Dirty Divorce Tricks Spouses Play | How to Avoid Them During Your Divorce

Dirty Divorce Tricks Spouses Play | how to avoid them during your divorce

There are few events in life that are more emotional than the very beginning of a divorce process. Emotions such as anger and distrust that have built up over months, or sometimes even years, can boil out and cause even the most rational, good, and sane people to act irrationally and treat their other spouse in a way they never would. In this video, we are going to go over 11 of the common dirty tricks that we see spouses do to other spouses.

[jcnlaw]

Great video! PA divorce lawyer here. Best thing you can do: don’t get married! Go live your best life! Low stress! Travel wherever, whenever you want! You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws. Stay safe out there!

[lpsglitterpaws]

I am a California woman who was blindsided by divorce after 20 years of marriage. He served me mid-December. I am still in shock but managed to maintain my silence for our teenage girls. I didn’t want to ruin their Christmas. Today I meet with an attorney to find out where I stand.

[Researchedthat]

Unfortunately there is no restraining order from emotional abuse. It is hard to prove, so an abusive parent will get 50% custody. Physical abuse if not documented through law enforcement won’t count and an abuser will get away . Many don’t know when a spouse throwing garbage, items, punching walls, damaging property is a physical abuse and have to documented!! Even if your spouse —- mentally inadequate and dangerous emotionally— the spouse still will get a custody. Dirty trick —- when a spouse fears the mom will get custody during his negligence and her being a good mom— he may propose a foster care . True story.
Lie —- courts often do not act the best interest of the child . Kids become a product for a price the highest bidder is whiling to make. In the situation —- mediation is the worst option. If dealing with a narcissist— mediation is the worst option. Find those extra money to go to a trial and the court . Painful lesson is learned.

[lafrancetitanic]

Thanks, i will never marry and start investing wisely.

[johnroberts]

When my wife filed for divorce, I had to find an attorney. I set up an appointment with one, and spoke to him and gave him a bunch of details and voiced concerns. Then he said wait a moment, it appears I am already representing your wife. Umm, excuse me? You tell me that AFTER I give you all those details?

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[kingsamoanOG]

My soon to be Ex wife did # 7 #9 against me when I came to pick up my kids for a few weeks its too bad some ex spouses really don't want to co parent but to make you pay in any way possible for leaving and trying to move on.

[paulinekhoury]

Great video . Very informative and interesting.

[ervaa]

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[LilmissJ]

I wish I had known this in 2014, so much was used against me and hurt our daughters. Yes much of what you covered was used on me.

[bellezamamacita]

Thank You very much. Very useful information.

[chrislambert]

Dirty Trick Number 7 is exactly what happened to me

[doyourbest]

Rule no. One: Spouse is to have a budget and live by it. Separate checking and credit card accounts. This is the standard of living de facto. Never joint accounts. Play fair but never get tangled up in fixing her financial screw ups, late payment, over draft on checking. It’s on her. If it becomes a problem early out of the gate and you want to stay together, get legally separated. That means you are married but your finances are separate. Note this is a common practice for the elderly to save their loved spouse from economic catastrophe when they themself, will have extreme medical expenses in the forward future, and can only receive government help after their personal finances are exhausted. So no it is not unusual to be married but legally separated.

[voulapetrakos]

U are honest good for u first time I wached ur vedeo I'm going through a devorce after 47 years had had hedin all the money we have 6 grown children!

[kirancromie]

After 29.5 of a relationship, it’s sad to know the ppl we love most are cheating financially

[Fhyyjvda]

Yeah, it's all nice and pretty but lawyers cost $$$ and if mom is a stay at home mom, where is she going to get $$$ to pay for a lawyer??🤔

[lolipopsandfancypants]

lol... my ex accused me of hiding assets because I had an item that had been in storage at my brother's house for a few years when we got divorced. I tried to explain to her that hiding assets had nothing to do with physically hiding objects and instead referred to concealing the existence of control or ownership over money or assets from the other party. That the divorce process doesn't really care who has physical possession of what asset and where it is physically located. It concerns itself with who has financial interest/control of which assets after separation and how much is the value of those assets in their favor when calculating the balance for a divorce. For me to be hiding an asset she would have to not know of it ever being my possession. And that since she knows that I have it I would have to provide papers to the court regarding the ownership and or dispersing of the item. But she didn't understand and ran around telling everyone and the court that I was hiding assets.

[timjohnson]

All of these things are complicated. The law tries to neatly pigeonhole the issue and sometimes turning grey into black & white dosen't work except for the lawyers.