7 Reasons why men leave their wives after many years together - Dr. K. N. Jacob

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[duckyday]

Heard of a woman who left her husband after 50 + yrs. of marriage. When asked why she said 'I want the chance to die happy'. Misery is no way to live, male or female.

[barbaras]

Well, we have been married 51 years, since we were both 16 years old. We have lost 3 children. We have faced everything the world can throw at us and we are still rock solid together. People gather around us, because they know we are rock solid and a constant in a mad world.

[JoanHerthaSmith]

I did everything for my husband of 23 years and totally love and appreciated him and totally loyal. There was no sexless marriage and I never neglected myself either and we never had any conflicts. It's plain straight he cheated because he wanted to and he was going through a mid life crisis. I never cheated on him. I just served him with divorce papers.

[PRJohn-mzje]

Marriage it's all about Loyalty, Trust, understanding, Love and communication. I was married for 37 yrs till death do us part 🙌. Passed away 6 yrs ago of diabetic compilation. .I'm 59 now widow. Just missed him dearly 😭💔

[gonzalez]

While I agree with everything you say, hygiene and complacentness is a big issue for women with men. After men have reached their comfortable stage with their wives, they no longer feel like they have to bathe, take care of their teeth, yet expect to have beauty in front of their eyes. Don't forget that we too love to be with a man who cares about his appearance and hygiene.

[djtommykeys]

After 13 years of marriage I saw my wife meet another man for lunch and he kissed her when she got out of her car. Later when I confronted her she begged me not to leave her and said the affair was over. I caught her two more times without even trying. But this is not why I left. I left a year later because she was still mean and controlling. I thought my daughters were old enough to survive the breakup so I went to live with my mother. I could have forgiven almost anything but I couldn't forgive how mean and disrespectful she was to me. I have been divorced for sixteen years now. I live a peaceful single life.

[lieberfreialsgleich]

Reason no. 8: because he can. Don‘t underestimate this reason. I think a lot of people can‘t really say why they leave. We don‘t need a reason to leave. We need a reason to stay!

[cincin]

I'm 60 years old and can say with complete certainty that men who leave their wives after many years is because there's another women. That's all.

[blissfulfeline]

My mother & father were married for 53 years until cancer took my father away. They were each other first, last, everything. They compromised and worked on their marriage. It was a 50/50 love. Neither controlled. Both were equal. I’ve been married for 18 years and my marriage is the same way. 50/50 love and we are still going strong.😊

[shirleymwaanga]

It's not about neglecting herself but a rollercoaster of overwhelming duties, especially without a man's support as they grow their family. If a man is engaged in supporting her, she can find time to rest and take care of herself. This way, both the woman and man can be happy together 🥰

[ceciliagranados]

“Children are part of my family not part of my marriage”, 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[rufuskaukani]

I’ve been married for 60 years. There are a lot of things that you say are true. You have to walk a mile in your lady’s shoe to understand her tasks. You have to do all of her task (household, kids 24-7) for three months then and only then that you can appreciate her and see how easy you have it at your job.

[rashmikodibagkar]

Narcissist personality disorder is also a major cause in today’s society. Which many are not aware of.

[evaristaassiak]

Shouldn’t men also keep themselves groomed and tidy after marriage? It works both ways and most of the time, you find men lacking in the areas of personal hygiene yet their women cope with them without running out to other men.

[rodrigocasimbon]

Respect comes naturally with love! Without respect there will be no love! When respect disappear, love follows, resulting to separation!

[starlightdreamer]

My ex was no help at all . No support whatsoever. I was neglected emotionally and my needs didn't matter. Sex was the only thing he wanted from me and that is a lonely feeling. I felt empty inside. I focused on my children because they needed a parent who was there for them . I love my children very much . I was pretty much a mother to him and he appreciated nothing . He felt entitled. I regret wasting my life with a loser. Lesson learned .

[beatrizrobinson]

I just subscribed. Great video. I been marry for 33 yrs. I have learned to let go and not be controlling. I let God control my life first. Hard lesson to learn. Praise God, we have a happy marriage. Greetings from Arizona!!!

[kelleywarriors]

Narcissistic, and manipulation. Vanity. Human beings are in denial about aging, especially externally. In most accounts they want their spouses to remain youthful. I’m going on thirty-one years of marriage, and we’ve been together for thirty four years. True love shouldn’t be based on appearance or financial means. It’s how well you are able to work together through the hard times, and appreciate the love that is shared between the two. After all in the end, that’s whom is by your side. I hope everyone out there finds what they are looking for in a long term relationship.

[marthawoodworth]

Hmm. I left my first husband. I got bored. My twenty-five year marriage to my soul mate: perfection. He loves an assertive woman. I have been very popular with men for years, and they love strong women. I do agree that a man needs to believe that he is free - NOT 'In control." As for sex: men are the ones with a short shelf life, not women. We can go forever. Men fizzle. If a woman stops being intimate it's because the man is boring in bed. Men need sex; so do women, so please don't assume. Never had any man cheat on me my whole life. Why? Because I know the secret of sex: each person must be willing to train each other overtly to do what turns us on. I agree that cheating is a total no-no. Cheating ruins any marriage. But men can't cheat, either. It annoys me that you are "preaching" to women. As for "lack of appreciation" - men stop appreciating their wives as well. Give me a break. When a man loves a woman, he lavishes her with love and appreciation. If you, a man, are not being appreciated, it's because you are not appreciatING your wife, OR: she doesn't love you. Divorce her asap. Appreciation from both sides is essential. Men: stop comparing your wife of several years with much-younger women. See?It goes both ways. LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS! Everything you say here goes for men, too. Today, most children don't actually leave home any more, lol. Children still in the home into their late twenties is a marriage-killer. Kick 'em out! Children are not "glue, " by the way. When they grow up they are "adults." Sorry about this, but frankly, women do not like men preaching at them about keeping their men. P.S. As for being well-groomed and dressing well: PLEASE TELL OTHER MEN TO DO THIS FOR WOMEN! I have never seen so many shlumpy men as there are now. Big, fat bellies; ugly shorts and untucked shorts, down at the heels sneakers. Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. How dare you? Are there any other women rolling their eyes here?

[sarahkukiriza]

I walked away after 20yrs with 4 children. Never regret.