Ben Affleck 'Relieved' by J.Lo Divorce (Source)

A source tells ET Ben Affleck feels 'relieved' by his estranged wife, Jennifer Lopez, filing for divorce after two years of marriage.

[alexsummers]

You can love someone, but it doesn’t mean you should marry them.

[shannonsmith]

Note to these two, don’t try this a third time. It’s done!

[normaalbino]

When there are differences, those differences will never go away. You can’t change a person, no matter how hard you try. You either accept each other with their differences or walk away and that’s what he did. It seems they care for each other but their differences are above their tolerance. It happens!

[pattip]

Imagine someone u love showing letters u wrote to them to strangers. Nah she overdid it. I don't think anyone can stand for that. It's even worse he got mocked by being called pen Affleck. Nah

[dancemaniac]

They have incompatible expectations of privacy.

[BeBlessed]

The book that Jennifer showed to everyone with Ben's letters in it should remain at home. That's such a beautiful token of their relationship. Oh no...

[erlandatugaw]

There are TWO people in that relationship and neither are perfect. They BOTH come with their own, unique, set of flaws.
Ben has an alcohol addiction, which he blamed on his first wife, after cheating on her with the nanny. 🤨
We should be more concerned about the children... they've been through it!

[laurakeener]

I'm happy for Ben now he can live a peaceful quiet life now

[Greenlee]

It Was clear from the beginning that he was not into the marriage at all.

[jennyl.]

He gets moody a lot. That would drive anyone crazy.

[eve]

It shud have never happened that's why it ended so quickly

[patricethomas]

He knew she was JLo from the beginning and what comes with being with such a high star. He went to her at a very vulnerable time, I mean right after Alex was caught cheating on her . I think he doesn’t know what he wants and still is struggling himself. Both need to just focus on themselves and their children

[mitravaziri]

She should keep some privacy on her diary. She chose to tell the whole world that he never love his ex wife. Well now you c what happened. I am happy for him.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[sbsk]

And that is why Ben & Jen Garner last as long as they did (10 years) because Jen Garner is a private person..

[gigis.]

Jlo needs to spend time with her kids. Then, she can take some time to figure out what she wants in a relationship. Girl, it's ok to be single for a while. Learn to be alone with yourself.

[saiyongdawn]

JLO is an open book. Ben is not! Wish the best in their new chapter. Sorry it didn't work out the second time around. 🙏❤

[Roma-bzxe]

Ben's lack of commitment and dedication to their relationship finally took its toll. JLo was the glue holding them together, but even she couldn't fix his issues.

[patriciaconte]

Jennifer Lopez is a tremendous talent and Ben Affleck persued her. He contacted her and he proposed to her. I think he was definitely the love of her life but wasn’t man enough to make things work. I feel badly for her and sad that things did not work out!

[BitchinMusic-sclo]

She blew it when she shared that very private collection of intimacies with her group. That HAD to have hurt him deeply. I am SO happy for him now that he can put whatever the relationship was between them behind and be his true self without any extra drama, her entourage, and the ever-present 3rd wheel, Benny, in his life going forward. IMO, they got together for the wrong reasons. Her, because she HAD to prove to herself that she could get him back after being dumped the first time, and him, because of his lust for her. Move on with no more hurts.

[ukqmjdo]

I have to say this, and I'm not against Ben Affleck, but I didn't think he was right for JLo. Especially after JLo being with A-Rod, I think JLo needs someone who is emotionally stronger and not dealing with addictions.

Anyway, sometimes men especially are very sneaky. Could that be why Ben Affleck wants to lie low? Is he trying to be "stealthy?" If photogs are following him all over the place, he might be more likely to get caught doing things he shouldn't. I mean, you never know. 🙂

It is difficult for me to think of a man obviously seeking fame, dating famous women and then despising and dodging the attention he receives.

Ben Affleck may be in the wrong business. 😞

When people are filming and photographing Stars, it keeps them relevant and possibly working. I thought it is supposed to be a good thing in Hollywood.