubu]

It's not just about been poor but the value placed on the relationship and the person. Generosity is very gratifying. ✌

[bjrnbrynemo]

Worst mistake is neediness and outcome dependence. Cheapness is bad too, though.

[Tipperary]

Same with cheap friends. They make things awkward + sad. Not saying big bucks - just $10+. Scrutinizing every friggin activity is not fun.

[lifestylewithjustinej]

A cheapness in your spirit!!!! This man is the GOAT!!!!

[samuelemeryjiujitsu]

When he says "if you're that poor.... ok maybe." I breathed a sigh of relief.

[ra.h.]

Generosity comes in all shapes and forms. It’s always symbolic of how someone spiritually feels.

[irmafavela]

Amen, it's definitely not about the money but it does tell you a lot about the man🤷‍♀️

[sweetifer]

My husband was so generous with me it made me feel like he really cared. He didn't have much but he shared what he could with me. We have each supported each other at different points over the last 20 years.
If you think you are bring used, why do you like her anyway? Maybe you're using each other.

[MK-rsdn]

Thank you. A lot of men need to hear this!