7 Reasons Why Men Don't Get Married | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo

He won’t marry you? Here’s why…

It may not be “PC” to say it, but l know for a fact that women everywhere still entertain the thought of getting married someday – or even married AGAIN…

And even if you don’t want marriage, you’d like the OPTION to get him to propose to you. To know that he loves you THAT much, that he’d devote his life to you.

If he’s not proposing to you yet, there’s a reason. But you might not know what that is…

The facts of the matter are that men are not as interested as they once were in getting married.

Fewer women are interested in marriage, too – but not in the same numbers as men.

The fact is that men are not any more immature – or commitment phobic – than they have been in the past.

But let’s also face the ugly truth: Guys don’t have the greatest relationship skills.

In fact, most women end up taking on most of the relationship responsibility, while men typically stop the “romancing” when the relationship starts.

Women end up working a lot more just to make marriage work, while men often end up reaping the benefits of it.

Guys aren’t hopeless, ladies… just a little ignorant. Which is why I spend all my time teaching women how to be the leaders in the relationship.

So I’m going to explain 7 (SEVEN) of the most likely – and possibly shocking – reasons why he won’t marry you.

Before we get into these reasons, however… I want you to really understand the reason why you want to get married in the first place.

Do you simply want to get more security in your relationship?

Keep in mind that just because you have something ‘official’ to point to, doesn’t make your relationship more secure. Studies have shown that marriages are just as likely to break up as long term relationships. And in some cases, marriages are more likely to end.

So don’t seek a marriage proposal just to get some imagined “security” in your relationship that you may feel is lacking now. That kind of superficial commitment doesn’t really mean anything.

Do you want to finally get him to focus on you?

Maybe he’s got a wandering eye… maybe you think that getting him to say “I do” will make him treat your relationship more seriously…

But I’ll save you some effort on this one and tell you that if you are looking to change the nature of your relationship just by getting married, you’re barking up the wrong tree.

If your relationship isn’t solid and steady before you walk the aisle, you’re not guaranteed to get any more security AFTER you get married. In fact, that’s kind of a “hail Mary” pass.

Don’t roll the dice for your relationship.

Okay, let’s move into those seven reasons he won’t marry you:

REASON 1: You only want to get married…

Okay, it might not be the ONLY thing you want, but you send out clear signals that marriage is one of the most important things to you.

- You buy the bridal magazines…
- You watch the reality shows…
- You lose your mind when someone else you know gets married…
- Relationship drama seems to take a front seat in your attention…

You know what I mean. There are women out there that are insane for anything related to weddings.

Don’t be that woman.

Men are very wary of a woman who seems to want the marriage more than HIM. We know that we will always be less important than your idea of the “perfect” relationship.

You have to want the strength and love of your relationship before the marriage.

Because he will decide based on his feelings of what your motivations are – and your level of commitment to HIM…

REASON 2: He’s going to prison…

Well, not LITERALLY going to prison. That would be weird.

But if he feels like he might lose more freedom getting married than he will gain love, respect, and a position of status…

… he’s not going to think that’s a good trade.

Keep in mind that men fear the loss of freedom more than anything in the world.

And I don’t mean that he needs the freedom to date other women – he only wants that if the relationship isn’t giving him what he needs.

He needs to know that he won’t have to adhere to a strict schedule of texting and phone calls to keep you feeling safe and secure. Or that he’ll be expected home by 6:00 PM every night.

Sure, you need him to be responsible – but you don’t want him to feel like he’s got a parole officer either.

Make sure he feels like he’s still got ...

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Why Won't He Marry You?

[KevZen]

Reasons why not to marry:
1. It's unnecessary for a successful relationship. It's superficial. More of a status and ego pleasing. Other activities are more efficient at binding, than marriage.

2. Marriage laws overly favor women. Divorce can involve alimony, and loosing alimony.

3. Weddings are expensive, and a silly ritual.

4. Why do you need a legal and binding contract to verify love?
If you do, then it's a sign your relationship is shaky, and hence not worth marriage in the first place.

5. There's few benefits, excluding taxes, and insurance benefits.

6. Sex tends to decrease after sex. It also tends to get worse after marriage

7. For spiritual reasons? You can get married without getting the state involved. You don't need a marriage License.

[Shasha]

Someone I know is very loyal...created his kids/marriage and is loyal, but it is killing him. He is sacrificing his life for them and has no life.

[arianasilesia]

He is needed to fix the pluged sink to vacuum to carry heavy stuff and to be highly motivated to be helpful. In return he will get amazing sex and great appreciation and freedom but regardless I come first so if something breaks and needs fixing get it done. Sports. Friends. Vide games And all that comes second. That is adulting grow up. Anything less would never suffice. So I rather be single. I would never want to be anyones mother. I never want to have to ask him to do something he should know that the sink needs fixing. And I absolutly hate decorating. 🖤🖤🖤

[msbbenin]

I have alot of respect for you sir, those are wise words and i urge every classy female to watch your tutorial. I've heard my male friends give these reasons for not wanting marriage. Many thanks

[Shasha]

The woman gave sex on first dates...already has what he wanted. He may have lust instead of love for you.

[arianasilesia]

These videos mostly put the owness on the women as most dating videos do. We should tip toe around men and try to hypnotize, coerce, brain wash, manipulate, trick, seduce, dance around, trick and on and on to marry us. RIDICULOUS

[arianasilesia]

That to me is not a man that is a teenage boy in diapers