7 Reasons Narcissists Don't Come Back

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If you've been discarded by a narcissist after a long-term relationship, you've probably heard that they will come back someday, attempting to hoover you back. But, this is not always the case. In this video, I explain some of the main reasons why narcissists discard their partner and never ever look back. This video is intended to help you understand the narcissist's motives behind their abrupt and permanent exit from your life.

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Once you realize what they are. You will not be hurt. You will leave them in the dust

josephfigura
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It is amazing how quickly a narcissist will drop you when they realize you have their number.

kathleendinsmore
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#7
“A snake is a snake, no matter how many times they shed their skin.” 💯💯💯💯💯

OptimisticMaya
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#1: When you expose their true nature
#2: If you experience significant failures or problems
#3: When they lose control over you
#4: Excessive emotional neediness
#5: The loss of physical attractiveness or sexual interest
#6: fear of retaliation or retribution
#7: Establishing a new identity

AlexRyan
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I am just coming out of the fog from one of these relationships. It really hurts to have gone through this experience. These videos are a great help and are very much on point. I never knew my friend was one of those people. I still miss them, but I know that they were toxic. The pain is very exhausting.

stevenwoods
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I hate when people say emotional neediness. Of course people have emotional neediness. That’s the sole purpose of being in a relationship. The problem is, and why this is even valid, is because the narcissist withholds affection, love, emotion it’s self, and even sex, but then when you ask for any of those things, that’s when this emotional neediness comes up. It’s just a manipulation tactic to have something they can blame you for.

Being with my narcissistic ex, I was literally starving for affection and attention from her. But then when you ask for these things they ask why you’re so needy. No it’s not called being needy, it’s called being deprived.

cincyfanjunglecity
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“No matter who you are and what you do, there’s a deeper reason they have to devalue and discard you.”

mehassan
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😂 Your describing my mother. When my dad got sick she left him, when i lost my job she left me.

neommutle
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If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation and invest.

roselineonyeka
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Bingo!! You are spot on! My pretty, intelligent and successful ex-wife, who never argued with anyone (other than me behind closed doors) and who remains a respected public figure with a stellar reputation-- a woman I've never heard anyone say anything bad about-- she's not what she seems. A year prior to her leaving me out of the blue, she had begun a slander campaign against me with her friends that I was not aware of until after she had left. She led a secret life throughout our marriage that included many lesbian affairs. No one has any idea that she sucks her thumb when she gets upset. No one understands this woman talks to herself in the mirror. She is terrified I will reveal her many secrets to the world, so she pretends I don't exist. It's a like a child who covers their face so they can't see what is scaring them, so the threat doesn't exist. My ex-wife refuses to talk to me or communicate despite the fact I have never yelled at her, called her names, or claimed she ruined my life. I have complied with all of her requests for a divorce. Yet.... she remains terrified I will reveal who she really is publicly. She's absolutely terrified and therefore demonizes me in her own head. It's hard to accept after spending so many years with her, but accept I must and I have.

bhbecca
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The narc didn't come back after I went to the district attorney and told them everything. Telling the truth is usually enough to scare the narcissist away for eternity.

NovaPrincess
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Re: #6: Revenge: How I got revenge on my narcissistic ex.

My violent ex falsely accused *me* of violence and I was charged with a felony. She eventually admitted to the judge in a written letter that she had lied, that she was the violent one and I had done nothing wrong. The charges were dropped.

Later, while she was still living with me, she got herself pregnant by another guy and tried to convince me that I was the father. Thank God for prenatal paternity tests. The relationship, of course, ended at that point.

A few years later I discovered that she and her husband were splitting up and each had counter claims of violence filed against the other.

I sent a copy of her written letter to her husband’s lawyer with details and additional evidence of her long history of violence and making false accusations of violence against myself and other men.

I wish I could have been in the courtroom to see her publicly confronted with verifiable evidence of her lies in a court of law. Her narcissistic rage would not serve her well in that venue. ;)

AlexRyan
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Lise has the best narcissism videos on youtube. To anyone wanting to learn about it, you've found the right channel.

Duzykutas
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I suffered so much by being with a female covert, Thank you so much for this video, this clearly helps us understand the dynamics .

vickynesh
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Sam Vaknin said Cluster B people are stuck in childhood, therefore they should be treated with child psychology.

RaffertyMBTI
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"Superior" in terms of being more easily manipulated. "Superior" in terms of being unaware, and naive, and trusting like we once were. But it won't last, or if it does, the narcissist will never be content. They'll always have, at the very least, wondering eyes, bitterly jealous of what others have that they will never have.

gangGreenthumb
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Been no contact for 2+ months, I miss her but I don't. I don't miss the 1-1/2 years of gaslighting. I pray to God and feel sorry for her next victim....it's sad. Recovery is very difficult....the thoughts, the replaying, the money, cars, gifts, etc...but I never spent more than 3 days with this person...it was a long distance relationship. Not about love....seduction, love bombing, ghosting, trauma bond, manipulation and worst of all gaslighting. I dint wish this on any man. Strategic manipulator, toxic female covert narcissist = pure evil, PERIOD.

TJKashatus
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It's even harder when after you leave then they stop you from seeing your two amazing young boys aged 8 and 10 for no justification whatsoever

danieljones
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i think this is the most useful content on such a behaviour placed on youtube - ever

dizzysmit
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"What the hell just happened"& "Holy Shit" were the first words outta my mouth when I seen the first video about NPD by YOU towards the end of a 3 year relationship long before I ever knew what NPD was!!! Your video cracked the code!! July of 2022 Thank you 1, 0000 times

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