Black Love Live | How to Heal in a Marriage

On this episode of Black Love Live, @MrsKevOnStage shares how the divorce of her parents caused her to dig deep into who she really was for the sake of her marriage. @KevOnStage shares how catching up to the new and improved version of Melissa proved to be more difficult than expected.

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[leslieanderson]

When Kev said the gifts were never for her but for his ego, I felt that... this was good!

[shashavengesayi]

Watching these clips makes me feel like I'm in a masterclass for my future marriage. But on a real note Kevin was asking for a death sentence with that comment

[allyb]

I love Melissa's realness !! I could listen to her talk for hours without getting annoyed

[Reeses]

Lol, "I know some women that would've liked that gift" …..and Kev is still here to tell his side of his story, lol!!!

[bredbornraisedhawaii]

Im just speechless! I wish my husband would take just 1% of your tips! Been together now since 2007 almost 18 years this year. We have grown SO FAR APART it hurts my soul. He ALWAYS throws things in my face and says things like “you liked doing it when we just met” or “you liked it when we were strangers” and YES thats the truth. I DID like it, but seriously! I’ve GROWN older and have evolved more into a woman and a person. I dont like the SAME THINGS i liked 20 years ago. OR maybe it could be I CANT do the same things ive done 20 years ago! Im turning 50y/o this year, i know its still young BUT i dont feel like im in my late 20s/early 30s no mo! I’ve LOST myself in between the years. When she said “i dont even know what i like” that hit me really hard. When im asked “what do you like doing or whats your hobbies” i have no answer because i REALLY DONT KNOW! And that is really sad! Anyway, sorry for the long post. I just really appreciate this show because it’s very inspiring and very informative. Thank you so much.

[jalessabragg]

I love the rawness of their stories and the unadulterated truth! This is the best thing next to church! Amen

[ashleyrenee]

The key to Liss refusing to "be her parents" is having a partner who is willing to listen, respond, and adjust. If Kev only ever criticized her concerns if would be difficult. But at least she could say she she tried and be able to walk away with peace if she chose to do so.

[RashekaO]

Melissa is so right. I have been a passive person for most of my life but recently I have been very vocal with my partner right away when things bother me. I have been known for holding things in but as I’m getting older and more mature I see how critical it is to communicate, effectively of course, right away when something bothers me.

[TheMichelleRena]

That was a testimony Kev, you preach when you want to

[Nahnie-jbwo]

Fiance said the same to me ... "I know plenty of women who'd love to live in this house (referring to his new home) ... He knew he was wrong as soon as it flew out of his mouth. But I'll be honest, it really crushed me.

[Blessemm-c]

These conversations are so reflective. I just had an epiphany that could lead to a forgiveness of myself that I have been longing for, for years. Thank you Lord! 🙏🏽😇

[natashaj]

My mouth dropped open and is still open as i type. Kevin kept it real.

[twosaints]

This is REALLY good stuff. Candid conversations about marriage and how to have it work.

[anyaangel]

Melisa is so full of wisdom, I’m clicking on everything she’s apart of

[papapeedo]

Melissa- Do NOT give up on this man-it feels like your journey should not end the same as your mom!!

[valerieesther]

Wooow, Mellisa you are so deep and wise. These are beautiful words!

[wesleyking]

For me, I love hearing from elders on marital situations. Receiving wisdom from grandma & grandpa never fails..

[liveinviolet]

7:11 I was LITERALLY yelling at the phone screen with this one 😩 Nooo KevOnStage!! WHEW CHILE 😨

[LoniLoni]

Why am I just seeing this video with Mel and Kev?! Oh my gosh Mel yes feel the feels and do that change that you feel will help keep your marriage together. Amen!

[Christimony]

I am so grateful for this channel. God has truly used your marriage to bless an entire collective and save/construct many families. That is such a calling!