8 Warning Signs Of A Toxic Person I The Speakmans

Toxic people could be negatively impacting both your mood & your mental health. We're sharing the 8 warning signs to help you to identify a toxic person in your life.

[icanning]

The day before meeting that person, already stressed and the day after- drained...

[dawsonize]

I used to have a friend like this. I left feeling drained and low. Horrible.

[shale]

A very interesting subject. One of the best pieces of advice I got about toxic people, is that the best way to deal with them, is to not deal with them at all. The only thing you can do is point them in the direction of a therapist and the rest is up to them. Let them get on with it.

[elainedee]

I would be interested to hear you talk about narcissistic parents especially mothers

[chloelambert]

When I was in college in 2018-2019, I had this one friend who would always want me to bye her things, she would make me loud just like she was - she would make me hate other people, when I asked her to help me out should always used to say (I can't be bothered/I can't be arsed - or no I don't want to). But I was always there for her she was never ever there for me.
I felt like I was in a trap and I could never get out, the only way that I could get out was by moving to a different college.

I'm proud of my self that I managed to escape and get out of her trap she would make me feel like everything was my fault, she used to have a go at me all the time for something that I hadn't done, it just made me horrible to others and not a very nice person.

But I am so proud of myself to know that I have managed to become a better person.

Thank you for this video ❤

[prezidenttrump]

I was raised by a very abusive mother, who also told my father to beat me and to "Choose your own stick" off a bamboo tree in the backyard to be beaten with. I believe her personality rubbed off on me in a way, not in the physically violent way but in the verbally abusive sense. I don't want to be verbally abusive, but feel afraid of opening up and being the kind person I know I am because all I know is how to be verbally abusive and I don't want to leave myself open for horrible comments even though I would be the one to make even WORSE comments towards them if left up to my own devices. Life sucks when your parents start you off on the wrong foot, you have to figure all this out for yourself but I appreciate you, The Speakmans, for helping me indirectly through your amazing content.

[Ladyjojo]

Sadly most family exes friends were. I’ve had to cut so many people out my life.
So true regards talking about other people. Gossips. Hate it. Or the victim mode after they cause the trouble anyway

[patriciachisholm]

Wow this hit home in a big way with me past and present. Thank you so much lovelies, you're amazing 💖👌

[katieking]

Thank you for this, can’t wait to hear your tips considering both toxic people in my life are my parents who I live with hopefully moving in a couple of weeks X

[shannon]

This is a really really interesting video. Thankyou💛

[TigerLily]

Sounds like my mother and my big brother 😞

[chrisnicholls]

Damn my ex Harvey was toxic and I’m just realising and trying to come to terms with it. Do you have anything for recovery from these situations please?

[red]

What about the people that only want you when certain people are no longer interested in them, and use you for their own benefit and favours.