Men vs women in early stages of dating…#shorts

[scottsommer]

The biggest issue is that women don't see this as "using" men. For some reason many believe that they're simply entitled to it.

[carmeltabby]

Watching shorts like this help me understand why my bf thinks I walk on water just by being a decent person and caring about him, his feelings and his well-being at all times.

[OverworkedPostalEmployee]

Just got out of a 6 year relationship basically from this. One of the final straws was when she said, "I feel like I work just as hard as you because I'm more tired than you are." I have been working 50-60 hours a week for years (in not an easy job) to pay off our debts (hers and mine) and get ahead, while she has only ever worked 20 hours a week. We only had a 1 br apartment and a small dog. I did all the housework and paid all the bills but her cellphone. Went on a road trip once a month, and a 3-5 day vacation every 6 months. She left for "lack of effort" since I sleep at odd hours, and on days off, and couldn't always keep up doing all the housework. She left and left left the dog her parents bought for her too.

[bobbyavitia]

Women consider not putting 100% of your effort everytime as not putting in any effort. Men will appreciate every single compliment you give them and remember it.

[georgew.]

Ah now I understand why everything goes blah and dull as the relationship progresses. The woman thinks that she doesn’t have to contribute anything to the relationship. And so it dies. That’s pathetic.

[HatOnAHat]

Emily... Thank you for saying this. As a man, I really appreciate hearing a woman say these things.

[steveroberts]

I’m afraid to say that women are simply not worth the effort. Too much hard work for so little return.

[DavidSibley]

I don’t remember his name but one guy on the internet said don’t give a woman a damn thing unless she reciprocates. The reciprocation may be small like a smile or whatever but there has to be reciprocation. I think good advice.

[kainejoyes]

Spot on…I’m done with women full stop. I’d rather enjoy my time with people who value it than waste it with a ‘modern woman.’ Won’t even speak to a women now. Simple not worth it. Funny how much time and spare resources i have since doing this for a year. Speak Japanese now, play piano, in shape, travel, invest, lunch with friends, only work 20 hours a week and live very comfortably.

[brooks]

Australia legalized prostitution and the divorce rate dropped. American women suffer from lack of competition. We need to change that.

[NickCamokidVisneski]

The worst example of this is when she brings a friend and expects us to pay for all 3. Everytime a girl tells me she's bringing a friend I tell her don't worry we can go out another time.

[jasonmoore]

So true. The disappointment score from negative past experiences will destroy any man's trust and willingness to take another shot at it. Especially when they see that happening to others..

[Orion]

The problem is that modern women feel entitled to this, and men are getting tired of the entitlement.

Relationships require effort from both partners, and many modern women are unwilling to put in any effort at all, because they've been conditioned not to.

It's just not worth it for men to put in all of the effort, and get none in return. Many of us have realized this, and don't see the point, anymore.

[austinmckee]

100% truth and thats a nice way to put it. That we are just tired of being used.

[Redbird]

If you're attractive, she'll move mountains for you. If you're unattractive, it's just enough effort to access your finances.

[nephetula]

"A man wants a woman that will stay the same, while a woman wants a man she can change. But in the end, neither gets what they want."

HD Charles

[danielfigueroa]

Really can relate. Done being used and done being angry

[nightravin]

Solution for men moving foward is going into an environment where we are needed and not just wanted a man's own resources. It took a man to dig it up for ya in the first place, the least you can do is give some admiration and gratitude.

[BeyondParanormal]

Such a valid point. The effort seems to only be one sided so it makes it not even worth the effort anymore honestly. I’m cool staying in my lane and doing my own thing. I’m ashamed it took me so long to realize it though.

[nocturnalrecluse]

She hit the nail on the head there! Spot on. 💯