Looks Vs. Confidence For Dating in 2023 **In-Depth Blackpill Analysis**

In-depth analysis of Confidence Vs. Looks for 2021 dating.

**Disclaimer** Obviously there is a ridiculous amount of generalizations in this video, explains things in the most black and white terms, and leaves out other key factors (namely money/status). **But this best reflects my experience**

▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

00:00 - Intro and Visualisation
04:42 - Redpill Vs. Blackpill
09:12 - Online Vs. Daygame
16:14 - **Examples**
20:41 - In-Depth Breakdown
25:10 - Summary/Future

In my opinion:
5's need perfect 10/10 game, a single slip up and you're out
6's need very strong game
7's need game to a decent level
8's can get away with mistakes and being a little nervous
9's can get away with pretty much anything
10's can speak 5 words of English and still be successful

[owlman]

Game without looks is creepy harrassment.

[matthewbiggin]

Something I’ve said for years:

In many (not all) cases, the sole difference between “sexual harassment” and flirting boils down to whether or not the woman is attracted to the man.

[trillkev]

If a girl is super attracted to you, she’ll do most of the work. You don’t need “game” to make her wanna have sex. Just going up to introduce yourself is already game.

[cathrynm]

You guys are very scientific about this. I'm starting to see why arranged marriage in old days was so common.

[aleatologie]

Chad do not need to learn game. Constant positive reinforcement since kindergarden make it difficult to get nervous in front of a girl. The opposite is true for sub-5.

[marcozaccagni]

I remember meeting this italian guy in the UK, extremely good looking and with absolutely 0 knowledge of the english language. For the whole lenght of my stay, he crushed puss like there was no tomorrow.
His pick up line? "You very nice!". :D

[austinporter]

This is how logical men are based. We’re literally using charts, math, and formulas to try and understand women and dating, lmao.

[wesbaumguardner]

I would draw a hard line at 9 looks. Most women will accept a complete psychopath if he is a 9 in looks. They just do not care about personality at all. There was a guy that made a fake dating profile and pretended to be a pedophile and abusive to his past exes and women were still trying to force the situation to meet up with him even though he was saying the creepiest crap possible and treating them like they were raw sewage. These were not unattractive women either, they were 6+.

[oldskoolordie]

I think "game" is confidence and confidence comes from social interaction. Halo effect means that hot people will naturally be more confident and then have good "game" because people treat them better.
They won't want to admit that they got where they are mostly down to the halo effect.
A very confident ugly guy will get laughed at or attacked.

[markhansen]

The problem is 'game' or personality comes from positive reinforcement, especially by women. An unattractive man is going to have far worse game than a Chad because they have been treated differently their entire lives.

[MometTheGreat]

Its true...
Girls even doing aproaches to chad.
She said: my friend thinks you are cute, here is her number.
He didnt even say anything ->0 game necessery

[dave-oh]

As someone who was involved in the whole PUA sub-culture for a good 4 years, I learnt the hard-way that your looks is your game. As a sub 5, I had excellent 'verbal game, ' yet time and time again, I would be astounded whenever I went out with Chads' and see them succeed with relative ease and minimal effort. Don't waste your money on game.

[Subhumanoid_]

I love presentations that start off bad and depressing but then in the end -- take a turn for the worse!
xD

[jonnyj]

The graph for online dating is spot on and I am speaking from experience. Tried with several different photos of myself and it didn’t make a difference. Cold approach only works if a woman is giving you signs that she wants you to approach her. I do neither anymore. It’s hard to have “confidence” if you are always striking out. I always tell people that looks get your foot in the door.

[mclcorp]

I speed dated a couple of times. Once, I went with a good looking friend of mine. He's about a 9 out of 10. I'm a 6.5 - 7 on a good day. He doesn't have much game though. He still got five women that wanted to meet him afterwards. I got one. Looks matter!

[joeblowseph]

I'm 8.5 looks roughly 6 in game (normal conversation) and I get a lot of women's interest. Blackpill is more accurate tbh

[DeadMan_W]

the idea that two normies can compete against each other in a closed environment is gone.

chads are within reach for every woman. that means that this option is ruled out forever

[nicolastebe]

I honestly came to disagree with your take on the matter but your points are so compelling and logically presented that is hard for me to dismiss them as mere defeatist blackpill babble. Good job. Looking forward to see more of your content

[matane]

If you're sub 5 no matter how much confidence you have women will just think you're creepy and find your confidence as harrassment or at the very least revolting.

[pi]

*PROOF that your are CORRECT* (for the most part)
When I was 21or 22 I was a solid 7 with fair game. Two 7/8 girls recognized me from other parties/friends and came up to chat. While talking a friend of mine, definite CHAD, an easy 9 came up and joined the conversation. At some point CHAD replied to something they mentioned with an absurdly lame comment - they just looked at him strange, so he said it again, still another strange/confused look, then he said it for a third time with solid confidence and both girls started laughing.
I never forgot about that incident. It still blows my mind how his good looks completely saved him from looking like a creepy idiot. There was no way I could have pulled it off.