The Psychology Behind Ghosting #shorts

The psychology behind a ghoster or someone who chooses to be with one is that they love to be in a relationship where there is no commitment, knowledge, or personal accountability.

When they feel sad, lonely, or want attention, they participate. When they don't need it, they disappear. So there's no emotional responsibility.

See more of this video by searching "Why People Ghost You And Why You Attract Them?" on YouTube.

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[ZetaCancri]

"I just got busy even though I have my phone with me 24/7 and I do nothing all day '

[gionagrace]

People who ghost 👻 very often have personality disorders. Many narcissists will ghost. That's very common in the narcissistic community. Move on and forget you ever heard their name. They will only hurt you and you don't need THAT. You deserve the BEST!

[sickoftheshit]

"No personal accountability", sums it right up for me. I've begun to filter these types of people out of my life. It feels great. Thank you for the wise council.

[patriciacook]

When they flip it off the very first time, don't ever stand in their light again! They will get worse and worse every time you take them back. NO CONTACT!

[NPD]

Ghosters can be dismissive avoidant attachment style that haven’t done any work on themselves to repair early childhood trauma and emotional neglect. Their not necessarily ghosting to hurt the other person so much as their emotionally immature and wounded. They don’t know how to respond to the overwhelm closeness creates so they dismiss and avoid.

[angelakeely]

I just feel all these games take energy, your energy, just walk, ignore, block these toxic people.

[erishposhclub]

He ghosted me & came back, I mirrored his behaviour 😂

[DavidValeTX]

“I just got busy.” I always heard this one.

[ayushi]

Last this happened to me, I did the same to the person who was ghosting me.
I was blocked within one day of mirring their behaviour.


I feel bad for doing that but man do I love to see how ppl react to being treated there own way.

[tea-chip-cookies]

I agree that ghosters are like light switches.
If you're not of any benefit to their life for some selfish reason, they decide to to walk past you the next day suddenly as if you don't exist.
It can be very hurtful and shocking to receive such behaviour.
Majority of the time, there are no happy endings between the two of you.
You end up moving on but the emotional pain lives with you for a long time.
The awkward part is encountering their weird negative energy from time to time if you bump into one another.

[nuna_ishere]

I have been ghosted twice my whole life. I believe a baby angel gets a wing every time.

[daughteroftheking]

It’s because they are a bunch of pansies. I’m so tired of people making excuses for these people.. when I was this way, that enabled me to stay in the victim mindset. It’s time to Grow up, and learn healthy coping skills. Learn to heal and fix your crap and stop bleeding on people who didn’t hurt you. That’s toxic regardless of your justification. Everyone has been hurt, everyone didn’t grow up so great, but we have a choice to continue down that path or not. Anymore after that, you have no one to blame but yourself. We are not 5 anymore. We know right from wrong. Time to grow up! Time to get help, and stop making excuses and do something about your character defaults. Yes, it stems from being a child, but after a certain age you’re old enough to decide if you want to fix it and change or not, and if you don’t. That’s on you, no one else. Change is hard, but so is being stuck in a place you have no business being in. After I turned a certain age, I couldn’t blame my past trauma on anything, I had to accept it happened, and move on and heal. There’s no excuses!

[YourCrystalDealer]

We should also talk about needy people always going after people who ghost you. There’s a toxic cycle to ghosted and people being ghosted. People love to chase what they can’t have instead of finding emotionally available people. If you see the signs go somewhere else? Why do you constantly love someone who will never love you? There has to be accountability on both ends here. You can’t force someone to love you.

[alimccreery]

I’ve been dealing with a so called friend who’s been doing exactly that. Thank you for clarifying and validating the fact that when this person ghosts me that’s exactly what she’s doing and I’ve just about had enough. So I’ve stopped contacting her all together 😊

[merlin]

"Ghosting " could be just because that person is also very depressed and feel so ashamed of their inactivity that they do not want to engage with others because they value their actions more than their words and have done nothing to show their value and the cycle continues. I ghost often not because i want to but because of being unwell.and i wish someone could help me to get out of this cycle

[Jiol]

It’s an avoidant attachment style. I have it. I don’t do it with malicious intent but.. it does come across that way.

It stems from facing so much rejection as a child that you develop this as a way to cope and protect yourself from potentially feeling the pain of being rejected, AGAIN.

[jarred]

This guy just perfectly described me holy shit

[krisq]

The best way to deal with a narcissist, once you have them figured out, is to ghost them! Ghost them, break the trauma bond and keep them out of your life for good!! The worst pain and the worst days of my life were spent with a narcissist.

[ACGLENCLAR]

What If the person is tired of being used and they decide to ghost the other person? Some people deserve ghosting.

[selectivelychosen]

When them tables always turn & Now I’m Ms. Georgia Power! 😂 Lights Out