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Connie's FULL recovery story from CFS & CIRS - and why grit is overrated
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Connie was the person who inspired me that recovery was possible. Connie shares her full recovery story from CFS, CIRS, and mold-illness through brain retraining and explains why grit is overrated. Starts at 0:23. TIMESTAMPS below.
OVERVIEW:
Dr. Connie Boczarksi was a master at pushing through, until her body said no more. Connie had moderate Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and severe Chronic Inflammatory Response Syndrome for 5+ years, though had health issues bubbling under the surface for longer. Her key symptoms included brain fog, debilitating fatigue, crashes, light sensitivity, mold sensitivity, nausea, dizziness, and more.
Connie was the recovery story I watched on the DNRS website that convinced me I could heal by retraining my brain, since our stories had so many overlaps. She shares her authentic experience about brain retraining and answers questions like “do you need to move out of a moldy place to heal?” [Disclaimer: Nothing we share is medical advice. We're just sharing our own stories and observations.]
We talk about the “achiever” culture in brain retraining, and why that isn’t always a good thing. Connie shares brilliant wisdom on how resilience is more important than grit, which I think could be a TED talk.
TIMESTAMPS:
0:23 Intro and full circle moment
1:16 Connie’s purpose for sharing her story
1:47 Connie’s life before she was struck down with CFS and CIRS
3:05 Onset
4:30 Connie describes her former job as a chiropractor
5:13 Connie moves into an even moldier office, and this happens
6:00 Connie describes her most debilitating symptoms; which symptoms had workarounds and which didn’t
7:20 Do I shower or do I eat?
7:43 After her tipping point, how she still tried to go to the gym. The phone call she gets from her doctor on a Sunday, and what the biggest lab in the US said.
10:03 Why her functional doctor said she needed someone else
10:52 Things took a sharp turn – seeing a chronic fatigue MD who tried the kill approach.
11:37 Connie’s big realization about the kill approach.
12:04 How other specialists in the traditional medical system gave her PTSD
12:55 Finally finding a doctor who knew about mold
14:04 What was validating about CIRS doctor, but what was the challenge
15:31 Do people need to get out of the mold? Our reflections, not medical advice.
18:11 Epigentics – and PhotoShop adventures with her friend Mark
18:58 Walking on eggshells
21:07 Rock bottoms
22:30 Why I am mad about medical extremes!
23:49 Diet changes?
24:17 Why she lied to her CIRS doctor about not having MCAS symptoms
26:27 How Connie found the modality that worked for her – and what guy bought it for her
28:18 Reading the book first
29:32 What part of this new modality made sense to her?
30:45 Connie’s experience with the DNRS DVDs (it’s only available online now). Getting back into a familiar pattern. What symptom immediately went away.
32:20 Connie describes ebbs and flows of brain retraining
33:07 What was Connie’s favorite aspect of DNRS – Connie had this real-talk answer!
34:32 Nuance between pushing through and doing the work. Doing the full hour?
37:02 Learning to be gentler on herself. There is a funny quote in here.
38:44 Why how measuring success through symptoms and then through achieving can have drawbacks
40:23 Grit vs resilience
42:23 We reflect on Phil Murray interview who said this.
44:19 Timeline of how long she was sick + how long it took to recover
48:01 Connie’s advice about people who are anxious about being anxious once they realize it’s the nervous system, based on a recent YouTube comment
49:23 What inspired Connie to change her career
50:13 How she's helping people now beyond just brain retraining. And how she's helping friends and family get on board.
53:04 Common misunderstandings people have when doing a brain retraining program
55:46 Connie’s views about the positivity approach in some BR programs
59:34 How do you retrain on mold?
1:01:57 Connie’s life now. While healthy and well she still has to remind herself THIS.
1:02:51 Connie weekend volunteering to hike with rescue dogs
1:03:48 How to find Connie
1:04:12 Connie’s final words of wisdom
1:04:48 Goodbyes – what about Connie’s testimonial helped me keep going
1:06:51 Pictures of rescue dogs Connie took on hikes and now with their forever homes
1:07:23 Outtake
Other video mentioned in this chat:
DNRS recovery stories:
*Independent Programs Guide:*
Lindsay Vine (host of the Post-Viral Podcast) and I (Liz) published a 190 page guide containing an in-depth analysis of 25 Lifestyle & Nervous System Regulation programs. Get your copy here:
OVERVIEW:
Dr. Connie Boczarksi was a master at pushing through, until her body said no more. Connie had moderate Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and severe Chronic Inflammatory Response Syndrome for 5+ years, though had health issues bubbling under the surface for longer. Her key symptoms included brain fog, debilitating fatigue, crashes, light sensitivity, mold sensitivity, nausea, dizziness, and more.
Connie was the recovery story I watched on the DNRS website that convinced me I could heal by retraining my brain, since our stories had so many overlaps. She shares her authentic experience about brain retraining and answers questions like “do you need to move out of a moldy place to heal?” [Disclaimer: Nothing we share is medical advice. We're just sharing our own stories and observations.]
We talk about the “achiever” culture in brain retraining, and why that isn’t always a good thing. Connie shares brilliant wisdom on how resilience is more important than grit, which I think could be a TED talk.
TIMESTAMPS:
0:23 Intro and full circle moment
1:16 Connie’s purpose for sharing her story
1:47 Connie’s life before she was struck down with CFS and CIRS
3:05 Onset
4:30 Connie describes her former job as a chiropractor
5:13 Connie moves into an even moldier office, and this happens
6:00 Connie describes her most debilitating symptoms; which symptoms had workarounds and which didn’t
7:20 Do I shower or do I eat?
7:43 After her tipping point, how she still tried to go to the gym. The phone call she gets from her doctor on a Sunday, and what the biggest lab in the US said.
10:03 Why her functional doctor said she needed someone else
10:52 Things took a sharp turn – seeing a chronic fatigue MD who tried the kill approach.
11:37 Connie’s big realization about the kill approach.
12:04 How other specialists in the traditional medical system gave her PTSD
12:55 Finally finding a doctor who knew about mold
14:04 What was validating about CIRS doctor, but what was the challenge
15:31 Do people need to get out of the mold? Our reflections, not medical advice.
18:11 Epigentics – and PhotoShop adventures with her friend Mark
18:58 Walking on eggshells
21:07 Rock bottoms
22:30 Why I am mad about medical extremes!
23:49 Diet changes?
24:17 Why she lied to her CIRS doctor about not having MCAS symptoms
26:27 How Connie found the modality that worked for her – and what guy bought it for her
28:18 Reading the book first
29:32 What part of this new modality made sense to her?
30:45 Connie’s experience with the DNRS DVDs (it’s only available online now). Getting back into a familiar pattern. What symptom immediately went away.
32:20 Connie describes ebbs and flows of brain retraining
33:07 What was Connie’s favorite aspect of DNRS – Connie had this real-talk answer!
34:32 Nuance between pushing through and doing the work. Doing the full hour?
37:02 Learning to be gentler on herself. There is a funny quote in here.
38:44 Why how measuring success through symptoms and then through achieving can have drawbacks
40:23 Grit vs resilience
42:23 We reflect on Phil Murray interview who said this.
44:19 Timeline of how long she was sick + how long it took to recover
48:01 Connie’s advice about people who are anxious about being anxious once they realize it’s the nervous system, based on a recent YouTube comment
49:23 What inspired Connie to change her career
50:13 How she's helping people now beyond just brain retraining. And how she's helping friends and family get on board.
53:04 Common misunderstandings people have when doing a brain retraining program
55:46 Connie’s views about the positivity approach in some BR programs
59:34 How do you retrain on mold?
1:01:57 Connie’s life now. While healthy and well she still has to remind herself THIS.
1:02:51 Connie weekend volunteering to hike with rescue dogs
1:03:48 How to find Connie
1:04:12 Connie’s final words of wisdom
1:04:48 Goodbyes – what about Connie’s testimonial helped me keep going
1:06:51 Pictures of rescue dogs Connie took on hikes and now with their forever homes
1:07:23 Outtake
Other video mentioned in this chat:
DNRS recovery stories:
*Independent Programs Guide:*
Lindsay Vine (host of the Post-Viral Podcast) and I (Liz) published a 190 page guide containing an in-depth analysis of 25 Lifestyle & Nervous System Regulation programs. Get your copy here:
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