My labour, my choice - why did no-one tell me?

Sophie works on a maternity ward and wants everyone to know that they have a lot of control over their own labours and it is easier than you think to do what feels right for you. What do you wish someone had told you? We'd love you to share your thoughts below.

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[AlexGladwin]

This will be really helpful to a lot of mummy's-to-be Sophie! 👍🏻 xx

[riaclark_x]

YES SOPHIE! I was a regular little nightmare to the hospital staff when I went in with Els. I knew exactly what I wanted and needed to do. The doctor told me I was having an epidural and I told him where to go. Women definitely don't realise how much say they have over their level of care. The saying that 'mums know best!' Is there for a reason xoxo

[DearBeautiful]

So true. I think we all feel like we have to listen to the pros. I definitely found that I felt more powerful the second time around. First time I was clueless and just felt like I did as I was told and it really didn't go the way I wanted. Second time I just felt like they took my choices more seriously knowing I'd already had one. This time around I will make sure that I am happy and in control of the decisions that happen. x

[Staceyleighfromthesoul]

Yes As a young mum I literally just done what I was told with my first birth. I wish I had known all this. x

[rachelbrady]

It's really tough to be assertive in the labour situation... I'm a bit pathetic and want to be liked so tend to go with what they suggest! If I have a third I'll be more forceful, but politely forceful!!! X

[JKandCharlie]

can u be at my next birth please?! I did a lot of research, sadly situation meant my birth didn't go as planned though. Fingers crossed for next time! Knowledge IS power. Charlie x