Spend More Time Making the Big Decisions

[digitalmarketinghumans]

"The world will assault you with their agenda.."

YEP!

[CraigOP]

As a 37 I wish I had the right mind to want to listen to this kind of crucial advice.

[dipalir]

I wish I had Naval in my life when I was 24, but i am gonna give this advice to my son when he will be young enough to understand this.

[yourfuse]

Just apply this advice at all ages, dont limit yourself to age, you can be 14, 24, 34, 44, 54, 64... Its never too late to learn.

[khanh]

this is so gold. no one will ever talk about this, except naval.

[syedaffanhameed]

For someone who is about to be 24 this march this advice is coming from a very good place!.

[LovelyLady]

This was recommended to me and I'm 24... I absolutely agree with you. This is the "Defining Decade, " as psychologists call it!!! :)

[reallynotsafe]

The video is saying that when you're around 24, you have to make three big life choices:

1. Where you live – The city or place you choose can change your future. For example, moving to a big city with more job opportunities can help you grow faster, while staying in a small town might limit you.


2. Who you're with – The people around you (friends, partner) affect your happiness and success. If you’re in a toxic relationship or have negative friends, they can hold you back. But if you choose supportive and ambitious people, they can help you grow.


3. What you do – Your job or career matters because you’ll spend years doing it. If you rush into a job you don’t like, you might feel stuck. But if you take time to find something you enjoy and that pays well, your future will be better.



The speaker says that people spend years in bad jobs and relationships but don’t take enough time choosing them in the first place. Since these choices affect your life for a long time, you should take months or even a year to pick the right ones.

Also, life is full of distractions, so you need to say no to unimportant things and focus on making these big decisions carefully.

[TheCosmopolitanHefty]

Naval, I seriously needed this piece of advice today and magically this video appears out of nowhere. ❤ I am going through 2 situations rn, where to live and what I must do hehe. I will make a decision

[dbapple]

doesnt matter what age you are, still an awesome advice!

[secondhandentity]

good general advice, hard to make the specifics work as a 24 year old with minimal agency, but its possible.

[evelynel]

I'm 24. I'm listening to your advice sir

[trainyoumust]

If only I knew that 23 years ago 😂. This is great advice ❤

[adityapatil]

Thank you universe we have people like naval 🙏✨

[foamformbeats]

the hardest part for me is finding out how to make these decisions. for example, how does one choose what city to live in? where does one go to do research on this type of thing? I feel like I've wasted most of my prime years just trying to make these decisions and pretty much just ended up in indecision/not knowing how to make the decisions, and I might have been better off just trying a bunch of things rather than overanalyzing.

maybe a better piece of advice is just ape in and change direction quickly (but not too quick, giving it a chance) if it doesn't seem to be the right decision?

[BKing]

Thanks for the great reminder of thinking things through that are indeed important

[Shadesaiyad]

Thank you, it's very helpful advice

[geocastro]

Yes- great advice at 21-24 or even 40+ taking the time to slow down and play the longer game better always makes sense even if its not easy todo sometime👍

[jeremyboon]

Whenever someone thumbs ups my comment, I'll be reminded of the 3 big decisions.
1. Where you live.
2. Who you're with.
3. What you're doing.

[godswillm]

I wish I had people in my life who I could trust to take life advice from. My 'elders' were selfish users and egoistic manipulators who had zero interest in my future.