The best way to get revenge on a narcissist is to work on yourself and focus on you. I promise

The best way to get revenge on a narcissist is to work on yourself and focus on you. I promise

[Taylor-nznf]

I was finally able to walk away from 36 years of a toxic marriage. I finally was able to focus on myself and what I wanted to do and went back to school at 55 and became a nurse.

[christmasmoncada]

Exactly, and when they reach out to you you’ll no longer care about them.

[raquelm]

"I knew you could do it", they'd probably give credit themselves for our growth 🤣🤣🤣 such ego. Thank you again 🙏

[andreamelless]

Like you have said b4...NO CONTACT, NO RESPONSE to their nonsense!

[Jessica_BR]

"When you grow, you glow" 💖

[khoango]

I'm constantly jumping from being really angry with them to feeling compassion for them, because I know there's something wrong with their brains .

[scottalbers]

"To do all the things you couldn't do when they were holding you back."
I did this instantly. I wasn't aware that this was right. But it's nice to know it was.

[tsujic]

Yup... move on, glow up, and be happy. And the simple fact you aren't giving crap about them, it will drive them crazy.

[kimberlywillis]

I've literally gained more insight on my NPD husband from your vids than I have from my therapist in 3 years. Thank you.

[SandriaGuest]

My man nailed it again. Even if the best you can do is taking baby steps. I’m talking separating your laundry even though you’re not able to wash them just yet. Shower brush your teeth and hair. Those baby steps will lead you to living your best life. I know this now.

[CIslas-imum]

I gave him a taste of his own medicine by silence and ghosting him forever.

[Jessica-zfdf]

Someone once said that the best revenge is to live a happy life. Amen.

[lisar]

This is 100 true, I got a new job and took up art, I have a new purpose in life, and that's me

[MoeSoNatural]

He watched my glow up from 2 months into the relationship til the end to be honest. Continued income increase, promotions and more…. He one day said “I know you slowed yourself down to wait on me so that I could catch up. You’re far but you’d be further if you didn’t slow down for me” - probably the one time he was honest aloud. Of course it came out of a conversation where I was stroking his ego - still, after I left, it was even MORE growth!

[realhealing]

Live your best life without the narcissists!!!

[zentient]

I'm glowing up! When I get discarded, 🤷🏾‍♀️.

[Ashdaesq]

The power shift!!! Take back control! Becoming even more powerful and less reactive to them eats them alive!! I love it!

[Jessica-zfdf]

I get pleasure in doing small things like turning on the hot water tap to wash the dishes as he always made me fill the kettle with cold water and boil it on the gas hob. Don't ask me why! The house rules were endless and ridiculous. It just feels so good to be doing normal things without getting narcissistic rage.

[acasiadolphin]

You become the narcissist in the situation when you want to work to hurt them back or work to make them feel the same pain as you did.

[esthero]

Yes...very true. I decided im just going to chase my dreams. Getting my private pilot license 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼. Just do it. Chase your dreams.