6 Child Behavior Problems That Are Parents' Fault

Do your kids lie, make excuses, and yell all the time? Do they cuss or are they rude? Ever wonder where your child learned it all? In this video, I'll show you that a child's behavior problems that are actually the parents' fault.

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:26 The hardest thing that anyone can do
01:23 This can be the parents fault
02:24 What's your excuse?
03:24 Do you do this?
04:39 Do you permit this?
05:54 How do you behave?
07:18 Do you lift a finger?
08:26 Bonus knowledge
09:12 How do you communicate?
10:03 More to learn

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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?

Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system — Teaching Self-Government — can help you turn chaos into calm.

"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.

Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.

Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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[novocaine]

There is something that has been heavy on my mind that you may be able to guide me in the right direction. I just found your channel, and I love it! I decided to take an inward look at myself a few years ago and make big changes for the sake of my then 3 year old son. He has really grew and had positive change. However- we are very worried about my stepson (15). When he is here he gets some of the structure that children and teens need to thrive. However, he is not here very much. As soon as we get him on a healthy sleep schedule, he goes back home. He says he wants to have a good sleep schedule, but always ends up pulling all nighters. They are overly permissive parents who kind of do their own thing all the time, and the kids are left to their own devices. They even took him out of school to do homeschooling so he has not even get that anymore. He has no drive or ambition to do anything, but I know it's not his fault. We are not sure how to help. If we talk to her about it she's overly agreeable. She will say she's really worried about him too. We will tell her things that would help and she will agree, but the thing is she won't ever take those actions. She will try for a few days and then get back up in all of her own things and then they are left to just play video games and watch videos 24/7. It just makes me feel so sad to see him melting away into the couch. His clothes will get really really dirty because it's his responsibility to wash them. While it's true that kids should take care of their own things when they're old enough, it's our job to remind them and make sure it gets done. There's just absolutely no structure

[westdellarosecreations]

I love your channel! I have a two year old that is having anger behavior problems, and I wasn't sure what to do. I can't afford the books at the moment, but when I can, I plan to buy them!!

[valeriarossi]

Really helpful and true Nicholeen. thanks 🙏

[excellentchoices]

Thank you Nicholeen 👍👍 May we all change to become our best ✅✅✅

[Gibbypastrami]

This was an amazing video, the laziness, and anxiety and communication skills sections def hit home as a child

As a 20 year old that went through a household where they were yelled at, doctor visits, insurance, schooling, many important documents and stuff were all handled for me, and having a mother that rarely hung out with friends, what should I do to work towards healing those bad behaviors that have been deeply ingrained over decades?