How To KILL Your Inner 'Nice Guy'

Stop being a nice guy by observing your physiological reactions to certain situations.

In this short video from a live Q&A with my private group of men who are growing stronger everyday in every way, we discuss how to stop being a nice guy. Let me know what you think.

P.S. If you're interested in becoming a KING in your life (in fitness, business and with women) and want to join a group of like-minded men who are growing stronger everyday in every way in this degenerate age...

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[johannwilder]

It’s simple. Don’t be afraid to make enemies or have people hate you. Focus on your purpose and only concern yourself with the opinions of those you respect.

[gmchessplay]

I’ve come to realize that “your best self” is simultaneously existing as part of your unconscious. Your ultimate version exists right now, inside of you, it’s just an unconscious reality.

[goodmorningweimerica]

There is no better way to build strength and confidence than going through hardship and relying on only yourself and God to get out of it.

[haroldmerewether]

My vocal chords often tighten and my voice becomes higher pitched when my nice guy comes out lol

[ImBritoEric]

do the hard things and have discipline

[tokyodrift]

ive always struggled with this as a 22 year old. whenever i interact with someone i have the need to smile and become extra friendly. the thing is i really dont feel comfortable doing that.

[usamakaram]

How to Kill your Nice Guy. Elliot Hustle
1- Never Judge Yourself, Be what you are and vision to become who you are.
2- Notice yourself, Self-awareness. Notice when you become Nice Guy and Replace with Bad Guy Mentality. Notice what kind of people triggered your Niceness? Where this pattern works. Be Observer, Just Watch and take Inventory. Don't notice based on Action, start take notice of movements. Self-awareness leads to Self-Control. All happens through the body. (Hack) Breathe deep with Grace. It's hard to be fake when you're Relaxed.
3- Trust yourself that you are more than enough. You have Confidence, keep surrendering. Always in a Being State. Practice Confidence. Practice being responsive in the moment, and the way you became responsive is just by being Relaxed, and how you can become relaxed is by Stopping and noticing being self-aware

[AuthenticSelfGrowth]

Throw yourself into challenging situations, first learn how to cope and eventually you'll thrive. That will develop your self trust and confidence

[princeekeson]

Sounds like metacognition. I can honestly say that even though I've gotten better, I still have to make a conscious effort every single day to push the "nice guy", people pleaser out of me. Therapy, meditation, and recover help me with self awareness.

[keyonsimms]

Training in martial arts helped me evolved not as a person but as a Man . I'm still dedicated to be great in life. All I truly care about is my journey and the success that will come with it thanks Elliott for this lesson 💯💪

[ChristoVlogz]

For some reason this video gave me the motivation to trust myself again. Great video Elliot Hulse

[johnlopez]

Just bought Eliot’s book King 4, this guy is the real deal, he exudes confidence but always trying to be humble about it, i may not agree with all his views but I sure am attracted to his “best version of yourself” approach

[RICHIE_RICH]

Man i was brought up with a hard hard core dad he looked at you one time mad you knew to listen like right now he was known by everyone where i live that that was the guy you did not mess with. He cleaned bars out in his day . That and i grew up with three brothers that where hardcore. We paved our name in our city for sure . Not proud of it now i realize how awful and foolish we all wh were. Violence is bad. You grow up and have kids and do not want them to be like you. Different subject but the authority is still there for sure. Being confident is huge . Nice guys kinda do finish last unless you left a big big impact people know and do not forget. I call it respect. Anyways a blance of nice and being straightforward is a must. Kindness goes a long way. But today theres always a ass hole that is out there sadly . Self awareness is super huge in any situation. Good speech elliot. Nothing worse than somone thats mean but will not help someone in harm or someone of LESS STRENGTH. That is a huge thing i do not like. Good luck you all jave confidence and trust in yourself . Practice at everything the best people fail and become better and better.

[benc]

Con (with) fidence -> fidelity (trust, faith): Build your inner trust by working on improving yourself and getting better, that's the only way for your concious and subconcious mind to trust and have faith in yourself. Amazing video Elliot!

[NoPhatChicks]

Man im 25 years old, been a subscriber for a long time and just started pickin back up on your videos again recently and man timing could not have been any better. your insight on all these different topics in life are so refreshing and meaningful man thank you

[brady]

Relaxation causes realness is so true that's why people are different when there drunk it's because there's no guard up your being yourself

[TonTon.]

This is actually golden material. It basically relates to the “frame” concept that gets tossed around a lot in TRP circles, but it’s a refreshing take on it. Self-awareness leads to self-control. Self-control allows you to better navigate your interactions with others, because you can make the calculated moves. Roissy said something like, “once you have control over yourself, you will have control over her.” Also, another one worthwhile: “confidence is the belief that, no matter what happens, everything is going to be alright.” Though, don’t get ahead of yourself. Arrogance is going balls to the wall without any regard for the consequences of your actions or what’s gonna happen when you press play in any given scenario. Anyway, this video’s getting added to the classics list.

[joshtrenchard]

My nice guy came out yesterday & I got so fucking angry & hateful at myself… it’s a challenge to not judge yourself sometimes when you feel how much of a fake lil bitch you’re acting like lol. Great advice Eliott & shout out to all the recovering nice guys out there 💪🏻

[Viral-Boss]

Gotta love Elliott. The things you say are so relatable to me. Thank you for everything man.

[soccerguys]

KEEP DOING VIDEOS PLZ! DONT STOP! NO MORE BREAKS! WE ARE ALL GROWING EVERYDAY CUZ OF THE TRUTH YOUR SPEAKING!!!