Picking A Partner For A Relationship - Teal Swan

[breyette]

Picked my partner at 14. We both wanted pure, lifelong love and friendship and we’ve done everything we can to make that happen. Currently married with two babies and still falling deeper in love every day. We’ve grown together, learned from mistakes together, helped each other through the unavoidable challenges life has given us. The work you put into a relationship pays off with greater interest than you can imagine.

[ARSvAl]

The grass is greener where you don't forget to pour enough water and effort on it. And it's not only about the grass

[salazars.]

I got tired of being the only one showing effort. Sad, but true.

[wendyg.]

i love teal swan man she speaks utter truth in this world of people trying to seek perfection

[talltree]

To communicate with someone is only part of communication. it's not the whole formula, you have to understand that communication comes from yourself with yourself, how you connect with yourself, talk to yourself, connect with yourself, relate with yourself, respond, react plays a big role with the communication skills with others.

[bruninhamrso]

Matter of fact, dating apps just exacerbated the FOMO in the global population. The NEED (fantasy) of always having the best of the best when the "best" they seek is not a match for who they really are. But can't blame them for being ignorant on who they really are. Thank God we have the opportunity to learn about it. The truth WILL CERTAINLY set them, you and me, free.

[ianr]

I love Teal.... I know she gets a lot of flack, but her advice really resonates

[MikkoMurmeli]

I gave up dating. I'm just looking for friends now. And if I happen to meet a good person, I might ask them out for dinner or a hot drink. But that's it. Going for dating appd is a waste of time if you don't have "good cards" and know what you're doing.

[psych-ryry]

I completely agree with having this attitude and commitment and needing to mutually agree about it.

[ExoticalT]

It’s 2024, at this point, many of us have found something better (and more useful) to do with our time than be in a relationship.

[samhann]

"Do or Do Not, there is no 'try'", the grass is always greener over the septic tank.

[annikabirgittanordlander]

We meet physical, mental, emotional needs, desires in subconscious ways (Hell on Earth). Some of us are wanting to meet needs, desires consciously (Heaven on Earth) and that requires shadow work ( making the subconscious conscious). Anyone not up for that challenge will not conscioulsy create Heaven on Earth 🌎💕🕊

[TimothySmith]

Sometimes no matter what you do or how much growth you do. Nothing is enough to change their mind. They just don't want to communicate. They have simply moved on and alot times ; like mine, it's exactly what you deserve.

[Shouko-sama]

Amazing that people understand this with their friends, parents, siblings but when coming to romantic relationships all of a sudden they don't understand growth is a big part

[KayStevensScholerNPC]

That is correct! Thank God I’m with “my person” now! 20 years of marriage to someone like that was exhausting! It just took me a LONG time to finally do it because of my 4 children…then I was hit with Parental Alienation but I’m a fighter for my truth, there are great things on the horizon!!!

[OctoPaul]

This hits hard right now, given my circumstances 🙄

[claydupuy]

For a boy to become a man he must accept being a husband and a father is going to be hard work and know that it is only through said hard work can he truly become a man. A gentleman who fears none in doing right.

[The_Real_Casey_Timmins]

I knew I had to end our relationship when she went to Club Milan in NYC with her sister’s friends. Out there looking for the guy who already made it.
Ironically we always discussed how rare character was even in many “successful” persons.
She liked me because I was a rare man who developed all the other parts of me and had a startup.

Who she thinks she will find out there? I have no clue. If she had only became more invested in our relationship I would have been satisfied. Instead she chose to always stay a little removed.
No guy who is making it has time for that. I learned that. Never again.

If you are not fully invested, even if it means learning after we are not compatible. I am OUT fast.

[LPRN]

I gave up all together with dating, after 3 years, no one wanted to even try with me. So I’m done.

[stephanieg]

Great analogy since ive been a dance insrructor my whole life and had very msaligned partner rules.